How to accurately describe the only child in one sentence? Probably:
"Set thousands of pets in one, set thousands of loneliness in one; Since I was a child, my ability to entertain myself, direct and perform at home has made me a tease. "
As a post-90s generation, I am also the only child in my family. The so-called only child is doomed to take a lonely road.
What kind of experience is "only child"?
When I was a child, after school or on holiday, my parents sometimes couldn't take care of me at work, so they often locked me at home and watched TV every day. (There were no computers at that time)
No one is hiding in the quilt with me at night and whispering; Growing up, no one knew everything about me and played with me with a smile. ...
Of course, there are delicious food and fun, and no one will compare with you. Resources have been abundant.
Many people say that the only child is selfish. I want to correct it here:
Because we are all alone since childhood, we basically have no sense of sharing, which is also a pity. You may think they are independent and inaccessible, but they are eager to be accepted.
I don't admit that the only child is indifferent, and I value family ties.
But I have to admit that I don't have a deep understanding of the feelings between brothers and sisters. I can't understand the feeling of deep affection, and sometimes I really envy others having brothers and sisters.
Is it really different to fall in love with an "only child"?
As the only child in my family, I got all the love from my parents when I was growing up. I may be a little spoiled, but some places are not as meticulous as non-only children.
But they will also take care of others and help everyone around them. Of course, it does not rule out that some only children are spoiled by their parents.
I saw a netizen say, "If I go home and find that I bought half a roast duck, then I know that duck leg must be mine." .
I deeply agree with this. This is not selfishness, but a conditioned reflex from childhood to adulthood.
On the other hand, is the difference between an only child and a non-only child really that obvious?
The more experienced you are, the more you will feel that a person's personality is closely related to his nature and family education, but not necessarily to the one-child family.
This is like: loving parents don't raise loveless children; Reasonable families don't teach violent offspring.
On the other hand, is the only child a good thing or a bad thing? As the saying goes, there are advantages and disadvantages.
The only child is basically an advantage when he is young, but once he is past middle age, the disadvantage is obvious.
When the only child is young, a family can gather the strength of the whole family to support a child, which is incomparable to a two-child family.
But once the elders are old, the family support pressure faced by the only child will multiply, and there will be no brothers and sisters to share with you.
But on the whole, I still enjoy being an "only child".
The feeling that "mom and dad are just my parents, not others' parents, and the only child they love is me" is really great. .....