1. Listening is more important than preaching.

Sometimes, if you listen to your child's real thoughts, you will find that he is better than you think.

2. Smiling is more convincing than glaring.

When a child is disobedient and naughty, don't always smile at him with wide eyes, and your bad temper will soon decrease.

3. Dominant choice

Give your children the right to choose. Don't always urge him to do his homework quickly, eat quickly and get up quickly. Instead, ask him if you want to do your homework now or in five minutes. Usually your choice is easy to follow.

4. Faith is more useful than threat.

When a child loses his temper or doesn't want to do something, please say that I believe you can control your emotions, not that I won't want you if you lose your temper again. Believe it or not, I will hit you. Adults should adjust their mentality.

5. Don't always refuse your child's request.

Blindly refusing will make children unhappy and start to resist. If the child says he wants to eat candy, he should say yes, buy it for you on weekends, eat it on birthdays, and eat candy at weddings. Don't just say no. Eating sugar is not good for teeth, which will lead to tooth decay.

For him, guidance is more acceptable than criticism.

After a child makes a mistake, don't always think about making him remember for a long time by criticizing, accusing and punishing him. This way often makes children afraid, timid and more likely to make mistakes.