At this time, a person's life and work are also at their peak. By the age of 50, they are basically in retirement. Especially women, retire at the age of 55. By the age of 50, they have no motivation to work, and there is nothing to look forward to in their future career. They go to work for almost three days, fish for two days, and every day counts as a day, waiting for retirement.
Men may be better. At the age of 50, they want to improve themselves again, and strive to enjoy departmental or departmental treatment or earn more money before retiring at the age of 60 in ten years.
So, at the age of fifty, a person is really not young. Many rural women have become grandmothers at the age of 50. However, whether a 50-year-old person is young or not mainly depends on his own mentality and mental outlook. Although, from the age point of view, 50 years old is not young, but it also depends on which age group a person's mentality is compared with. If compared with the elderly in their sixties and seventies, they are still young. If compared with people in their twenties and thirties, they are uncles and aunts.
Also, if you have a good attitude, a 50-year-old woman can still live as chic as a woman in her thirties. Some 50-year-old women, like a girl in her twenties, have a good figure, are beautiful, and with fashionable clothes, they will look younger, and with a better attitude, they will still look young and will not feel old.
There are some women in their forties and fifties around me. Because of their good attitude, exquisite dress and love to practice yoga, they keep a very good figure. It seems that, just like a girl in her twenties, her mental outlook, skin, temperament and demeanor are better.
Of course, there is another factor, that is, there is a harmonious and happy family with money, because only with money can we buy good cosmetics and have the capital to do cosmetic surgery, so that we will not be bound by the trivial life of daily necessities, so that we will not have anxiety, and we will not worry that our son will have the money to travel, go to fitness and play because he has no money to marry a daughter-in-law.
Dear yourself, you are fifty years old this year. Congratulations! Safe for half a century. I have not experienced ups and downs, but I have gained a lot of valuable life experience.
Looking back suddenly, it's been half a lifetime! Since then, there have been more and more days yesterday and fewer and fewer days tomorrow. I know you will feel a little sad because of this. Yes, "Time flies, cherries are red and bananas are green", and the word "throw" in this poem vividly expresses the ruthlessness of the years! Once upon a time, you were a young muddy boy, and in a blink of an eye, you were already a half-old man with frosted temples!
I remember when the first gray hair appeared on your head, it was 38 years old, and the kind barber carefully pulled it out for you. You feel a little sad with this white hair in your hand. However, with the growth of age, white hair has begun to start a prairie fire, more and more. Until now, hair is covered with "traces of snow". No one wants to get old, but time is a butcher knife. No matter you are powerful or grassroots, who can escape? Therefore, you should know clearly that youth is drifting away like the sunset before sunset! Although helpless, but still happy to accept this reality.
Dear yourself, looking back on the first half of your life, your luggage that you cried, laughed, lost, won, hesitated and struggled for ... years was once full of all kinds of life flavors, such as ups and downs. Although you didn't make impressive achievements, you didn't live up to your life, especially your many years of work career. This should be a great book in your life.
Of course, the work of sleepless nights also makes you miss many opportunities to accompany your children to grow up. Fortunately, children are sensible since childhood and need not worry about adults. When they grow up, they all participate in the tide of reform, learn to start a business and learn the true meaning of being a man. The child's Excellence also gives you great psychological comfort! I have always regretted not helping my eldest son, so guide him well. In modern terms, time waits for no one, and you never spare time!
Dear self, now you are 50 years old. Although you have entered the autumn of life, although years have left traces of vicissitudes on you, and although various discomforts of old age will "invade" from time to time, I feel that your mood has quietly changed!
At the age of 50, your youthful edges and corners have been rounded by years, and your temperament is tolerant and easy-going. Occasionally, when I am unhappy, I laugh it off. You have always appreciated Mr. Jiang Yang's saying that "inner calmness and calmness are the most beautiful scenery in life", but now you feel that "God is at home".
By the age of 50, you have a deeper understanding of life, know Lotte know life, and understand that some things can't be forced, so don't think too much about what you shouldn't have. Whether it is prosperous or barren, don't be too attached to the scenery you have seen.
At the age of 50, you already feel that the wonderful world belongs to others and has little to do with yourself. You begin to like a quiet and carefree life and realize that happiness lies in plain simplicity. The taste of the world is happiness!
At the age of 50, you cherish friendship more than ever, because you know that a friend is the best encounter in life, the one who can walk into your heart and hug you warmly for life! Despite the troubles of the world, it is always the most pleasant thing in the world to walk among people who know you, and "three or five confidants sit down and have a light tea talk" ...
Dear yourself, do you have any plans for your life after 50? At your age, most people are in an awkward stage. Children are married and grandchildren still need to be taken care of, and so are you. Children in the entrepreneurial stage, it is rare to steal a moment and enjoy the family happiness of "children and grandchildren"!
How dare you be old when you are old and young? Therefore, we should cherish our body more in the future. If you don't have health, you will have nothing. In your spare time, you should keep the good habit of reading, because reading can help us get out of our own narrowness, appreciate the vastness of the world, and give us a sense of security and tranquility in the trivial things of life. If you are inspired to knock on the door occasionally, you should also code the code word "feel it" in time! The world is so big, only by walking and seeing more can we appreciate different scenery and experience different customs ... There are still many things to do, dear yourself, hurry up and make your dull days light up!
Dear yourself, I remember someone once asked you, "Are you happy now?" I know you like two versions of happiness. Elegant are: having something to do, being loved and expecting is the best state of happiness; Vulgar: The greatest happiness is to be able to talk and laugh during the day and have a good sleep at night! At that time, you replied: Happiness has different understandings, just like there are a thousand Hamlets in a thousand people's minds, but less desire will lead to more happiness. If there is a peach blossom garden in my heart, where is the water cloud sword? I agree with you: the less desire, the more happiness!
Dear yourself, time is like water, and the years are seamless! Although the length of life is shortening a little, I sincerely hope that when you are 50 years old, you will start your new voyage with confidence! Remember: people will get better when they are old! Even if you are far away from the flower season, bloom is a beautiful place, but flowers become poems. I hope you'll still laugh, bloom. No matter whether there is a poem ahead or not, whether there is a distance, you must live the life you want! 20 19 is a new starting point, please keep the beauty in your heart and let the troubles go with the wind! Borrowing a popular saying, I sincerely wish you a warm home with songs and love in the future; There are poems, dreams and magnanimous distances!
May time be young and years be quiet!
Lieb Mich!
Are you kidding? Of course, people who are fifty belong to middle age! In the past, China divided middle-aged and elderly people into 60 years old. Now with the improvement of living conditions, people's physical condition and mental state tend to be younger, and they all belong to middle age before the age of 65.
Physical quality. A 50-year-old man is no different from a 40-year-old man. He is eating, drinking and having fun. He is unrestrained, energetic and healthy, and will not affect his life and work because of the aging and decline of his physical function. Therefore, the government has introduced a new policy to delay the retirement age of men to 65, which also shows that it is still a long way for men to retire at 50. So do women. Although they have just entered menopause or are about to enter menopause, their overall quality is still relatively good.
Appearance state. Modern people have good living conditions and pay attention to maintenance. Many people in their fifties can't see wrinkles on their faces. I have a female colleague who went to visit her daughter in high school. The teacher asked, "Looking for your sister?" Mistake mother and daughter for sisters.
Is 50 really old? This is a good question. In my opinion, everyone who enters the 50-year-old ring may have different answers. Some people say that they are old, some people say that they don't feel old at all, and some people have never even considered this issue.
For those weather-beaten, 50 years of life is full of ups and downs, whether it is bumpy or frustrated; No matter in prosperity or adversity, nothing makes people look old more easily than premature psychological aging. Because people live by spirit to maintain the energy of life and support the whole spiritual and psychological world. Therefore, anyone who has a bad attitude and a negative attitude towards life will feel old before the age of 50.
For people with good mentality and good physical fitness, 50 years old is still full of energy. Although you may have experienced some setbacks and disappointments, developing good living and working habits and maintaining a stable pace of life will keep your body and mind healthy. This type of person still feels young even at the age of 60.
Getting old is a natural law. But for the 50-year-old, the natural aging of the body is an unchangeable law. If the body is aging and bad mentality, it will soon make a person aging rapidly. Some people lose their passion for life at the age of 50 and can only look forward to retirement, and then, then, spend the rest of their lives aimlessly.
According to the new age classification standard of the United Nations World Health Organization, 18 to 65 years old belongs to young people, 66 to 79 years old belongs to middle-aged people, and above are elderly people. In this way, 50 years old is not even a middle-aged person. Of course, different times and different environmental backgrounds have different standards of measurement. In China, many people define the age of 40-50 as middle age, so people aged 50 may belong to middle age.
However, everyone's cognition of age is different. Although everyone's age is fixed, middle-aged and elderly people can also have a young and energetic attitude and enjoy a fresh life without age restrictions. My grandmother just turned 50 this year. There is a gap of ten years between her and her grandfather. She is not my grandmother. My own grandmother died of illness. When my grandfather married this grandmother, my father and brother-in-law were both children. At first, everyone still had resistance to grandma. However, after my grandmother married my grandfather, she always regarded my father and brother-in-law as her own. Although she is still young, she has never had children.
Years of getting along also let my father and brother-in-law understand grandma's maternal love, so they always regard grandma as a real mother, and I like grandma very much. Grandpa always likes to look serious with a straight face, but grandma is kind and lovely. Although she is 50 years old, she has a lot to say with us teenagers. When I was in high school, my grandmother and I went to idolize and idol concerts together. After I went to college, I taught my grandmother to distribute red envelopes online, and she learned quickly. Now, when I have time, I will occasionally watch live broadcasts and variety shows, and often say which little sister or brother I want to support.
Every time I talk to my friends about grandma, they are surprised. Maybe everyone didn't expect middle-aged and elderly people in their 50 s to have such a lovely side. Perhaps because of the good attitude, grandma's physical condition has always been good. She basically has no back pain common to her peers. When we go shopping together, she can go shopping better than me. After shopping all afternoon, she was flushed and panting. She also likes sports. Besides dancing occasionally, she often follows me to do health yoga and pilates.
In fact, sometimes we always have prejudices about a certain age. Everyone thinks that 50-year-old people are middle-aged and elderly people, so they should raise Doby birds, flowers, dance in square dance, or circle around their grandchildren. But everyone is an independent individual and everyone is different. At the age of 50, you can be a middle-aged person in the prime of life, or even a fresh and lively young person. What kind of person you are depends entirely on yourself!
Personally, I think 50 years old should not be considered old, or I dare not call myself old. Of course, middle age can no longer be counted, because the usual middle-aged people refer to people between the ages of 35 and 50. After 50, he is obviously past the age of middle-aged people.
So, why not be old?
Because, with the continuous extension of people's average life expectancy, the average life expectancy of domestic citizens is almost 77 years old. For people with an average life expectancy of 77 years, 50 years old is really not old. Now the real old people should at least refer to people after 65. And people between the ages of 50 and 65, a more reasonable statement should be called "middle-aged."
Moreover, in real life, many people live to be over 80 years old, and it is not uncommon to live to be 90 years old. It is no longer uncommon to live to be over 100 years old. From this point of view, 50 years old seems to have just passed middle age, and it is really far from old age.
Then, why don't people of this age dare to call themselves the old age?
First of all, 50-year-olds are basically active in their respective jobs, and there is no need to wait until retirement. The units and posts are good, except for some innovative enterprises, they are basically the main force in the work. Of course, they dare not call themselves old people in front of old employees who are basically semi-retired at the age of 58 or 9.
Secondly, people in this age group are in a typical period of old age and small age. Especially for people who have given birth to a second child, that is even more special. The real old people in the family are parents in their seventies and eighties; Children, if they are only children, may have just graduated from college and most of them are not married; If there is a second child, the younger child may be ten or eight years old. You say, who dares to call himself an old man in this state?
Also, people of this age are still under great economic pressure. There are several reasons: first, most of them should be house slaves, who usually bear tens, millions or even millions of mortgages and earn money to repay them every month; Second, there are generally four elderly people in the family who need support and care; Fourth, adult children should marry their wives, while minor children should still be raised. These four things all involve money, money, materials and other expenses and expenses, and none of them is easy.
So 50-year-old people really dare not call themselves old people, because they dare not get old at this time.
I once again make a special appeal to the society and everyone to understand, support and treat people around the age of 50. Because, whether it is work or life, whether it is social activities or family affairs, they are really not easy.
Is 50 really old?
I was born in 70, almost 50. Think about it, really very emotional. I spent most of my life like this. Sometimes, I ask myself, am I really old? To tell the truth, personally, I am not old, healthy, quick-thinking, good memory, strong logic and good at communication. Strong pressure resistance, high strength, high efficiency, not losing young people. Moreover, I still teach myself, learn English and write.
However, I feel old again-
I feel young, still 20 years old. But more and more, I call my aunt when I go out. I comfort myself because I have temperament. I can't hide my white hair. I dye it every month. This should run in the family. My mother went gray a long time ago. "Menopause" arrived as scheduled, and the physiological reaction was inevitable.
My family is also reminding me that I am old. My husband suffered from stomach bleeding a year ago, and his health was not as good as before. I have to get up early to buy food and cook, and take care of three meals a day. My mother suffered from heart disease and hypertension for a long time, and was diagnosed with diabetes last year, which is worrying.
The most important thing is-
In the company, I became a person who was about to retire in the eyes of others. Surrounded by colleagues who are about the same age as their sons born in 1980s and 1990s. Although my thoughts are avant-garde and not outdated, my language and clothes are still fashionable, and we can communicate freely. But when we go out to play together, we can see the gap. They are all automatically grouped by age, and my biggest person is alone.
Then there is a well-meaning joke, enviing myself to retire early and enjoy my old age, or to go home to take care of my grandchildren, without studying or making progress, and I will try my best to let young people go if I have the opportunity.
I am also asking myself, should I be old? The final answer is "no"
I am energetic and healthy. I have been working at my desk for 30 years, and there is nothing wrong with my lumbar vertebrae and cervical vertebrae, unlike my little colleague who often goes to the hospital crying in pain. If you retire at the age of 50, it will be a waste to yourself and society.
So I adjust my mentality and set goals for myself. I have been preparing for English for several years, and I will take the certificate this year. Then I plan to take some courses online and start writing about life. If possible, rethinking the idea of starting a business is to start a business after retirement.
Finally, maybe you are old and look old, and people around you think you are old, but you can't admit that you are old. You will never get old if you pursue and dream!