First, give it to a playboy
Dude.
Do you have a wife? Are you settled?
Don't!
You will look around and want one or more confidants, lovers like the moon.
Dude.
How can you be dissatisfied?
My wife Xiao San hugged her and killed a beautiful girl as a lover by mistake. You are a soldier in Han Xin-the more the better.
Dude.
You're not ashamed. Look up and sigh:
What can a husband ask for?
Dude.
Why do you want a lover?
Does the burden of life make you want to indulge?
Or does an unhappy marriage make you want to start a new relationship?
still ......
Dude.
Do you know that?/You know what?
A woman cannot love several people at the same time.
There is no way for a woman to be your lover and maintain a decent marriage.
Dude.
You got it?
A woman is willing to be your lover, then she has fallen in love with you in her heart. There must be tears behind this woman's smile, there must be.
Dude.
Do you think it's that easy for women not to cry?
When the wife loves and hates, she is in tears, complaining and suffering.
Dude.
Do you know that?/You know what?
What a heavy price and pain it is for a lover not to cry.
Dude.
Do you remember?
Promises once, lies now, promises in the future.
Dude.
Are you still a man?
Can the once boiling blood, impatience, burning in the fire and vows of eternal love be transformed into today's responsibility and responsibility? Even a little.
Dude.
Do you still have empathy?
Suffering from humiliation will waste your precious time, and occasionally you will think briefly from the standpoint of your lover.
Dude.
Never judge others by yourself.
Wishfully think that a lover should always be free and easy, warm and cheerful, considerate, comforting and gentle, close to you and not giving you any trouble.
When she finally faces life, where will she find you?
Is it on your dining table?
Take your children out?
Or by your wife's crying pillow?
Really!
For a man trying to solve human disputes, it is really a great help to have a delicate, intelligent, humorous and gentle woman around him to help him understand the female thoughts he doesn't know much about. But we must keep a proper distance.
The ideal of a woman is always the most traditional: if you want a man, you can cry in front of him without scruple; You can whisper to him in the dark; You can walk hand in hand in public; Can last forever in his heart. But lovers basically can't get these. If she is destined to be a man's lover, then she can not only comfort herself with the illusory "eternity", but also endure all the pain and smile more charming.
Dude.
Do you still hope?
Love you or treat the woman you love as a lover?
If you really love her, please don't hurt her again, and choose to be with each other in a confidant way, because there is too much helplessness in reality.
* * * Whatever you want: control your lower body. Playing with others means playing with yourself. Never walk by the river with wet shoes. Those who play with fire will set themselves on fire!
Second, wonderful men and women
If there are only men in this world, it must be enter the dragon;
If there are only women in this world, it must be a beach of trouble;
Because of women, men become subtle and elegant, full of twists and turns;
Because of men, women become beautiful and gentle, full of love and hate;
Since there are men and women in this world at the same time, there have been many affairs and family ties.
On the wedding day, the relationship between husband and wife is like fresh eggs; After that, the umami flavor gradually disappeared and became salted eggs; When the umami flavor disappears completely, the yolk changes flavor and color, and it becomes a preserved egg; When it comes to preserved eggs, women always call men assholes.
Beautiful women are always remembered by men, which has nothing to do with flies not biting seamless eggs. Even if a beautiful woman hides her heart and eyes, a man still has to turn around. Of course, men who are around beautiful women don't necessarily want to do something. They just like to listen to Bloom's voice and smell the fragrance. Men were bees in previous lives.
Therefore, women try their best to make themselves more colorful to attract bees to love themselves more. As a result, the bees that should come came, and the bees that should not come came. Bees kill each other for delicious nectar.
Real men crave two different things: danger and games.
You don't flirt with women, she says you are not a man; If you flirt with her, she will say that you are not a gentleman. Most women never think before speaking.
Men think-don't say. You doubt the women around you, they cheat you; You don't doubt the women around you, they doubt you.
A perfect woman is more perfect than a perfect man. At the same time, bad women are worse than bad men. Once a bad man meets a bad woman, a man will become a slave to a woman, or even a fig leaf under her skirt.
Does the man seduce the woman first, or does the woman dig a rose trap and wait for the man to jump? There has always been a lack of real trust between men and women. They have been tortured by love and hate wave after wave, and they will not stop after torture, and then continue to look for new tortured objects.
Men are cows and women are land. There is no arable land, only exhausted cows; Cattle are getting thinner and thinner, and the land is getting more and more ripe. Good fire consumes carbon, tired cows, and good women waste Han.
Men ask women to give everything. When women give everything and live by it, men will bear an unbearable burden.
Cattle don't have to farm, and women don't want to farm and want barren land. But if cows want to eat good grass, they have to keep plowing. If they can't plow this piece, they won't be able to do it. Only with tears of jealousy will they drool, think about the magnificent Niu Gengdi and eat their leftover grass.
A woman lamented that her life was in vain-I thought at the beginning that at the age of twenty, there was no evil intention and no thief courage; At the age of 30, I have a wicked heart, but I have no courage; I'm forty years old, and I'm afraid of thieves. Looking back, he said, damn it, the thief and the man have gone to the young woman.
Women in flower season pray for perfect romantic love; After the age of 30, I gradually complained to the men around me. I always felt that my husband was still good to others, regretted it, and wanted to change the film; Forty years have passed, and youth has gone with the water. Many once hypocritical, stubborn, servile and wicked demons have already moved on and become one with young and beautiful goblins.
Women almost only remember men who make them laugh, while men only remember women who make them cry.
Women like men who make themselves laugh, because they need men to coax, love and be happy; Men like women who can make them cry because they need women to understand, feel pain and be happy.
No matter how many love adventures a man has experienced, there is always only one irreplaceable woman in his memory. If this "affectionate love" cannot be realized, it may lead to his abnormal and rash sexual relationship. On the contrary, so do women.
The existing universal and wonderful situation: powerless, powerful without money, rich without meaning, meaningful without meaning, predestined relationship without division, true separation with division.
In order to have more women, men try not to be poor; Women swear not to be crotch girls, so they have to scrape men's money dry.
As long as men are flattered and their pride and desires are satisfied, they are easily fooled; Artists with rich imagination are more likely to be deceived.
The theory that men are not bad and women do not love. There is no way to prove which emotional expert found it, and I don't know whether the discoverer is a man or a woman. Anyway, men and women are diligent and considerate. In real life, it seems that there are more women than men who say this. And keep this sentence in mind, more men than women think carefully and practice hard. Women often say, "You are so bad!" To the man they love. Nine times out of ten, it was born here.
What a person should pay attention to is not his horse or other accessories, but his character.
Where does the theory that men learn to be bad when they have money and women learn to be rich when they are bad come from?
Perhaps, probably, it may be because most of the bad men in women's eyes are the type who have a little money to have sex with men and women, so women often resent "men have no good things"; Of course, there are few stupid women who don't love money, but the resources that can make money are limited. The so-called poor study of women is mostly related to promiscuity between men and women. Through the development of physical resources, they don't need money next to rich bad men.
Third, the conclusion
Men and women are a pot of porridge, one is water, the other is rice, there is water without rice without water, and more than one meter of water without more than one meter can't make a pot of porridge. Braised pork is very attractive, but good porridge can really keep the family healthy.
It is difficult for an honest official to break housework, and home is not a place to reason and win and lose. Home needs careful management by both men and women, seeking common ground while reserving differences.
Only home, everything is true!
Ding guijun
August 26th, 1965 438+09
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