First of all, there must be cultural connotation. The cultural connotation here is not only how many books you have read, but also whether you have rich social experience. Reading belongs to theory and experience belongs to practice. Those who can practice are not sour, and those who understand the theory are not rustic. Only by combining theory with practice can we say that we have culture and form the basic foundation of a gentleman.
Second, we must have ideals. Literati are usually reserved, reserved, unassuming and deep. If you are close to the above four adjectives, you can call yourself a literate person, but you will never be a gentleman. On the basis of education, a gentleman should have lofty ideals and ambitions, lofty status and broad vision. They can always be divorced from reality, look to the distant future, always have their own clear thinking and judgment, how to take the right action at the right time, and lead people around them to realize the same ideals and ambitions.
Again, talk about morality. Only with good moral character can we resist the criticism and slander around us, and only with good moral character can we maintain a good initial heart and keep moving forward. They can always smile at the people and things around them, and always bear the unfairness and grievances around them with a sea-like attitude. They know how to accept, they know how to give, they know how to praise, and they know how to tolerate. They know how to collude with each other, but they never start work because of petty profits around them, but they have a broad mind to bear and tolerate.
Determination and action. Culture, ideal and moral character constitute the basic foundation of a gentleman, which we usually call quality. But quality alone is not enough. These are often labeled as cowardice, shabby, pedantic, ignorant and incompetent by some people with ulterior motives. Therefore, the most important thing is to have determination and action, attitude and firmness, tenacity and stubbornness, indignation and publicity that will never stop until you reach your goal, and courage and encouragement to walk the line.
They know how to forge ahead when they are bored. In daily life, excessive sadness and joy are always less than 10%, and the remaining 90% are dull and boring. Ordinary people's attitude towards boredom is indulgence, and they let their desires drag their thoughts around in boring days. A gentleman, on the other hand, has lofty ideals and ambitions. They will use these ordinary days to recharge their batteries, study or run, and their bodies and souls will always be on the road.
They know how to accept when they are lonely. They know that the days of life can't be loud forever, and sometimes they will be dull or even low. In mild or depressed days, ordinary people always seem so depressed and even complain about God's injustice. In the face of these days, gentlemen choose to accept, accept the climax of life, and accept the trough, face it with a balanced attitude, and use this time to save energy for themselves.
They chose tenacity in times of hardship. A gentleman is not cared for by fate, but also tortured by hardships, hardships and setbacks like ordinary people. However, they don't think it is torture, and even if it is torture, they enjoy it. I can always use this opportunity to inspire my tenacious fighting spirit. As the saying goes, the more frustrated, the more brave. Usually, they will take out the spirit of the foolish old man moving mountains, and sometimes they will take out the posture of Shanxi fence. In a word, they are stubborn and tenacious, and stick to it.
When happy events happened again and again, they chose to be indifferent. Fate is always fair. A gentleman will wake up in a happy event after experiencing boredom, loneliness and hardship. And when the happy event comes and is taken care of by fate, they choose to take it lightly and stay away quietly. I won't be excited, I won't be hysterical, and I will even humbly refuse. They know how to be calm and welcome the future with a stable attitude.
They pursue fairness. Fairness is the lifelong pursuit of gentlemen and gentlemen. They don't want to see cheating, class division and bullying. They sincerely yearn for a fair, just and open competitive environment and pursue a healthy competitive way, just like the starting gun in the sports field, which starts at the same time with one shot.
They pursue harmony. They all have an ideal in their hearts. In this country, everyone is healthy, everyone is safe, everyone is happy and everyone is equal. I do it for everyone, and everyone does it for me. The relationship between people is harmonious and contradictory, but it can be shelved and disputes can be solved. Everyone's ideas can compete with generate, everyone's inspiration can be exerted, and everyone can get a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction.
They pursue Excellence. They always pursue progress, they always pursue Excellence, and they always pursue Excellence. It is their lifelong pursuit to pursue in a better direction and constantly pursue. And their pursuit will form a driving effect, forming a catfish effect, prompting the groups around him to move forward together.
They look to the future. As mentioned above, they have lofty ideals, and their eyes can always cross the layers of obstacles and stare at the future. The future is hope, the future is tomorrow, and the future is our destination from one shore to the other. Eyes are our guide, Clivia. They will have a future only if they focus on the future.
These are the basic qualities, behavior styles and lifelong pursuits of gentlemen and gentlemen. This paper analyzes all aspects of gentlemen and gentlemen from the above three aspects, from low to high. So, do you recognize this kind of person? Do you want to be a gentleman?