The higher your own value, the more you can meet your partner's needs, so your partner will naturally need you more and more, rely on you and want to be with you forever.
Regarding the face value, it mainly depends on genes, and some of them look at the maintenance of the day after tomorrow; About personality, it mainly depends on the growing environment, and partly depends on the acquired practice; With regard to money, either by family or by personal efforts; Regarding the care of life, see if you have the heart to do it and the will to take care of it; Giving the other person emotional dependence is more of an ability, which can be possessed through the acquired study.
Emotional dependence means that you can perceive each other's emotions, identify what their emotions are, and understand the reasons for their emotions, as well as your own emotions and feelings. If you can give each other emotional dependence, then this dependence can make our relationship very strong.
But in love, most boys and girls actually lack the ability to give their partners emotional dependence. Boys may be too rational, so they habitually suppress their emotions, so it is easy to turn a blind eye to their partners' emotions. Girls may be too emotional, so they are more immersed in their own emotions, and it is difficult to perceive their partners' emotions and feelings.
Therefore, if you want to have the ability to give your partner emotional dependence, you can improve this ability through several efforts.