As the ancients said, nine times out of ten, life is unpleasant. Frankly speaking, it's just the good wishes of mom and dad. Next, I sorted out the relevant contents of how parents cultivate their inner strong children. I hope you like the article!
"Home makes me feel safe and happy."
The happier parents are in their own lives, the more likely their children will have a bright future. Mom and dad's happiness and troubles will be passed on to their children as quickly as possible. Even if the child is faced with injuries or harsh battles, as long as he can feel the love and warmth between his parents and the whole family, he will have the courage to face all difficulties.
"Regular days make me feel at ease."
Mom and dad always take pains to buy cool toys for their babies and plan exciting trips. They think these fresh influences will make their children happier. In fact, children also need predictable and continuous regular days, such as eating together in the evening, then walking or playing games, and fixing such organizations for a long time, giving children a sense of control and reducing their depression and anxiety.
"I know that my parents will inform me and will discuss with me."
The child is growing faster and faster, and it is not as simple as before to scare him or hide anything. He will even use his rich imagination to fabricate a situation worse than the actual situation. So, it's hard to hide. It is best to tell your child the truth in words that he can understand. For example, grandpa was sick and the little goldfish died. Children with a sense of security will get stronger and stronger.
"I know how to deal with good mood and bad mood."
If every time a child cries or feels depressed, angry or desperate, parents will cheer him up by making him happy or paying attention, which is likely to send a wrong message to the child: unhappiness is wrong. Then in the future, when children encounter negative emotions, they are unwilling to tell their parents how they feel, but keep negative emotions in their hearts. A truly mentally healthy person can not laugh when he is sad, but can live in peace with his bad mood.
"I'm in no hurry. There is always a way to deal with the problem. "
It's not terrible to encounter problems. The key is to teach children the methods and skills to deal with problems, so that they can sow the seeds of optimism and pride in their hearts. When a four-or five-year-old child is depressed because building blocks always fall, don't build him a perfect castle to cheer him up, but encourage him to try again. Open-minded and tenacious children will have the determination to deal with problems in any environment.