Shen Teng and his current wife, Wang Qi, are both students majoring in drama performance in China People's Liberation Army Art College. That year, Shen Teng was a senior and Wang Qi was a freshman. Although Shen Teng is developing much better than Wang Qi now, at school, Wang Qi was a straight A student who studied hard and made progress every day, while Shen Teng was a "scum" who played games online all day.
At that time, during the SARS period, the school was closed and the students took great pains to hold a party. Wang Qi, a versatile girl, danced a tap dance with her partner at the party, which immediately attracted Shen Teng. Shen Teng tried his best to get Wang Qi's number and sent the first message to Wang Qi under the covers: Wrong posture, get up and go to sleep! This used to be the most popular joke of the year. Looking back now, Shen Teng himself said: Good soil. At the moment of receiving the message, Wang Qi thought it was a mistake, so he answered politely. However, after a period of time, the two became familiar with each other, and Wang Qi was also attracted by Shen Teng's talent and eventually became a lover.
Like many college lovers, Shen Teng likes to play games in college, and Wang Qi lets him do whatever he wants. Although I don't play, I also play in the Internet cafe with Shen Teng. When I am sleepy, I sleep on my desk.
Second, Wang Qi broke up twice.
Wang Qi and Shen Teng broke up before, but it wasn't serious. The most serious one was breaking up after graduation. Just graduated at that time, Shen Teng lived in an apartment next to the school. He is lazy, seldom goes out for interviews, and spends most of his time studying scripts and playing games at home. After a long time, my ass is covered with hemorrhoids. Later, although I was fortunate enough to enter the Twist FunAge crew, Twist FunAge was not very popular at first. Many actors choose to leave because they can't see the hope of the future. Only Shen Teng happily followed the team all day and didn't want the future at all.
Wang Qi is lovely. She is also an actress. She started filming before graduation, which will develop better than Shen Teng. Because the benefit of Shen Teng Opera Troupe is not good, their life is unsustainable. Wang Qi works hard and earns money by himself. For a year and a half, she was so tired that she collapsed every day. When she dragged her tired body home, Shen Teng didn't care or take care of her. Plus, after graduating from college, I have more contacts. Compared with other people's boyfriends, they are very caring. Shen Teng, like a child, only plays games, doesn't want to be famous, doesn't plan to earn much money, has no plans for the future, and is indifferent to himself. This Shen Teng makes Wang Qi feel very cold, and he can't see hope and future.
What annoys her most is that once Shen Teng played Legend, because of the fight in the game, she got angry with blisters. Wang Qi couldn't help getting angry: "When I quarreled with you, I got angry again. If you are not angry, eat and sleep. " You don't care if I cry beside you. You're angry about a stupid game. You're just playing a game! "
In the Spring Festival of 2007, Wang Qi and Shen Teng formally broke up. She sent a short message to Shen Teng: "Have you thought about what I want? What I want is money? Right? Or the care and care of men? " The moment Shen Teng received the text message, the whole person froze. Afterwards, he reflected and said, "People may not know every weakness or deficiency of themselves." You don't know repentance until someone wakes up. "
Third, after the breakup, what did Shen Teng experience?
After being broken up, Shen Teng, like many lovelorn people, realized what heartbreak is. In his own words, it is "like a knife."
That girl used to accompany her and take care of everything. When she is hungry, she eats a bowl of fennel noodles. Now, there is only one room available.
He lay on the sofa for several days and didn't want to do anything for a year.
Shen Teng began to learn from these mistakes and reflect on her boyfriend's incompetence. She got 20 points at most.
Fourthly, Shen Teng has opened the road to recovery.
Although tortured by the pain of breaking up, the male chauvinism in his bones made him powerless. But breaking up also made him more aware of Wang Qi's weight in his heart.
Shen Teng, who was too lazy to die before, began to be diligent after breaking up, from an actor to an assistant director to a screenwriter, director and actor.
He also began to try to care about Wang Qi. When it was cold, he sent a message to Wang Qi asking her to add some clothes, but Wang Qi didn't accept it.
At that time, Wang Qi felt that they had broken up, so don't pester them any more.
5. Valentine's Day date was ruthlessly rejected.
On the first Valentine's Day after the breakup, Shen Teng gingerly asked Wang Qi to meet him, but Wang Qi flatly refused. Wang Qi replied, "I have an appointment that day." .
Shen Teng, who was rejected, was a little disheartened, but didn't want to give up.
On Valentine's Day, Wang Qi played with a group of friends until evening 12. When she got home, she found Shen Teng still waiting for her. She relented at once and promised to see him. Shen Teng said nothing, but gave Wang Qi a bracelet prepared in advance. It's a small pendant with platinum, gold and colored gold. Very beautiful. Wang Qi was a little sad with the bracelet: If he was so kind to her before, how could she break up with him?
Sixth, the students got together and finally got back together.
More than half a year after Valentine's Day, the two silently cared about each other, but did not contact each other again.
Until July 2007, Shen Teng and Wang Qi's classmates rehearsed the stage play. He called Wang Qi: "I'm with your classmate. Come here and have dinner together. " Wang Qi went, and as soon as she saw Shen Teng, she cried, tears stream down. Shen Teng didn't cry, but he felt very sad. After this meal, the two got back together.
Seven, after the reunion, they changed a lot.
Great changes have taken place in Shenzhen and Wang Qi since the reunification.
Shen Teng has become more mature and responsible. He will ask Wang Qi for advice in everything he does. He didn't start playing games until Wang Qi asked him to. When Wang Qi asked him to stop, he stopped immediately. If Shen Teng needs to have dinner with the opposite sex, he won't go unless Wang Qi agrees. Wang Qi used to be a perfectionist, but now she has learned to tolerate and compromise, and appreciates Shen Teng's imperfection. After the reunion, they cherish their hard-won feelings even more.
Eight, after the reunification, Shen Teng career has been rising, but delayed getting married.
In 20 12, Shen Teng made his debut in CCTV Spring Festival Evening, performing the sketch "Happiness Today" and playing "Hao Jian" in the sketch. On 20 13, Shen Teng boarded the CCTV Spring Festival Evening again and performed the sketch "Happiness Today 2".
After that, Shen Teng participated in CCTV Spring Festival Gala many times. Shen Teng's name began to spread all over the country.
Shen Teng's situation has also undergone earth-shaking changes after the red explosion, and all kinds of resources have poured in, which has been soft.
Nine, Wang Qi forced Shen Teng to help Shen Teng overcome his fear of marriage.
By 20 13, Wang Qi is 30 years old and has been in love for so many years. Wang Qi wants to settle down, and there is a result. Seeing that Shen Teng never talked about marriage, Wang Qi proposed and forced Shen Teng to get married, but Shen Teng still felt that now was not the best time to get married. With Mary, many netizens want them to be together, even though Shen Teng has repeatedly stressed that he has a girlfriend who has been talking for 12 years.
Wang Qi is very unhappy. Many activities will follow Shen Teng. Even netizens can see that she is worried. As long as there is Mary, there will always be her. She also publicly admitted that no matter what Li is, she will be there.
For Shen Teng's delay in getting married, at first, Wang Qi also thought that Shen Teng didn't get married because he didn't love himself enough. But with the deepening of understanding, Wang Qicai knew that Shen Teng was afraid of getting married, losing her freedom after marriage and taking on more responsibilities. She was also worried that the two people would change. In order to make Shen Teng overcome his fear of marriage, Wang Qi also made some efforts. First, he made an electronic photo album to witness their love, and then he took Shen Teng to various couples' parties. Coupled with Wang Qi's careful comfort and guidance, Shen Teng no longer rejected marriage so much, and even looked forward to it.
X. Shen Teng proposed to Wang Qi, and everything will be fine.
20 15 "Goodbye Mr. Loser", starring Shen Teng, won both word-of-mouth and box office. Shen Teng felt that the time was ripe, so he returned to his hometown in Wang Qi. In the witness of relatives and friends, Shen Teng proposed romantically and sincerely. Wang Qi was moved to tears on the spot.
He said that the wedding was planned for 12. Later, it was explained that he fell in love with 12 because he didn't have enough confidence and ability to give each other a home. He just wants to be better and have enough ability to make Wang Qi happy. There is no such thing as being forced by netizens, just waiting for yourself to become stronger. He just forgot that a girl's youth is precious.
There are also many netizens who say that Shen Teng and Wang Qi have been in love for so long, not out of love, but out of responsibility. 12 romance may not have much passion and heart, but it has gradually integrated into each other's lives and become an indispensable part. And after such a long time's consideration and witnessing the glitz of the entertainment circle, I believe that Shen Teng's decision to get married is a rational one.
Mature love and marriage are not always perfect. When there is a problem, reflect and take the initiative to solve it. Knowing what you want, knowing what the other person wants, and giving the other person what they want, and entering the marriage rationally can make the marriage more stable and go further. I hope they will never lose their heart in the flashy entertainment circle.