A cowardly temperament

Since I was a child, my family education was strict, soft-hearted and strong, so I developed a flattering inferiority complex that I lacked confidence in everything and cared too much about other people's ideas.

Don't say what you want now, say what you want, and others will not listen. If you want to stare at others, just stare at you and see how you are. How did you change?

First, remember: no one cares whether you take care of his feelings when you speak! Don't worry too much.

Everyone only cares about themselves, even if you say something wrong, it won't be long before you are forgotten. Even if you are unreasonable, there will be no one you remember in a hundred years.

Second, because there are more disgusting people, you will find that your previous personality is useless.

You take care of other people's feelings, others will not appreciate it, but push your luck to disgust you. What are you afraid of when she can hurt you so justly?

Third, I was neglected too much in my love work and found myself a bottom mouse.

Don't think too highly of yourself. You will be cautious if you look at your self-esteem too high. Inferiority is another form of conceit.

Changing habits or something doesn't work, it's denying you now! Look at those confident people. Are they really self-disciplined?

Admit your true self, you have such shortcomings, you are extremely obscene, you are a complex individual, because you are a person. You don't need to be liked by everyone, that's impossible.

If you want people to like you, someone will hate you. The result of wanting everyone to like it is that everyone hates it. You think others won't like the real you, but you are wrong. Maybe their hearts are more disgusting than yours.

Self-confidence does not need self-discipline, but needs: self-love. You should take care of your own feelings, not others'.

Fourth, you should understand why you are timid. It's not your fault. It's unnatural.

This comes from the pua of the whole society, and it comes from the constant suppression of your family, school and other environments during your growth. Then you can know what's in pua. If you recognize it, you can defend yourself.

Fifth, self-confidence comes from action, doing a few things that I didn't dare to do before.

If you win a few more battles, you will naturally not be weak.

For example, people who used to bully themselves but didn't dare often bully themselves with their hands.

Sixth, you earn a lot of money and power, and you are really strong with strength.

Everyone is eager for strength, and strength is truth, which applies to the communication between countries or people.

Seventh, if you want to have a strong heart and not be cowardly, you need to put your legitimate core interests first.

Draw a line for everyone (including husband and wife, brothers and sisters, colleagues, leaders, anyone or organization). Once they cross the border, they must be reminded to call back by any means (not limited to fighting, alarm, audio and video recording, leaving written evidence and litigation).