I think, maybe many mothers say that they are busy and really tired, but every time they see two little angels sleeping peacefully, they feel completely happy.

Two children should be twice as happy, but many practical problems will also surface. Raising two children is really not easy, but nothing can compare with the comfort brought by family.

I saw a very young second-born baby mom in Tik Tok. The first child is Xiaomi, only about 3 years old, and the second baby is only over 30 days old.

She recorded Bauer's birth in a short video and said softly to the camera, "Oh, being a mother is really fragile. In this delivery room where Xiaomi was born, my heart will see what it looked like at that time. At that time, Bao Dad was dealing with Xiaomi's stool, which was sticky and smelly, but it felt so cute. "

Later, in the video, after Bauer Xiaoguo was born, he was also very excited every day, always muttering to his baby: "Your Xiaomi brother must love you very much, you are so young ~"

"This little guy seems to be a big toy of Xiaomi," Bao Dad said.

The young mother shared her experience. It is because of having two babies that she expanded from a drama actress to a parenting blogger, sharing her parenting experience and the happiness of being a mother, which gave her a sense of belonging.

In her videos, 40% recorded the story of her and her husband, and 60% recorded the process of the baby's growth.

In a recent video, she also shared how Xiaotang slept, which was praised by many netizens: although young, she seems to be more experienced than those older mothers.

"Why am I glad I gave birth to a second child? I really feel the happiness of being a mother of two babies. It may take years or even decades of hard work, but both babies are gifts from heaven, and I will cherish them. "

It's really warm to read this treasure mother's narrative.

If economic conditions permit, the arrival of the second child is of great significance, and the key lies in the choice of parents and the way of education.

1, break the constant brotherhood and learn to love and be loved.

Little Mommy recorded that Xiaomi's brother seemed more excited than himself when he first saw Xiaotang Fruit, so she wouldn't worry about Dabao bullying her little sister at all. Of course, in order to appease Xiaomi, I still said sweetly, "I know Xiaomi's brother is the warmest." Besides the love of mom and dad, Xiaotang has another one. I think they are all happy! "

At this time, Xiaomi gently took Xiaotang's hand, and Coco said with distress: "She is so soft!"

Parents may not always be with their children, but brothers and sisters can help each other and care more when they encounter difficulties.

This will help the two children learn to love themselves and others, which is beneficial to their thinking and interpersonal communication.

2. The parents watched the elder sister discipline the younger brother and giggled happily.

It is also a video shared by parents, and a standard sister image comes into view.

My brother has just entered primary school, and my sister is checking my brother's schoolbag in the car. She kept telling my brother to listen carefully in class, not to slip away and not to lose stationery.

My brother made progress in the exam and got 100. My sister gave him a big kiss and looked happy. However, when my younger brother folded his poor test paper into small pieces and hid it in his schoolbag, my sister looked disgusted and rambled like an old mother.

In this regard, my mother's copy is: with my sister, my old mother can be laid off.

Sometimes, this brotherhood is more important than parent-child affection. Brothers and sisters will know better how to communicate with brothers and sisters and even help solve problems when necessary. Even parents should be impressed by this wisdom and feel ashamed.

Not only the mother but also the father enjoys the happiness of having two children. Neighbors like their daughters very much, and they are named beautiful and happy, recording every bit of life.

After three years of hard work, what will you gain in the next 30 years?

Maybe with a second child, my mother will give up her career and go to the family, but these years' efforts will eventually bring happiness for the next 30 years.

Two children have business and quantity. No matter what problems appear in family, feelings and life in the future, there are people to rely on and talk to. Although people are outside, blood is thicker than water, and it is bone and meat that are constantly cut.

As parents, watching their two children grow up and having a happy family of their own will also be full of sense of accomplishment.

Of course, this is based on the fact that parents can handle the relationship between their two children well. If they are partial, they will only make family relationships gradually tired.

1, let the children solve their own conflicts.

There are two treasures at home, that is, previewing the possible contradictions in children's social interaction in advance at home. Parents should understand the personality characteristics of the two children and listen to the "small report" objectively, but it is best to let the children think about how to solve it themselves.

It is beneficial for children to learn to understand, accept and fully express their dissatisfaction, and let each other become their own mirror, showing more advantages and disadvantages.

Parents gradually give in and let their children help their children.

Encourage children to help each other and come forward in time in the face of problems, so that children can have a greater sense of responsibility, know their own values and show their advantages.

Giving children the opportunity to help their brothers and sisters is to teach them to take responsibility and become role models for each other from dressing, eating, studying and living.

3. Let children become frontier alliances.

You can ask two children to give you advice on big and small issues at home. With a sense of participation, they will gradually integrate each other's ideas, share each other's feelings, gain more experience and become a front alliance.

Such two children can share little secrets together and grow up alone. In this regard, parents can choose to let their two children prepare elaborate surprise gifts for each other on their birthdays.

Trust and help each other. The two children don't need to meet each other halfway, but give full play to their respective advantages and be unique.

I remember a picture book called "You are all my favorites", which tells the story of mother bear crying and laughing when facing two naughty bears, but it is full of deep love.

With a second child, you know that love is not a blind effort, but even more evenly matched; Love is not only obedience, but also timely observation.

Enjoy the happiness and happiness brought by the second child, and you can reap double happiness.