Life is like a rough sea, sometimes we just can't stand it.
There will always be various calculations, conflicts and even contradictions. This is life.
In the front and back attack, the left and right attack, the big hand of fate can always stir us around, even confused.
But in any case, we must live the happiest life according to our own intentions before we can live in trip worthwhile.
You know, the highest state of showing off wealth in life is: no illness, no distractions, no complaints.
Only in this way can we find our own freedom and pride under the control of fate.
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Health is health without disease.
I have heard a saying: "Health is like a true friend. I didn't know her preciousness until I lost it. "
We are all mortals. We grew up eating whole grains, and it is inevitable that we will catch a cold and have a fever. Don't think that you can get better if you work hard. One carelessness will really kill us.
Some time ago, a 27-year-old boy named "Tang acne" in Tianjin, because of a cold did not attract attention, finally developed into severe pancreatitis and died unfortunately.
"Tang acne" is a cheerful young man, who has become a famous "network celebrity" because of making all kinds of funny jokes with his grandparents.
However, he stayed up late for a long time, and his diet was irregular, which caused his body to be overwhelmed. Finally, he was completely defeated by a protracted cold.
There is an old saying: "No illness, no money."
If you have no money, you can live a tight life at most, but you must not get sick, which will not only ruin your health, but may even die.
Think about myself, my body is almost forty years old, and all the indicators have turned red. I dare not go to the annual physical examination, but I dare not not go.
Seeing the row of upward arrows, I shook my mobile phone and watched it online. The more I watched it, the colder it got, and I didn't know how long I could live.
It turns out that the debts I tried to owe when I was young have to be repaid with my body for a lifetime. What a painful understanding!
Tao Xingzhi, an educator, said: "People who ignore health are tantamount to making fun of their own lives."
German philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer said: "The biggest mistake that human beings can make is to exchange health for other things outside."
Slow down the intense work rhythm, give up the irregular lifestyle, and start to go to bed early and get up early to exercise today.
The happiest thing in life is to live to an old age.
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Nothing in my heart is easy.
Writer Cang Kejia said: "A happy mood and a relaxed mood are the basis of health."
As long as you are alive, you should consider how to earn money to support your family and how to accompany your family. It is inevitable that you will be nervous and anxious, and your eyebrows will naturally be locked.
But we must understand that thinking too much is not necessarily a good thing. It is better to focus on the present and give the future to the future.
Zhou Bingkun, the protagonist of the recently hit TV series "Human Life", had to go to work alone to take care of his mother who was paralyzed in bed because his father, brother and sister were away from home all the year round.
The emotional development between him and Zheng Juan is also due to the fact that Zheng Juan widow, as her son, is not only not accepted by her family, but also pointed at by outsiders.
In those difficult days, Zhou Bingkun always frowned, and the whole person looked totally embarassed and full of worries, which really worried people.
Later, my mother's health gradually improved, and Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan finally got married and lived the life they wanted, with more smiles on their faces.
When the burden in our hearts is too heavy, our bodies will not relax, and those who are not resilient enough may be crushed by the burden.
My elder sister-in-law's cousin, because the child has autism, has to run long distances to earn money, and also wants to inquire about a better hospital for treating autism.
Over the years, my originally cheerful cousin has become more and more reticent. He always sighs and says, "My youngest son is my heart disease!" " "
Yes, the most rare thing in life is that there is nothing in my heart. A heart that doesn't need calculation can be relaxed and happy.
Dale Carnegie, an American interpersonal master, said: "Being nervous is a habit, and relaxing is also a habit. Bad habits can be changed and good habits can be established. "
Cherish your carefree days. If you are still worried, try to relax. After all, relaxing every day is better than worrying.
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No resentment in your eyes is open-minded.
Huangdi Neijing said: "People have five internal organs, transforming five qi, thus generating emotions and fears."
Joseph brodsky, an American poet, said in Sorrow and Sense: "No event, no matter how unfortunate or important, should be allowed to occupy a longer time than itself."
We always experience all kinds of sadness and pain, but we should not let these annoying things linger in our hearts for a long time, let alone show them in our eyes.
I once saw the love-hate relationship between a woman and her husband on a platform where I poured out my feelings, which made me feel very sad.
She and her husband came all the way from childhood, married and had children for ten years, and their lives were dull but happy. Unexpectedly, she suddenly found that her husband was not around.
She quarreled with her husband, and she wanted a divorce because she was unwilling, and she was reluctant to see innocent children, so her grief was nowhere to vent.
When she couldn't sleep in the middle of the night, her tears wet the pillow; When playing with children during the day, she will suddenly have a cold face, scaring the children into not talking.
It's really hard to live in such a grievance. Whether this marriage continues or not, you should be open-minded and make a decision as soon as possible, which is responsible for your life.
Don't complain too much in life, because complaining is not only useless, but also hurts your body and your heart.
Think of the circle of friends I saw in the middle of the night: "It's really hard to live in sadness. It's better to let go, and the whole world will suddenly open up! "
My friend experienced the double blow of middle-aged unemployment and children's failure in the college entrance examination, and finally came out of the grumbling. I'm so happy for her.
As the writer Mark Twain said, "It's like removing a big stone from your heart, eliminating all worries and unloading all burdens."
Eyes are the windows of the soul, so complain less and make your eyes purer, that is, give yourself more peace.
Life is a trip with no turning back, and it is the greatest responsibility for life to go into battle lightly.
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Qian Jianan, a young writer, said in A Future I Don't Want to Go: "Life is impermanent, and all kinds of accidents are incalculable, but we are not confused.
We all know who we are, what we like and what we want to do. The rest is simple. Our own affairs belong to ourselves, and our destiny belongs to fate. "
Life is like this, we do what we should do, and this is the highest state of showing off our wealth in this life.
After all, only when you have no disease in your body and nothing in your heart can you be at ease and have no complaints in your eyes, and you can pursue your dreams.