After reading a famous book, there must be a lot of feelings in everyone's heart. It is necessary to write down the feelings after reading it and make a good record. So, can it really be written? The following are my thoughts on accompanying my children through primary school for six years, for reference only. Welcome to reading.
Accompany children through primary school for six years. After reading the article 1, I have read all the contents today, and the deepest feeling is moving. The content of the book is easy to understand and a true portrayal of the details of life, but it was recorded and felt by such a dedicated mother. It's hard for the author's daughter to think of talent surrounded by maternal love, haha.
The author's idea of educating children in this book is: all love and tolerance, respect for children's personality and growth trajectory. To sum up, there are three points worth learning for readers:
First, every time I encounter a problem in my study or growth, the author puts himself in the child's perspective and faces it with the child. This method has played a good demonstration role for children to face some difficult problems in their study or life in the future, that is, put themselves in the position of the parties and solve them through consultation, rather than standing on a high place overlooking them;
Second, respect children's choices. This aspect is not just a small aspect. The first consideration is the children's own choices, not the parents' experience. By doing so, children gradually form a very important ability to make their own decisions, which should benefit children for life;
Thirdly, as the mother of the child, she inadvertently revealed in the book that when the child was young, she read a lot of books on parenting and education, that is, the author's idea of educating the child is based on reading a lot of books, that is, as the parents of the child, they need to learn and grow constantly. Only by taking care of yourself first, which includes both physical care and spiritual care, can we guide our children confidently with acquired wisdom and rationality in a certain knowledge system. Therefore, self-growth is always one of the most important things in everyone's life.
After reading this book, I deeply realized that there is a golden house in the book and Yan Ruyu in the book. Any aspect of confusion, incomprehension, contradiction and confusion can be found in the corresponding books. The key is whether you are willing to discover, to discover. Once found, this solution must be beneficial and lasting.
Thanks again to the author of this book, who helped me solve many problems my daughter faced in the first grade of primary school. Not only did I solve them, but now I'm quite sure what I want to do and how to do it. I hope more people can read this book. Thank you!
Accompany children through primary school for six years. Recently, I was lucky enough to read the book "Walking with Children through Primary School for Six Years" by Liu Chenglian. Teacher Liu's care and wise intentions deeply touched me. In the book, the sentence that companionship is also a kind of love touched me a lot.
I have a deep understanding of the accompanying role. Although I am a teacher, I am also a parent. While learning from my parents, I am also exploring how to be a qualified parent. I feel powerless and guilty about accompanying my children.
When reading the book "Walking with Children through Primary School for Six Years", the author's careful care for children touched me and touched me. I'm reflecting on where my time has gone. Is it really that you don't have more time to spend with your children after work? What am I doing outside work?
Now that I think about it, I'm afraid it's not that I don't have time, but that it's not that important to accompany my children. Now I understand more deeply that the love for children is not how much money we save, how much money we spend, how many gifts we buy and how many clothes we wash for him, but whether we can really calm down and accompany our children. Accompany children to grow up together, listen to children and understand them in company, and become their spiritual harbor.
The child's naive heart still doesn't feel the importance of material things. What they really want and need is a hug from their parents every day; Need to feel how important you are in the eyes of your parents; Need parents to give him a sense of security; It is more important to know that when he fails or is frustrated, his parents will wait for him at home and comfort him, not him alone.
Having said that, I still feel deeply ashamed for a long time. Since I have a daughter, I have spent most of my time with her and have taken too little care of my son. I always think that my daughter is young and needs more care, regardless of my son's feelings. I often tell my son that you are a brother and you have to give up your sister. Although it is good, it may not be like this in my son's mind. I always thought my mother had left me alone. For a time, my son lost his temper when he came home. I criticized him. The boss is not young. How could he do that? Later, I thought, it turned out that this was my son's anger and his own fault. These sons spend too little time with their sons, so they should spend more time with this child.
Now I understand: raising children is not about money, but about heart!
After reading the book "Walking with Children through Primary School for Six Years", the biggest feeling is that compared with Chen Chen's parents, we pay too little to our children. Although we pay more attention to their food, clothing, housing and transportation, we can even describe them in detail, but we have not done enough to cultivate their good habits and have not provided a good example for their own behavior.
Take the cultivation of reading habits as an example. In order to complete the reading task assigned by the teacher, children can sometimes calm down and read for a period of time, about 120 minutes. But children rarely have time to take the initiative to read books, because playing is undoubtedly more attractive to him. Why is your child like this? After reading the book "Walking with Children through Primary School for Six Years", I know that the root of the problem lies in the poor performance of our parents.
In today's information age, it is difficult for us to read books by ourselves every day, even if we watch less computers, televisions and mobile phones. On the one hand, work, life and entertainment are inseparable, on the other hand, it is difficult to get rid of the temptation of these information media. From the child's point of view, your parents are either playing mobile phones or watching computer TV. Why should I finish my homework and read after class? How unfair!
In the book "Walking with Children through Primary School for Six Years", it is mentioned that both mothers and Zheng, as well as many well-known education experts, emphasize the exemplary role of parents' reading behavior for children. The extreme demonstration case is said to be the father of a worker, who is almost illiterate, but still studies hard in front of his children for many years, which ultimately affects their reading habits and academic performance.
It seems that it is really necessary to change children from their parents and let them develop reading habits.
First of all, avoid or reduce watching TV, playing mobile phones and playing games or entertainment without computers in front of children.
Secondly, guide children to read. Find books that children are interested in: jokes, stories, popular science and other books can be tried for children to read.
The most important thing is to study with children, so that children gradually fall in love with reading.
Whether parents have reading habits or not, these projects should be done well first. Of course, parents had better have the habit of reading. Otherwise, it is unrealistic to expect children to like reading automatically, and it is not the responsibility of parents.
As the saying goes, example is better than words. Educate children, starting with parents!
Accompany children through primary school for six years. 4 "Accompany children through primary school for six years" is a sincere sharing made by an ordinary and excellent mother. With simple brushstrokes, she relived the little footprints of her daughter's primary school growth and how these footprints were a solid step for her daughter to go to Peking University.
I almost read the full text in one breath, and many viewpoints in the text inspired and resonated with me, which also made me deeply examine my education for children. In fact, every child is unique, even naughty children have many bright spots, just how to find them. Shao has been a naughty boy since he was a child. Once, when he was in kindergarten, he fought with several boys in class and was invited by the teacher to reflect outside the classroom. Unexpectedly, these boys went to the small room at the end of the corridor to pee. Of course, Mr. Wang was furious when he found out, but he didn't criticize the child immediately, but asked the child why he did it. The children's answer is simple, because they want to go to the toilet, and there is no toilet outside the classroom, so they must choose that room. Teacher Wang found that the children found a solution to the problem of "going to the toilet", although this solution is not the best. First, he praised the children for trying to solve their own problems, then let them solve their own wrong things-cleaning the house with a mop, and finally let everyone think about whether there is a better solution to this matter. The children spoke enthusiastically and put forward many better solutions. Under the behavior that children seem to be definitely recognized, Mr. Wang found a small bright spot where children can find solutions to problems, and encouraged children to enlarge this bright spot and solve more problems independently. Education is actually a process of discovering children's bright spots, guiding them to expand their bright spots and achieve more bright spots.
The essence of learning is to learn the methods of self-learning and form the habit of lifelong learning. A person's life is always in the process of continuous learning, which has nothing to do with academic qualifications. Even if he has a higher education, he needs to keep learning. What benefits us for life is a good self-study method. Why do some people just read books, but they don't get any insights, gains or improvements? And some people, not only reading books, watching others do one thing, but also summing up and accumulating. As long as you develop good study habits and self-study methods, any difficulty can be overcome and any problem can be solved. Success is only a matter of time. The book gives me many ways to help children form good study habits, which are very practical and effective.
So, let's lower our expectations, slow down, find out the bright spots of children, guide children to find suitable learning methods, and let children learn in happiness and grow up in learning.
Accompany children through primary school for six years. 5. Read the book "Walking with Children through Primary School for Six Years". It feels particularly good, practical and operable, and it is very close to the reality of children. It is a good family education guidance series. At present, many books in society only have theories and lack operational methods. This book is different. There is a feeling of reunion after a long separation, and I recommend it to my parents after reading it. I think my parents and friends may feel the same way after reading it. Now, I would like to recommend my deeply felt fragments to you and share them with you.
Talk about practicality. For example, reading the article says that books should be placed in the most accessible place at home, such as sofa, coffee table and even the ground. After reading this part, when she looked at this method, I had a bright feeling at the moment. The original can still be read like this, especially when it is on the ground. I'm afraid no one will do that. It seems that parents still have a lot of work to do to make children love reading. For another example, the "dedicated time" mentioned in the study article is the cultivation of "concentration", which is a good educational method. Learning habits are closely related to living habits, and some habits are formed in the dribs and drabs of life, rather than waiting for learning. Cultivating good study habits is also a test for parents.
Talk about operability. Many methods here can be used immediately, such as writing "going into the water" with children and using "family mailbox" to enhance family communication. "Contract terms", especially dad's "special welcome ceremony", deeply touched me. And later, in order to get rid of the bad habit of carelessness for children, a "wrong book" was established, and notes on children's growth were collected. We can use these in our children and families.
There are many places that I feel deeply. After reading these, what I feel most is that a successful child must have a successful parent, a caring parent, a parent who can understand the child and a parent who is willing to pay for the child. If you don't understand children, you can't train them well! Loving children is an instinct, but how to love is a great learning! Everything she said seems simple, but it's hard to stick to it, and it's hard to be intentional!
The book "Walking with Children through Primary School for Six Years" can let you know an amazing friend! Can help you share the sorrow on the way to parenting! It can guide how to solve some practical difficulties on the road of parenting, and also encourage you to go forward on the road of parenting! It can influence you with personality charm! Affect your family! Change your children, change your family!
Yaoyao will go to primary school in one and a half years. In order to play the role of a primary school mother in the future, I spent about 3 or 4 days reading Liu Chenglian's "Walking with Children through Primary School for Six Years" this week, and I felt a lot after reading it. Here are some points that I think deserve your attention:
First of all, children should be encouraged to play more and exercise more. Learning through playing can make up for the knowledge and ability that can't be learned in general learning. For example, climbing mountains and puzzles can exercise children's ability to delay satisfaction. Regular exercise can keep children full of energy.
Second, read more books, the more the better, and get into the habit of reading. You can often go to the library to study. This is worth learning. Nowadays, many libraries encourage reading in them. You can read many books in the library, which is incomparable to reading at home. When you meet a particularly good book, you can buy it back and read it again and again at home. With more input, the knowledge will naturally expand and the output will become relatively easy.
Third, parents don't have to worry about children who just entered school if they can't keep up with the progress of the school for the time being. It is important to cultivate good study habits. Every child has his own advantages and disadvantages. Parents should be able to discover their children's characteristics in time and formulate corresponding measures according to their characteristics.
Fourth, often encouraging children to do what they can and giving affirmation will stimulate children's interest in learning.
Fifth, guide children to like teachers. Only when they like teachers will they like going to school and learn the courses taught by teachers well.
6. How to develop good study habits? Do the set things well within the specified time, and if there are temporary changes, we should also make up for them through consultation.
Seventh, how to learn Chinese well? Output more, such as writing more diaries. If children can't write, they can dictate and parents can record. How to learn English well? Input more, listen to English audio every day, and recite sentences step by step.
Eighth, when children are in the lower grades, they should study and play with them more, encourage them more, and meet their needs for affection and self-recognition. When children don't need themselves in the third year of high school, let them go properly and don't interfere in their affairs casually, so that children don't form dependence on themselves or children. Only when they are independent can they establish a healthy parent-child relationship.
Ninth, communicate with children more, and decide what children should and should not do without the authority of parents, but we should discuss it. Parents should first do what they want their children to do. For example, if children are not allowed to play games online, parents should not play games online. Children are best at imitation, and what parents like, children will like it.
Accompany children through primary school for six years. 7 "Walking with Children through Primary School for Six Years" is a book that suits my taste very much. Many practices of teacher Liu Chenglian are worth learning.
Among them, what impressed me deeply was the study article-learning is a candy, and the second article of this part: finding the "magnet" that children like to go to school. According to the article, primary school students like learning on the premise that they love school, teachers, classmates and are interested in learning. Only in this way can he be full of enthusiasm for learning and keep growing and making progress. Therefore, there is no need to deliberately spend too much thought on children's learning, but to find ways to make children fall in love with school and study, so that children are eager to communicate with their friends. Children have several good friends, just like children have several "magnets" when they go to school, so that children can look forward to meeting teachers and try their best to make them like and respect teachers from the heart, so that children will fall in love with teachers' courses and study hard. Let the children's curiosity be cared for, and the "minor course" also stimulates the children's learning motivation, makes them feel that learning is lively and interesting, and thus falls in love with learning. Let children's sense of accomplishment be satisfied, praise and encourage children constantly, satisfy their sense of accomplishment, and make children more and more confident, and self-confidence is the basis for children to do things successfully. The author's practice is full of unique, effective, attentive and seamless educational wisdom.
As a teacher, I can learn a lot from it, how to make my class lively and interesting; How to be a charming teacher to attract my students? How to make students love and like the school; This is what I need to think and learn.
Primary school is an important starting point for a child's growth, and these six years may affect the next 60 years of his life. The growth of children is natural and unique. As children's primary school teachers, we need to give children more guidance, which requires me to keep learning, constantly improve myself, constantly innovate, use my love and wisdom to lead children with parents and friends, and quietly wait for their healthy and happy growth.
I felt a little touched when I saw the book "Walking with my children through primary school for six years" on the Internet. It happened that my son had just entered high school, so I bought this book without hesitation on the grounds that it was recommended to parents.
After returning home, I used my spare time to read slowly, and I felt like meeting again after a long separation. After reading it once, I chose the key place and watched it again. The author of this book is Liu Chenglian. She is an ordinary mother. In the process of cultivating children, she pays attention to creating a good family education environment, explores rich family education experience from practice, advocates harmonious parent-child relationship, and cultivates children by scientific methods. 18, she trained a daughter with comprehensive quality and excellent grades, and her daughter was admitted to Peking University and Hong Kong University at the same time. This book focuses on the growth of her daughter in primary school.
After reading this book, as a teacher, I feel that my son's education is really shameful compared with others. In cultivating children's writing potential, I didn't write a composition for children like the author; When cultivating children's patience, I didn't play puzzles with them like the author, so that children could understand their attitude towards life that they couldn't afford to lose. On holidays, I seldom visit bookstores as a place for children to exchange and relax, so that children can learn and feel in the ocean of books and so on. These examples all reflect the author's starting point and are based on thinking that is conducive to children's growth.
When I recalled my son's desire to study actively when he was in primary school, I didn't spare money and bought him a full set of naughty bags, Ma Xiaotiao. I am really happy to see my son reading with his new sweetheart. After reading this set of books, my son read Yang's Laughing Cat Diary and Mentor series, but it was not enough. Now the books my son has finished are campus literature, Four Great Classical Novels, popular science knowledge and so on. As long as my son asks to buy books, I will agree. At present, I feel that my son's writing style is not as bad as before. He has read more books and has a rich imagination. The child really fell in love with reading.
I accompanied my children through primary school for six years. Since I have children, especially children in primary school, I have read some books about children's education and growth, which have benefited a lot. As someone said, when we buy new products, there will be instructions, and we have children. As new parents, we have no routine to follow. We advance by groping and grow up with our children.
In fact, after having a child, especially after the child went to primary school, I found that my parents were more and more confused about what to do. When children grow up, they have their own independent thoughts and ideas, which are more and more different from ours. In fact, I'm a little confused about how to guide his ideas to our own. The same is true of children's study. Sometimes I feel that grades are not the most important, but I feel nervous and stressed when I face my children's grades. Especially from the second grade, I think children should be allowed to learn by themselves and form the habit of not needing their mothers, but their grades will fluctuate and a lot of knowledge will not be mastered firmly. There is a feeling of entanglement and worry in the middle, especially when children's grades are not good and their grades are not good. I don't know how to educate children. So after reading this book, it is still somewhat touching. I hope to cultivate children in some ways that are suitable for children and for myself. Let me grow up with my children, not me. It is very likely that the child's performance is not in place for a while, and I hope that the child can grow up freely and happily in the future. I want to accept the imperfection of my child, accept what happened to him, and then face it with my child and grow up together.
Then, in the growth of children, schools and teachers are indispensable. I am glad that I chose an open school with a good school spirit for my children. I'm glad that my child met a caring and earnest teacher. What I have to do in this respect is to communicate with teachers frequently, find children's problems, face them with children and solve them together. Let children fall in love with school, teachers and learning, and let children thrive in a healthy environment.
The author of the book "Walking with Children through Primary School for Six Years" is Liu Chenglian. This is a sincere sharing made by an ordinary and excellent mother. With simple brushstrokes, she relived the little footprints of her daughter's primary school growth and how these footprints were a solid step for her daughter to go to Peking University. Last year, I recommended this book to my parents at the parent-teacher conference. I think this book is not only suitable for parents who cheer for their babies. As a teacher, reading this book will also be of great help to cultivate students' study habits.
Here, I briefly introduce the experience I can use in my work. What I like most about this book is reading this chapter. The reading article tells the story of Li Ruochen's parents creating a reading atmosphere for her and accompanying her to study. In order to enable her to read more books under the condition of good family conditions, I bought her second-hand books and accompanied her to the bookstore whenever I was free, which created a good environment for her to enjoy and facilitate reading. Moreover, I used a good education method for my daughter and recommended many good books to us.
When it comes to letting children study, I think this aspect is very important. The knowledge absorbed by your eyes, ears and brain alone is far less than the knowledge gained from books. In other words, reading books will bring more knowledge to people. Then, how to make children like reading and learn to read since childhood, the author tells us the answer with his own personal experience. To cultivate children's love for reading, we must first create a reading environment for children, and secondly, parents should set an example and accompany their children to read. This practice is not only suitable for parents, but also for educators.
When I finished reading the article, I really felt that I didn't do enough in front of the students and gave them too little reading time, which led to the students' writing level not improving. Therefore, in the future, I will give students some time to study, accompany them to study during recess, recommend more good books to students and make some reading plans for children.
Dear parents, friends and colleagues, let's work together to create a good reading and learning atmosphere for children's healthy growth.