"The rafters that get up early rot first", "The wood in the forest is beautiful, and the wind will destroy it", "The straight wood is cut first, and the dry well is exhausted first" ... These old sayings are often used to warn people to be alert to the sinister environment and people's ulterior motives, to hide their own strength, to hide their own abilities, and to keep a low profile. Because people who make a splash are easy to be envied and attacked first. Being a man and being neutral is China's philosophy. In China, people pay attention to the first and the last. In reality, there are indeed some people who, although their abilities and talents are really superior, always think that all high, precise and difficult jobs can only be successful if they intervene themselves, and despise the talents of others. They think that others are just "walk-on" supporting roles, and the earth will not turn without them. No wonder the "gunman" can't help but shoot this "early bird" first. In our country with thousands of years of feudal history, I don't know how many people have been criticized and even lost their lives because of their outstanding talents. This is not to deny those who go forward and do everything first, but to emphasize that there is a degree between before and after.
Then, in the process of working and interacting with colleagues, how should we grasp the backward measure?
First of all, we must recognize our position in the work and our role in the unit. It is duty-bound to do things within the scope of one's job responsibilities, and one must do them wholeheartedly in order to do one's job well in one's own position. The principle of "more than one thing is better than less" is to do things outside your own work, try not to involve things that should not be involved, especially not to treat colleagues and leaders with "insiders", "sensible people" or other condescending attitudes. Even if others ask you for help, you should treat others with an open mind.
Secondly, don't be too enthusiastic in front of fame and interests. Even if there is a pursuit, it should be hidden on the surface, and it is necessary to win the recognition of colleagues and leaders through the skills of being human. Avoid being the object of crowd exclusion. You know, the success of many things, just like fighting on the battlefield, is much more effective than "direct attack"
Stagnation is the result of desire control and the embodiment of rationality. It requires you to be calm and steady in your work, not to dominate your words and deeds with emotions, and not to be bewitched by psychological desires. "Indifferent ambition, quiet and far-reaching" is the embodiment of this backward attitude.
"Stubbornness" is a philosophy of life and a life skill, and its fundamental point lies in preserving our sanity. This strategy can ensure that you move forward step by step in a group.
Everything is divided into two parts It just means that among colleagues, in front of interests and honors, you should not exaggerate yourself and climb onto others' shoulders. Stagnation is a process, but the result of this attitude is often to win the recognition of colleagues and bosses, and finally stand out. At that time, the situation will not be "Lin Zhongmei, the wind will destroy it", but "the stars hold the moon" and "the people expect it". This is precisely to properly grasp the sense of stagnation and win popularity and opportunities for your career.
When we watch the marathon, we usually see that it is not easy for the first runner to win the gold medal in the first half, and the laggards who lag behind too much will miss the championship. The runner who runs in the second place or even later wins the championship more often, which is similar to social competition and getting along with others. The process of hard work in life is actually a marathon. Only by properly maintaining the backward position and grasping the backward consciousness can we achieve greater success. You know, in this game, what people want to see is not the process, but the final result. But the outcome is determined by the process, and the reward of staying in the best position in life may be great interpersonal convenience and successful harvest.