First, young people accept the existence of flash marriage, but the possibility of their own flash marriage is not high.

So many people think that getting married is nothing more than getting a certificate, and there is no need to make such a fuss, but parents are very sad about it, because they seem to be playing house and don't take it to heart. In the survey of the attitude towards life of the post-90s youth under the cherished network cable, it is found that parents and children really have completely different ideas about life. More than 24% of young people said that they really don't accept flash marriage. In their view, marriage should be well thought out, because there are too many factors to consider, so the process will not be too easy.

Second, the topic of blind date should be positive, not full of negative energy.

Of course, many young people's aversion to flash marriage also comes from meeting many people who hate marriage very strongly when dating. They have a strong intention and inclination to get married, but they feel very uncomfortable and feel that they have a feeling of being used. So try not to mention too sensitive topics when dating, otherwise it will make the atmosphere of the whole blind date very strange. In the research on the topic of dating aversion, we can see that no less than 5 1.67% of young people said that if the other party mentioned negative energy content, it would make them feel very depressed and even have no courage to continue talking to each other. But out of courtesy, I will still deal with each other, but I already know in my heart that such an encounter will not happen again.

There are also 6.53% blind date people who always like to criticize themselves and are always good at portraying themselves as victims when telling their emotional experiences, but such trivial ideas really make people have no motivation to continue to understand. Therefore, it is better to be cautious about your emotional experience. After all, not everyone wants to be a willing listener, but will regard it as a stain on others.

Third, young people are unwilling to live with their parents after marriage, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very tense.

Many young people have to face a choice when talking about marriage, that is, whether they can accept living with their parents after marriage. Zhenai's research also conducted a detailed investigation on this issue. From the feedback of the results, more than 64.35% of the young people said that they can live with their parents after marriage, but try not to live together because they know it will be too inconvenient to live with their parents. My parents and I have totally different living habits. Many young people have the habit of staying up late, but their parents went to bed as early as nine o'clock. Therefore, it is difficult to perfectly integrate the relaxation and entertainment of young people with the concept of health care for the elderly.