I heard someone around me vomit such a thing. The two met through a blind date and added a contact number. Because there was no contact between them in the past, there was absolutely nothing to say. At first, the ice-breaking trip was crucial, and the boy's ice-breaking trip failed. Every day, he asks the girl, "Have you eaten? What did you eat? " "Drink water today? Drink two glasses of water? " After touching her several times, the girl decisively refused her.
People who can chat can quickly get rid of the coldness between two people, quickly eliminate the strangeness and increase the distance between them. On the contrary, a person who is not good at words hopes that the other person is not interested in you from the beginning. No matter how good you are, no matter how rich you are, there is no chance for him to know you.
Being able to chat naturally does not mean sweet words, nor does it mean that you must be eloquent and very eloquent. It's not that the words are gorgeous, but that the topics thrown can attract the attention of the other party. What you say can go deep into the other party's heart and make the other party want to open their hearts and accept you completely. Not only men need to master chatting, but also women. The other side of this matter needs to find a good topic quickly and increase the distance between them.
Especially when people reach middle age, they will no longer be deceived by those sweet words. Instead, I want to talk to someone, understand my inner requirements, and get in touch with the other half in my heart. It is very important for women to talk if they want to deal with middle-aged men.
1 talk about career, grasp the lifeblood of a man, in the heart of a man. Career must be put first. Naturally, except for a few men who regard their families as men, most boys must put their careers first. Especially when people reach middle age, they will encounter old and young situations, and life will put a lot of pressure on them. At this moment, whether you really care about your career or are dragged forward by life, you should do your best to give your family a better life.
At different ages, everyone values different things. When they were young, they talked about romantic things with each other. At that time, there was no pressure of life, but a few years of enthusiasm. But after people reach middle age, these unrealistic romances are left behind and replaced by the practical side of life.
Generally speaking, when a boy is 40 years old, his career tends to be stable. You can talk about her outstanding achievements in her career and express your admiration. After all, men enjoy women's expectations. Expressing his praise with admiration will be very helpful to men. Give him more encouragement if his career is average. Women's encouragement is very important for men, which will make him feel close to you instantly. Career is the lifeblood of a man. Grasping it directly opens the first level.
2 Talking about * * * with hobbies directly goes deep into his heart. The * * with personal hobbies between two people must be a bargaining chip to quickly close the relationship and an important way to enter a person's heart. In "You are My Glory", Qiao Jingjing and Yu Tu have the same personal hobbies, and they both love to play e-sports games, so it is easy to collide with each other and their feelings will be deeper.
No matter what age group people have the same personal hobbies, they will certainly be able to build feelings faster. If they have completely different social circles and have the same hobbies, it is difficult for two people like that to get together. Whether you like the same outdoor activity, a director or are interested in finance, it can become the common language of each other. With the same interest in learning as the basis, you can quickly break the ice with each other and have a feeling of knowing each other and cherishing each other.
When people reach middle age, the pressure of life is very great. If they have been immersed in their work, life will be very boring and their spirits will be highly nervous. Take time off occasionally, enjoy the fun of life, find a like-minded person and explore the happiness of life together. Undoubtedly, it is a very happy thing.
Reduce his pressure and become the person who knows him best. The word "understand" occupies a very important position in love. Both men and women should have this choice in their views on marriage. I hope to find someone with a stirring mood and a ringing soul. No matter what he does, he can understand his original intention, understand the pressure he bears in it and give him full understanding and support. We choose to end this relationship because some people know themselves, but they feel close to them, and because they lack understanding.
In this world, Feng Huacheng and Zhou Rong once spent a big winner in love. They came into contact with each other through poetry, and they had the same hobby as the bedding, which was mixed with admiration, so they easily came together. It's just a pity that with the passage of time, two people have been together for a long time, and there are contradictions between them. They are all too opinionated to try their best to think of each other. He thought she was too cold, she thought he was too vulgar, and the distance between heart and heart was getting farther and farther. Finally, the two of them parted ways completely.
When a man reaches middle age, he is under great pressure. The boy has a strong self-esteem and doesn't want people around him to suffer with him. He won't take the initiative to say many things, but you should understand his difficulties and sympathize with him, so that two outstanding talents can go on for a long time. Any relationship should be carried out in chat, whether it is emotional or emotional, chat is very important.
Chatting here is definitely not frivolous and polite. Instead, it can go deep into each other's hearts and completely integrate into each other's hearts. Only by being integrated into the deep heart, can it be a benign relationship and a more sustained and long-term development.
If you want to go deep into the ventricle of the opposite sex successfully, you need to know his real inner needs and his sincere expectations for love, so that you can get twice the result with half the effort. Men attach great importance to their careers, but while working hard for their careers, they will also pay more attention to the construction of fun. In the end, what they really need is someone who understands his suffering and can understand him. If you want to get rid of a middle-aged man, why not talk to him about the above three topics, it will be easier to succeed.