Most elderly people think that at this age, they should stop getting a license and toss it. It is better to live together sincerely. When they encounter minor illnesses and disasters, they can help each other without disturbing their children.
Everyone has feelings, especially in old age, and pays more attention to feelings. In the old man's mind, whoever is good to me will be better to him.
In life, many people say that it is good to be together and not meet anything. It would be even sadder if something happened and we broke up.
But there are exceptions to everything. Uncle Qin, 75, said that I have been with him for seven years, and I feel that the better my old age is, mainly because we respect each other and never give up, and our children are generous.
I am 75 years old, and my wife has been gone for many years. Now I live in small 8 with Xiao Zhao who is older than me. Although we didn't get a license to remarry, during our seven years together, I feel that my old age is getting better and better.
I have a son and a daughter. My son works in other places and gets married. As long as my daughter is by my side, we live in a community. Usually, she will come to see me and Xiao Zhao and buy us some daily necessities to help us wash.
Xiao Zhao is 67 years old. His wife has been dead for many years. Only one daughter has a home, and the children are in other places. She has her own pension and house.
Xiao Zhao and I were introduced by seven young people. After retiring, I learned to practice Tai Ji Chuan with Tai Chi team in the square. At that time, I didn't want to find another wife. I think a person's life is also very good. One person is full, the whole family is not hungry, and life is ok.
Later, because of an illness, the children wanted to take me to their home to live with them for the elderly. Nowadays, children are very busy at work. As a retired old man, I don't think it's appropriate to follow my son's family and my daughter's family. I also feel that I have caused them trouble. I don't want to go because I am reasonable, but I still feel comfortable living alone.
Lao Zhang of our Tai Chi team told me that you have a house, a pension and a certain amount of savings, so you might as well find a partner to live with, so that not only someone will take care of you, but also someone will accompany you, but you have to pay more.
I see. Now which old lady will be willing to spend money for nothing? In this way, through the introduction of good people, I met Xiao Zhao. She just came back from her daughter's house with her baby, and studied and practiced Tai Ji Chuan with our Tai Chi team.
Because we have the same hobbies, we soon got closer. I told Xiao Zhao that if she wanted, we could try to get along for a while and feel good about each other, and then we could discuss how to live together.
At first, I thought Xiao Zhao just didn't like talking very much. She was an introverted woman. After a long time of contact, I feel that Xiao Zhao is a good woman with great connotation and strong opinions.
We will fight together in the square every day, then chat together, or walk around the square to chat, and gradually we will get to know each other and have a good impression on each other.
Xiao Zhao will bring me some snacks made by her, or coarse grain cakes and steamed bread. I will also invite Xiao Zhao to a restaurant to taste different foods at an appropriate time.
We have similar tastes, so I think we can still eat together. I invited Xiao Zhao to my house for dinner several times. We bought food and cooked together, and then had a few drinks. It's really great.
In his spare time, Xiao Zhao will help me unpack, wash my things and tidy up my house at home. I found a woman at home, and the house was immediately different.
When we spent more than three months together, Xiao Zhao vomited and diarrhea because of eating bad food. I know, I bought some medicine for her, took care of her for a few days, and accompanied her to the hospital for a few days. Xiao Zhao is very grateful for my concern and company.
Xiao Zhao said, it's a good thing someone is here, otherwise she doesn't know who to trouble again. After Xiao Zhao recovered, we discussed moving in together.
We discussed it with our children, but we didn't get a license, just boarded together. The children have no problem, but I mentioned that I would pay the living expenses for Xiao Zhao and me, and Xiao Zhao would be responsible for accompanying me, being my partner, cooking, washing and cleaning for me. If something happens in the hospital and the other party has medical insurance, these don't need the other party to take money.
Many people think that when Xiao Zhao is with me, she becomes my live-in nanny. That's because they only see the appearance, but when we are together, we are accompanied by each other and both feel suitable for each other, so we can live together.
Every day, the two of us get up early to exercise in the square, and then buy food and go home to cook. In the morning, I practice calligraphy at home or go downstairs to play chess with my brothers, while Xiao Zhao cleans up and cooks lunch at home.
We all have the habit of taking a nap. After waking up, we will chat and have tea together and then go out together. When the weather is bad, we watch TV at home or watch videos online.
We are the kind of people who have the same hobbies and are free from each other. We respect each other, and we will never dislike it because Xiao Zhao likes it and I don't. Xiao Zhao won't be sad, because I like it and she doesn't.
Last year, because of my little gesture, Xiao Zhao saw that I was a precursor to a cerebral infarction, so he sent me to the hospital and had an operation in time, which didn't make me unable to take care of myself.
When I got up that morning, I couldn't walk in a straight line and I couldn't speak clearly. Xiao Zhao asked me something at once. My answer is wrong. Xiao Zhao knows where I am wrong.
If I had been at home alone, maybe it would have passed like that. Just because I am boarding in Xiao Zhao, she will find out my problems carefully. After more than a year of recovery, I can take care of myself and fight as before.
I am very grateful to Xiao Zhao, and my children are also very grateful to Xiao Zhao. My daughter often comes back to visit us and chat with Xiao Zhao. If anything is missing or needed at home, my daughter will buy it back for us.
Xiao Zhao never lets her daughter out of her pocket, but always gives her a red envelope. Xiao Zhao always said that it is not easy for young people to go to work all the year round, to rush about for their families, to take care of small families and to take care of two old people.
Now, we have been with Xiao Zhao for seven years, and my pension has already been handed over to Xiao Zhao for management. Every day, I just wait to eat and drink, someone to chat with me, and someone at home to make me miss, knowing that no matter how late I come home, there are hot meals for me to eat.
Many people think I am a blessed old man, but I want to say that when people are old, they should respect each other whether they get a license or not, especially for the old lady, and they should respect her choice. Don't force others to work, I hope they will pay more. How can an old man take all the good things away?
Old people need to be sincere with each other when they live together. Only by respecting each other can we go further and better together.
Especially when the elderly are unwell, they can help each other and spend this time together. You take care of me, I will serve you, and life will be better when you take care of each other.
Between people, it's always true for true, and true for true. This kind of home makes people feel warm, warm and cordial.