Once, Xiao Chen went shopping with Xiaohong and met a student from Xiao Chen. Xiao Chen not only immediately shook off the hand holding Xiao Hongmei, but also introduced to the students in detail that these are his cousins. Xiaohong was heartbroken. If she doesn't understand why Chen keeps saying that he loves her or not, she denies that he is his girlfriend.
Later, when Xiaohong went to a classmate's birthday party, she saw Chen holding a girl's hand. Xiaohong said that all the students who celebrated their birthdays knew that the girl Chen was holding was Chen's girlfriend. Then Xiaohong realized why Chen didn't admit his identity. If people like Chen Xiao and Xiao Hong have lived together for more than a year, but he never tells his friends and classmates in detail that he is his lover, then he just regards you as an irrelevant lover.
Focus only on his own thoughts. When a man loves someone, he will always think of you, care about your experience, and be afraid that what he says and does will make you unhappy and will think of you everywhere. However, if a man doesn't really like you, he doesn't care too much about you. He only cares about himself and is selfish. Leng has a slight cold and is ill. Because Leng Weiwei left her hometown and went out to work in this city to earn money, she had no relatives around, so she asked her boyfriend to take care of her for two days.
However, when my boyfriend heard that he had a slight cold and fever, he didn't say hello, but said that he was afraid of infection and would come to accompany her when he recovered from his minor illness. After a little heartbreak, she realized that the other party didn't care about her at all, she was just playing with her. As we all know, in heterosexual communication, the other person only pays attention to his own thoughts, so he will only regard you as a "lover".
For a man who doesn't want to spend more money and time on you, it is very realistic. In his view, time, energy and money are very precious. If he really loves someone, he will be willing to pay more time and money for each other. He wants to give the girl happiness. But if a man doesn't really like you, he won't want to spend more time on you. When giving you money, it will measure whether it is worth it.
Xiao Zhao and Wang Qiang have been together for almost a year. Xiao Zhao said that Wang Qiang would rather play games than be with her, and even every time she went out to see a movie on a date, it was AA, so she went Dutch. What is even more infuriating is that every time Wang Qiang trysts with her, Xiao Zhao will be asked out because there is no one to accompany her. In fact, a man who doesn't want to spend money for you, just like being strong, will accompany you when necessary. He doesn't really like you, he just regards you as a "lover".