People often say that love is blind and women in love are stupid. Why does everyone say that? And what is the psychology of a woman in love? Today, Bian Xiao will show you the psychology of women in love.
First, you should understand the psychology of women in love.
1, the egocentric psychology of women in love
People with this mentality only ask their lover to change, listen to themselves, serve themselves and cater to their individual needs, regardless of each other's needs, interests, hobbies and values. So it is difficult to get the love of the opposite sex. People with this mentality can only say that they have the basic conditions for successful love if they change their values and learn to care for and respect others.
2. Women in love are inexplicably jealous.
A woman is very sensitive to people or things around her, especially in love. She will constantly compare herself with others, and always worry that her value will not be recognized by the other party in her mind, so she will be jealous and sometimes she can't get rid of it. Jealousy is harmful, not only to people, but also to their physical and mental health.
3. The psychology of women in love is too realistic.
Due to social pressure and the temptation of money. "Suitable for the right family" is naturally the first choice for love and marriage, which can avoid many unnecessary troubles after marriage. But it's too "pragmatic", and the smell of copper is too strong, which will make another monk, Zhang Er, very confused, wondering whether he loves money or his lover. Maybe you can't even tell where your love is. If you have love in your heart, simple tea and light rice can make you strong and beautiful.
4. In love, a woman's mind is duplicitous.
Men must know when women are duplicitous. This is very important. We often quarrel about it. And women usually become very duplicitous when they desire, and dare not say it if they want to. So when I asked my girlfriend to go to the movies, my boyfriend wanted to buy a ticket. If the girlfriend says no, the boyfriend won't go. If I wait for my girlfriend to buy it, the movie will definitely fail. This strange psychology of women is actually a self-protection strategy, and of course, sometimes it is also the expression of women's true heart.
5. Psychological punishment of women in love.
If your husband doesn't agree with some unreasonable demands, just "stop the bed" and throw a pillow to your husband and tell him to get out! This behavior of using sex as a weapon to force her husband to defect or yield may eventually turn into her husband's apathy. In the long run, men will feel frustrated. So this kind of behavior is tantamount to torturing men, and it is the kind that kills men. Once the pillow of hatred seeds germinates, the pillow becomes a time bomb!
6. In love, women's psychological trifles are unreasonable, and major events are brainless.
It is understandable that women are cautious, but if they are too entangled, they will only lead to too much sadness. Many times, you have to admit that a man is far-sighted and rational. If you can't make concessions and compromises rationally, then you will be lonely and divided. Then you won't have anyone to accompany you.
Second, understand the careful thoughts of married women.
1, women please themselves.
As long as there is nothing wrong with your marriage, the wife must dress up for her husband. This should not be a question that needs to be questioned at all, but sometimes men's psychology is also very strange. If the wife is a slovenly yellow-faced woman, men will feel humiliated. My wife is so beautifully dressed, but I'm afraid she'll change her mind. If a man is not confident and narrow-minded, it is really terrible. If a man doesn't pull out a few words: "Who is wearing such beautiful clothes?" Most women will reply: "Do you care?" In fact, many times women are really duplicitous, and women will definitely not say that they are for you, because in the face of a fool, women will definitely be rude to you.
It will always be the treasure in your hand.
A woman has a gentle heart no matter how successful her career is or how tough her appearance is. No matter whether she is a big woman or a small woman, no matter what age she is, she still longs to be loved and cared for by her husband as always. After giving birth, a woman may spend most of her energy on her children. This doesn't mean that a woman doesn't love her husband. At this time, it is really wrong for a man to alienate his wife because of inexplicable loss. That old song was well written until we were too old to go anywhere, and you still regarded me as your treasure.
3, the mother-in-law problem, just hope to get your comfort.
When there are contradictions or unpleasantness between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the man clearly knows that his mother has done something wrong, but even if he faces his wife alone in private, he still chooses to remain silent. Over time, women will pass on a lot of grievances to men. In fact, women are not as unreasonable as men think. Her mother-in-law is her husband's mother. Women don't really want men to condemn their mothers. They just want a little comfort from men. Is coaxing your wife unfaithful and unfilial to your mother?
It is a kind of happiness to receive your gift.
In fact, on some special days, it is a very happy thing to receive a gift from my husband, which has nothing to do with the value of the gift, but the difference between intentional and unintentional. Birthday or anniversary, a bunch of flowers or a box of candy, even if a woman doesn't say anything, her face will be filled with a happy smile.
I hope you can go with me when I go back to my parents' house.
When every man pursues a woman, he will go to his future mother-in-law's house to work as a coolie. At that time, it was estimated that he was afraid that he could not find an excuse to come home. But after marriage, especially after many years of marriage, many men are reluctant to go to his mother-in-law's house. Maybe there is no motivation.
Third, men must know how to manage their feelings.
1, show your true self
The most important thing in love is to let the other person know who he really is and what kind of person he is. With constant running-in and joint efforts, the temperature of love remains saturated. In love, you must let the other person know who you really are and like who you really are.
2. learn to say no.
In the process of love, boys should keep a rational mind, while girls prefer to be spoiled and make demands on boys. At this time, boys should pay attention to it, and don't let girls promise everything when they are spoiled, which will lead to girls' unbridled behavior and even produce many contradictions. Therefore, boys should also learn to say no. Persuade people with reason and convince their girlfriends with their own emotions, which will help two people to run in and coordinate on the emotional road, help love and help love last longer.
3. Learn to admit mistakes
Whether you make a big mistake or a small mistake, you will be responsible for your actions if you make a mistake. Especially in love, many boys are unwilling to admit their mistakes, but choose to hide them. This is an unwise idea, which will only lead to conflicts with your girlfriend, which is harmful and useless. Therefore, we must learn to admit our mistakes. When we know that we have done something wrong, we should put down our face and apologize, because this is not the time to save face, and we should be responsible for our mistakes seriously and generously. Apologizing is not a shameful thing, but correcting the wrong attitude. Instead of stubbornly insisting that you are not wrong, this will only produce contradictions.
Don't blame your girlfriend in public.
Boys love face and girls love face, so as a boy, don't blame her in front of outsiders or friends. Even if you don't like your girlfriend's behavior, you shouldn't say it in front of everyone. If you say it, you will be in big trouble. This will only embarrass your girlfriend, and at the same time she will start to wonder if you really like her. No matter how much you don't like some of her practices, you should show your great love for her in front of outsiders or friends, so that she will feel safe. Even if you want to say something to your girlfriend, you should find a suitable time and place for both sides to bring it up, so as to reduce unnecessary conflicts. At this time, girls are more likely to accept questions or mistakes raised by boys.
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