There are many ideals, many extravagant hopes and many sacrifices in life, just as Franklin said, "You have paid too much for your whistle", and our desperate efforts often lose many beautiful things in life. We got a doctorate, but we didn't spend time climbing Mount Tai. We became engineers and realized our grand architectural dream, but we didn't accompany our wife to buy clothes or take our children to the playground. We have a car and a house in the city, but we are heavily in debt. We live comfortably, but we ignore our weak old father and calloused mother in the countryside. We study and work hard, but our glasses have greatly increased, and our bodies are overdrawn every day; Our life is extremely unbalanced and even chaotic. Confusion and family crisis beset us. We cannot live for ourselves. We live in groups. To balance the contradictions in all aspects, we need to recuperate and develop in a balanced way.
Society needs harmony, ecology needs balance, family needs harmony, life needs balance of quantity and quality, body and mind need balance of yin and yang, and we need to live a balanced life. This is what I understand as a well-off life.
It is not easy to live a balanced life. We must choose, give up and live a healthy life. We must proceed from reality. It is the all-round development of people and the mentality of contentment. We must overcome impetuous psychology. Impetuousness is the cause of life imbalance. As the saying goes, people are divided into three-six-nine, and Taoism is divided into three religions. Let's not prove the correctness of this sentence for the time being, but at least we must admit the differences between individuals.
A correct view of one's differences is the basis of a balanced life. Only by treating this difference correctly will we not forget ourselves, get lost in the sea of people and go to the point of no return, lose people's hearts and lose the bottom line, and will we not collapse because of the imbalance of life.
It is not difficult to live a balanced and healthy life. In fact, it is a problem of dealing with people. The problem of abstinence is not to do extreme things or take extreme roads. Just like a scale, on the left is the social responsibility and moral quality of parents and families, and on the right is their own study, work and career. Correctly handle the contradiction between left and right, and make it tend to a balanced state. This is a balanced and happy life. The fulcrum of the balance is our own quality, knowledge, cultivation and morality. Only based on this fulcrum can we seek the balance of the balance. A person who has no ideal and pursuit, and does not work hard to create a life with his own diligence and wisdom, will never find this fulcrum, and naturally will not live a balanced, healthy and happy life. On the contrary, a life that only has ideals but does not work hard and pursues money and fame by hook or by crook is a subverted balance. Naturally, he will not lead a balanced life, and the law and prison are waiting for him.
People with this fulcrum should cherish life, cherish the happiness and happiness that life gives us, and constantly maintain and adjust the balance of life, which will bring us infinite excitement and success and reach a realm of life!