First of all, beautiful and lovely children will be liked by teachers in kindergarten. I think this is understandable. This is just the normal performance of a normal person.
If one child is clean and beautiful and the other child is ugly and sloppy, which one do you prefer as a teacher?
I think everyone's choice is the same, because everyone will choose or be biased towards better mistakes. I saw a news yesterday that a beautiful girl earned more than 30 thousand a month as a beggar. Now this social value is very important. It's true.
But the teachers don't like those children who are not very pretty. Not really. If children are capable, polite, educated and helpful, they can often help teachers do some neat things, and they can also be very popular with teachers.
Similarly, even beautiful and lovely children will not be liked by teachers if they are poor in ability and have no manners and upbringing. So I think the so-called appearance brings more first impressions, and more importantly, children's education and good behavior habits.
However, kindergarten teachers are different. No matter what kind of feelings teachers have for children, it should be the most basic accomplishment of every kindergarten teacher to treat every child equally in peacetime and give every child fair and just treatment and education.
This is my opinion. I hope I can help you. If there are any shortcomings, please leave a message in the comment area for discussion.
Most beautiful children are very smart, so they are popular everywhere, but in a small society like kindergarten, children can't be liked by teachers just because they are beautiful.
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A friend of mine is a kindergarten teacher. There are nearly 30 children and two teachers in the class. In addition to beautiful children, there are children who are usually self-care and clever and don't need teachers to worry about. Of course, there is another kind that will leave a deep impression on teachers, that is, children who are particularly sloppy or naughty, but teachers will not leave a deep impression on those children who are in the middle between cleverness and naughty.
Although some children are beautiful, they are a headache for teachers, and they are stubborn and disobedient. So sometimes when chatting, friends will say that clean and well-behaved children are more popular with teachers. Teachers can also see how much parents care about their children and are more willing to care and love your children. If parents are indifferent to their children, teachers will also ignore them psychologically.
I have to say that beautiful children have eye contact, but what is a beautiful child? Different people have different aesthetics and there is no uniform standard. People are more or less influenced by first impressions. A beautiful child will impress the teacher at first sight, but with the deepening of communication with children, beauty will not be the first factor for teachers to like children.
I know a little boy. He is handsome and talkative. I am always called by my uncle and aunt when I meet familiar people. At first, I thought that boy was really nice and particularly likable. Later, children often played with my son, and I found that children especially loved swearing. Swearing is his pet phrase. He curses when he is happy, and curses when he is unhappy, which is particularly offensive.
When my family Dabao went to kindergarten, their teacher and I lived in a community. She once talked about this problem in a chat. She said that she likes smart and polite children best and hates unruly and ill-bred children most. It can be seen that education is the most beautiful dress for a child, and it is the key to whether a child is beautiful or not and whether it can be liked by teachers.
There are extra points for appearance, but we should also divide the situation. It depends on whether the child is an ordinary child or a particularly noisy child.
The average child mentioned here is calm in mood and temper, not the kind who is particularly bad and makes trouble for the teacher all day.
Such a child's good looks really add points.
Teachers are willing to treat beautiful children well, and beautiful children will feel this difference.
After it is developed, it will be good for you and me. In the future, teachers will be more and more kind to children. Children's performance will get better and better-this is the expected effect.
If you are noisy, uncooperative, prone to lose your temper, and play with children, no matter how good it is, the marginal effect will be reduced after a long time, and teachers will hate it.
Then the sense of contrast came. The more you look at it, the more beautiful it looks. Why is it so noisy? This sense of contrast will also attract children's disgust.
In this case, it is useless to look good again.
Both Fan Deng and Li Meijin have said that prosocial refers to whether a person can interact with society and has some behavioral norms that meet social expectations.
If there was only one person in the world, he wouldn't have so many constraints. If people want to enter the society, they must abide by the law, pay attention to their words and deeds, and interact well with others.
This requires us to have a sense of rules, know how to communicate with people, how to behave in groups, be polite and so on.
You can make rules or use picture books-when reading picture books, children will naturally compare themselves with the stories in the picture books.
It can also be discussed to help children understand better.
This is my answer, to sum up: no matter how beautiful, you must have a high prosocial nature.
Pro-social children can go anywhere.
Thank you for reading. This article ends.
A beautiful teacher will definitely like it, but she also has a good personality. If she is naughty and disobedient, no matter how beautiful the teacher doesn't like it, my daughter is fine. Teachers like it. She has a sweet mouth and can lie. Girls who love to laugh are the most beautiful, huh?
Some people say that it is a society that looks at faces, and this has some truth. When a person's appearance is outstanding, others will unconsciously have a good impression on him when they see him. These are normal human reactions. Kindergarten teachers are no exception. Children are good-looking, and naturally they like to see more and like more. Just as we see some children with higher values on the Internet, will they like it? But does being good-looking necessarily take advantage? That's not true. Kindergarten teachers have to take care of many children every day, which is very hard. Therefore, in the minds of teachers, teachers actually prefer to take care of obedient and easy-to-manage children. Because such a child listens to the teacher, the teacher feels very relaxed. Some children are told by their families to be overbearing and always make trouble. Even if he looks good, the teacher is not satisfied. Therefore, for children, appearance is only one aspect, and more importantly, politeness, etiquette and other internal things. Adults, too, are handsome and swear when they open their mouths. Who would like it? Therefore, for children, we should pay more attention to their inner cultivation and ability training, not their appearance, and don't always praise their good looks. After a long time, children will pay too much attention to their appearance and have unrealistic fantasies.
Everyone loves beauty, right? Teachers are no exception. At first, everyone appeared in front of the teacher at the same time, and the teacher was willing to let him answer questions or make demonstrations. The children in a class must be very beautiful. But after a long time, I think teachers will also consider the issue of equal opportunities, and other parents may also propose to pay more attention to their children's wishes, so the chances of good-looking children getting teachers' attention may be reduced. Moreover, in the process of communication, teachers will know what personality each child is and what personality parents are. Children who are more polite and easy to communicate may get more attention and win the favor of teachers more easily. Therefore, the child's face value is a stepping stone, and it takes a long time to see people's hearts.
I'm glad to answer your question. I am a nanny for two children. I am also a teacher in the early education center. Let me share what kind of children are the most popular.
Popular erbao
I take care of Bauer full-time, and I have been studying parenting books, and the parent-child story has been persisting. Therefore, Bauer is a good boy who is polite, respects the teacher, abides by the rules and studies hard. When kindergarten started, the teacher contacted me and entrusted me to be the parent representative in charge of the class.
Only one month after the primary school started, the teacher surprised me by asking me to fill out the excellent parent form.
Later, every teacher who had access to them spoke highly of their children. They were earnest in class, conscientious in their work, respectful to teachers, and United with their classmates.
A beautiful child is sure to please the teacher?
I'm not sure. There are some girls in our garden. They are very beautiful. But she has many shortcomings, such as crying, poor self-care ability, unruly behavior, a lot of small moves in class and so on. Teachers can't like it either.
Although beautiful children have advantages, if they also have bad habits, there is no way to attract the attention of teachers.
What kind of children does the teacher like?
First, the family relationship is harmonious. Harmonious family relationship, good parental affection and good parent-child relationship are more conducive to the healthy growth of children.
Second, children with high quality parent-child companionship. Only with high-quality parents can children grow up healthily and happily. Accompanied by parents, rules can be established as early as possible, and good health habits can be cultivated, so that children can better adapt to kindergartens, respect rules and win the favor of teachers after entering the park.
Children whose parents love learning. Parents are willing to study for their children's growth, learn parenting knowledge, child psychology and so on. Parents who love learning can educate excellent children.
I hope it works.
That's for sure. When people are unfamiliar, most people will choose people with higher value. It is human nature to be good-looking. Relatively speaking, there are more opportunities to look good. Under the same conditions, good looks are definitely a priority.
Kindergarten teachers are no exception. Remember to send your friend's children to kindergarten. The kindergarten teacher said that this child is handsome and has heavy eyes, so you will stand in front of the garden activities in the future. So do we. Not only teachers, workplaces and children, but everyone likes beautiful people or things.
Beautiful people are likable everywhere, even adults, not to mention children!
But don't question the teacher. As a professional teacher, it is his most basic duty to treat every child fairly. Just like a director, although he also likes beautiful actors, doesn't he need beautiful acting skills? Every child has his own bright spot. The teacher is not against you. Why do you hate children?
But it is also important to educate children well. If a child is rude, uneducated and uneducated, it is hard to be liked even if he is beautiful.
Educating children well is more important than anything else!