I think of Qi Baishi. I'm 26 years old and haven't found what I want to do yet. At the age of 30, I left home to learn painting. When I was 40, I tried my best to support my family, just so-so. Before the age of 67, there is no money to buy a house. 83 years old, still in love, having children. When I was in my 90s, I was able to create new forms of Chinese painting. He used his own life experience to prove that "living in his own rhythm, every minute is a golden time zone." Life is not a race between the tortoise and the hare. If you don't win at the starting line, you will become a champion. The journey of life, you have to walk alone, stepping on your own pace, in order to feel the bustling beauty, mountains and waters are far away.
Therefore, everything in life depends on our own time, they have their own rhythm, and you have your own. Be patient. Every year, fans of Japanese writer Haruki Murakami hope that he will win the prize before the release of Nobel Prize in Literature, but so far it has not been realized. Many people ridiculed him as the best supporting actor in Nobel Prize in Literature. Some people gave negative comments on his works and even put forward many constructive suggestions. In Haruki Murakami's view, winning or not is not important.
Because, "writing is actually a very personal thing." He won't change himself because of outside voices. Writing every morning, never stopping, reading at dusk, listening to music, relaxing and sleeping. Run 10 km every day, rain or shine. Eat simple and clean food, establish a harmonious and orderly relationship with life, and carefully support your body. He won't feel difficult or bored at this pace of daily life.
He once wrote in the book What I Talk about Running: "No matter what everyone in the world says, I think my feelings are correct. No matter what others think, I won't disturb my rhythm. What you like can naturally persist, and what you don't like can't last long. "
Because I like it, I choose; Because of choice, so insist. When you find your own pace of life, you no longer expect to use external forces to satisfy your inner desires; Prove your success with others' affirmation. When we understand this problem, we have nothing to hide. I am still very proud to get my diploma after I was 25 years old. Unmarried at the age of 30, but very happy and successful; It is also possible to get married after the age of 35; There is no shame in buying a house at 40.