1, based on the existing achievements, establish the direction of life and provide struggle strategies.

2. Break through the grid line of life and create a fresh and full self.

3. Accurately assess personal characteristics and advantages.

4. Assess the gap between personal goals and the status quo.

5. accurately locate the career direction.

6. Re-recognize your own value and add value to it.

7. Discover new career opportunities.

8. Enhance professional competitiveness.

9. Connect individuals, careers and families.

Second, analyze the present situation of self.

1. Personal health: Are you sick? Do you have bad habits? Are there any activities that affect health? Is life normal? Is there any way to keep fit?

Self-enrichment: Do you have any expertise? Do you often read and collect information? Are you developing other skills?

Leisure management: Are there any regular leisure activities? Is it helpful for body, mind and work? Do you have any leisure plans?

2. part of the income from career wealth: what is the salary? Do you have any savings? Do you have any movable property or securities? Do you have real estate? How much is it worth? Do you have any extra money?

Social stratum: What is the present status? Is there any chance of promotion? Are you ready for a promotion? What is the interpersonal relationship inside and outside?

Self-realization: Do you like your present job? What is the reason? Are you ready to realize your life dream?

3. Quality of family life: What is the family environment? Do you have any plans to change houses? What about the layout and equipment at home? Is there a spiritual or spiritual life? Do children, couples and parents have study plans?

Family Relations: Are Couples Harmonious? Do you have the same development goals? Do you have the same or personal business plan? What is the relationship between parents, children and parents, in-laws, uncles and family members? Do you often get along with your family, communicate, do activities and travel?

Family Health: Are there any children at home? How old is the child? Is it healthy? Do you need someone to take care of you? How is your spouse's health? Are there any old people at home? Do you have any family members that need your care?

Third, correct psychological cognition.

1 recognizes that the value of life and society is not accepted equally by all people, nor does it represent the value of self-life. Life value includes: economic value, motive value, feedback value, aesthetic value and theoretical value.

2, beyond the existing gains and losses, everyone is working hard, but the achievements are not the same.

Regret and complaint are of no help to the future, while narcissism is like a rabbit in the "tortoise-rabbit race".

Life is like a game on the sports field, and it is difficult to win or lose at one time.

3. In response to various changes, any persistence is an act of "blocking" the future. Think about the revelation from Running Water that "learning is useless" is the truth.

Fourth, the environmental conditions of life development.

1, companion conditions: friends should be quantitative, diverse and capable.

2. Living conditions: there must be deposits, development funds and real estate.

3. Spouse conditions: consistent personality, consistent social attitude and consistent family goals.

4. Industry conditions: pay attention to the industries needed by the society at present and in the future, and pay attention to market share.

5. Enterprise conditions: to be stable, it is in large and medium-sized enterprises; Starting a business is in a small business. Does the company have a reform plan? What talents does the company need?

6. Regional conditions: depending on the industry and enterprise.

7. National (social) conditions: pay attention to political, legal, economic (resources, quality), social, cultural and educational conditions, social characteristics and potential market conditions.

8. World situation: pay attention to the developing industries in the world and develop your own career with a "world view".

Five, the three resources of life achievement

1. Interpersonal relations: family relations, in-laws relations, colleagues (classmates) relations and social relations.

[Solution] Communication and self-promotion

2. Golden pulse: wage income, marketable securities, funds, foreign currencies, time deposits, property (movable property, real estate) and credit (related to people and positions).

[Solution] Save money, manage money well, cooperate with husband and wife, and strive to improve their abilities, conditions and positions.

3. Pulse: knowledge, technology, consultation, planning, prediction (insight) and acuity.

[Solution] Do a good job in time management, arrange study plans, attend classes, attend lectures, further study, organize internal rotation, do more homework, practice repeatedly, take notes frequently, and make simulation plans.