She is like a beam of light, bright.

She is as cheerful as a gust of wind.

Xianyang, rainy day, 65438+ 00:30 pm. Your sister is sitting in the hotel room, eating peaches and chatting happily with our fans in Baoji. Jeans, sea soul shirt, small face, big eyes and short hair, just like a lively and kind miss next door. She told us that the drama "Our Distance from Evil" we are chasing has a deep understanding of human nature, and other TV dramas are all 18 Street. She told us how she led the children to learn Chinese in Qinglanshan School, and also told us about her hardships in learning English and her understanding of life. She is warm, frank and relaxed, as if she dragged her luggage to the hotel as soon as she got off the plane, and she didn't need to rest, as if she was surrounded by a group of her old friends.

This time, your sister brought us a group reading class. Will you be angry in spring? Let the students understand through three poems that have the same but completely different feelings about spring-all the "landscape talks" are the presentation of people's different moods, and two articles written in different centuries, Cicada and Ant Cicada, tell the students that all the "story talks" are the expressions of people's different philosophies, and let the students understand through various disputes about whether the little boy should give an umbrella to the female teacher in the network incident. Therefore, only with the ability of critical thinking can we not be kidnapped by others and ourselves. Then, like spring, we will never get angry.

After that, your sister shared with you her practice and thinking in Chinese education in recent years for nearly an hour. Whether reading a group article or reading a whole book, it ultimately points to cultivating students' sunny thinking mode. Your sister said that she thought it was too young, and she only studied languages and tool languages. This is our mother tongue. What we teach our children through Chinese should be the way of thinking, pattern and feelings! Only your sister dares to say so. Where does she teach Chinese? She is opening a channel for children's lives, and she is teaching children how to live happily. In her mind, language is just a Buddhist finger pointing to the moon, and what children finally see is the bright moon!

Chinese class? Psychology class? Thinking class? Philosophy class? Or a happy class? Maybe none of these names are important. What matters is how to become a better person. Isn't this the essence of youth language? Teaching method is living method, and living method is teaching method!

As a national famous teacher admired by everyone, your sister lives so truly and transparently. When she returned to the hotel after class in the afternoon, she didn't go upstairs directly, but she had to run around. When we took photos of her and Mr. Dong Pei, she repeatedly stressed that we should take beautiful photos, but they were both handsome and beautiful. As soon as I entered the restaurant at noon, I made a loud joke with my friend. I didn't expect to see your sister who bowed her head to eat, which scared me to open my mouth and shut up. Jie Jun said: "Don't do this, just treat me as a' person' off the stage."

Even while walking and chatting with her, I was so excited that I unconsciously patted your sister on the shoulder several times. Alas, I can't remember! I'm a little confused. How dare I regard your sister as my good sister? How dare I relax or even indulge like that in front of your sister?

At this moment, I finally understand that many times, the differences between people are not differences in moral quality, but differences in ways of thinking and mental models.

I suddenly realized that those "children" who imagine that they have become parents in class may not be selfish as we say, but parents who lack a healthy way of thinking and a slightly larger mental model because they love children and are afraid of being tired and sunburned!

Look at yourself quietly and look around. Who can say that you must be qualified to blame those children?

Therefore, you need to practice all the way. Thank you for reminding me again and for your tireless candlelight. You run ahead, and our pursuit will have a direction.

So, tell yourself silently: Be a better person anyway.