In middle age, people can't be willful. How do they face life? One word: fuck! Two words: work hard! ! Three words: work hard! ! !
If you don't do it anymore, you can't do it anymore.
Life is at half time, and there is no rest. There are old people in the world, let them enjoy their old age; If there are small ones, we must create a better tomorrow for them. There is a wife in the middle, everything, cars, houses, diamonds, everything. Everyone should be satisfied. This is the responsibility and obligation of people. Everyone has to bear it. You should also plan yourself well, how to have surplus food after paying off the car loan and mortgage, and have a body to accompany the person you want to accompany when you can't walk.
When I was young, I also did a lot. But the method is wrong. I always bury my head and breathe. It takes a lot of effort, and all I get is shrimp. When I was young, I always went in the wrong direction and worked hard for many years. Looking back, I went halfway up the mountain to grind, and the peaches on the mountain had been picked.
In middle age, people have found the doorway. It's time to do it well, do it well. Come on!
It is impossible to be picky when people reach middle age. No matter what the road is, there is only one way to go forward, regardless of day and night. Fuck!
If you don't do it anymore, you can't do it anymore. I can only watch others do it, and I can't enjoy it anymore.
When people reach middle age, the scars of years have covered their temples and raindrops have penetrated into their hearts. Their footsteps are no longer so capricious, and their hearts are no longer so flying with kites. How to face real life has become a topic that needs to be remembered from time to time. I have four suggestions on how to face it correctly:
First, to dispel illusions, we must admit that most people in reality still have many ups and downs. Just like young people, we should be less internal and more external. They are afraid and unwilling to admit and face the existing facts, and still have some unrealistic ideas or fantasies.
Fantasy is actually a wayward, wayward life is not wayward, just as freedom is not necessarily free, and meeting is not necessarily met. Reality has repeatedly proved that most of the hardships in life are not external causes, but because they are too willful, that is, they don't know who caused them.
Fantasy is actually a kind of digging your own grave. You can't be satisfied with the ordinary. You put the skinny reality in an ideal and fulfilling dream world, and your head can't go up to the sky and your feet can't go down to the ground, which means that people are more selfish, that is, you lied to yourself.
Fantasy is actually an expansion, a desire to hurt others, and it is very destructive. If people can't take a good look at themselves in middle age and don't deviate from their guiding ideology, they will inevitably embark on a bleak life. In the end, not only did nothing, but even a good mood became a luxury.
People's ideology determines the direction of life. What kind of ideology there is, what kind of life there is. This is also the primary problem that middle-aged friends need to solve, that is, firmly establish a correct outlook on life, values and world outlook, so as to obtain a happy life.
Second, the hidden blade is a double-edged sword, which can make or destroy life. Life is like this: do it when it's time to do it, and let it go when it's time to let it go. It is not a bad thing to be young and sharp-edged, but it is not necessarily a good thing to be sharp-edged in middle age. If you don't realize this, it's not surprising that you are frustrated in life.
To hide one's edge is to know how to converge, let go, endure forever, tolerate, know that losing is not necessarily owning, be honest, do things honestly and face everything around you calmly.
Keeping a low profile means holding your breath without rest. Life is full of anger, resentment, happiness, anger, luck, depression, mildew and so on. No matter what kind of anger, the root cause lies in being angry but not angry, being angry is discouraged, and not being angry is holding your breath. Therefore, if you want to hide your sharpness, you must first learn not to be angry, otherwise you will lose your real meaning.
To hide your edge, the first is not to hurt others, and the second is to protect yourself. Keeping the green hills is not afraid of burning without firewood. Living is the last word. You are used to watching the ups and downs of the wind and cloud, watching the ebb and flow of the tide, and seeking more from your heart, regardless of the age.
Third, maintaining healthy qi is vitality, and vitality is the foundation for people to live in the world. This is a traditional culture for thousands of years and the only law in the world.
To maintain healthy qi, the first thing is to cultivate the heart. Life is made by the heart, the heart should be quiet and pure, and the anger in the heart bath will be illusory, which is equivalent to chronic suicide. Especially in this impetuous era, we should work hard at peace and purity, and don't let the impetuous balloon explode.
Keep healthy, followed by health. Survival is the foundation, survival is the pursuit, but the premise must be a good body. It is a lifelong thing to firmly establish health, not an overnight thing.
Maintaining righteousness, again, is to cultivate one's morality. We should pay attention to morality, reward hard work, be diligent in Xiu De, be kind in Xiu De, be tolerant of Xiu De, and be self-disciplined in Xiu De. We should have the feeling that we can tolerate everything in the world with a big belly, and we should have the cultivation that whoever goes to hell will go to hell if I don't, and improve ourselves in the absence of self.
The fourth is to dilute the role. Everyone plays various roles in the social family. No matter what role people play in middle age, they need to be diluted. The role is only a temporary symbol and symbol, and it can't give you everything you want.
To downplay the role requires a correct three views, a thorough understanding of the fetters of life, and an open-minded and philosophical life. If you blindly attach too much importance to your role, you will not be happy, but bring shame to yourself and feel helpless.
To dilute the role, we need to create a new role for ourselves, that is, everyone is a dust. When the dust settles, it is a new life. With a new life, there is no need to cling to kites that have been released. Just as God closes a door for you, it will open a window for you.
In fact, diluting the role is to free yourself. People's energy is limited, and people's desires are infinite. How can there be beauty if you don't give up? How can there be hope ahead if you don't give up? Gains and losses are the blessings of time.
Of course, it will be painful to downplay the role, but no one can see the crying of middle-aged people. Bringing happiness to people is the proper demeanor of middle-aged people. It is the hope of middle-aged people to face them bravely and change their mentality actively.