Therefore, women are relatively prone to anxiety. When our faces are covered with wrinkles and freckles, our energy and physical strength are not as good as before, and we are more afraid of life.
Especially for women after middle age, their lives are actually going downhill. Without the blessing of foreign things, they will live a hard and painful life.
What kind of life is a 45-year-old woman facing?
If you want to leave yourself a way out before the age of 45, you must first understand the difficulties you will encounter in your life after the age of 45, and then you can better prepare for the future.
At the age of 45, the beauty is dying, and the woman has gone through most of her life. Aging comes quietly. This is the law of life, but in fact, for a 45-year-old woman, the most terrible thing is not physical aging, but mental aging.
Fatigue is the most fatal state of women after middle age, because a tired life mentality will often have a far-reaching impact on the future, and they will be in a state of hardship and loss for a long time, so there will be no hope for such a life.
Therefore, how to avoid fatigue after middle age is the primary problem facing women. A woman's life does not mean that she has lost her youth capital and hope for the future. Perhaps over 45 years old is also a brand-new beginning.
It is those smart women who know how to save their lives and prepare their own future. Before the age of 45, women should prepare these three roads for themselves.
Independent economy and personality
Marx pointed out in Das Kapital that the economic base determines the superstructure, which is applicable to both economics and philosophy of life.
There is a saying in Zhihu: 80% of the troubles in life come from lack of money, and the remaining 20% comes from your lack of money.
Wealth is not a noble thing, but people living in the world only have enough material foundation to have time and energy to improve their ideological level.
The first retreat a woman should leave for herself is an independent financial source and an independent personality, a wealth foundation that can lead a happy life without being attached to anyone.
And a truth that women must understand is that no one can be your forever backer, and the only thing people can rely on in this life is themselves.
Smart women not only have their own independent financial resources, but also have independent ideological personality. They have their own judgments and decisions when things go wrong, and they also have long-term plans and goals for their future lives.
A positive attitude of loving life and self.
What middle-aged women lack most is passion for life. Without love, they lack confidence in the future, and the best way for women to leave themselves is actually an attitude of never giving up on life.
In addition, women should love themselves more. Only when they learn to love their own women can they be happy, no matter what stage she is in life.
Like Summer Xu, the goddess of youth, although she is not young, she is still like a little girl in a variety show, who loves to laugh and coquetry.
Many people call her a real goddess, and this beauty is actually largely due to her mental health and love for herself.
In fact, only women who love themselves are more likely to be loved. Even if no one loves you, you will always remain enthusiastic and loving. This life is also destined to be happy.
If a person is used to looking up at the starry sky, then her mentality and life are doomed to be starry sky, and if a person is used to staring into the abyss, the abyss will also look at you.
Saving health is the greatest wealth.
Health is the foundation of life and the capital of all revolutions. Without health, everything is empty talk. Women's saving health is actually creating the greatest wealth and leaving the best way.
Many times we ignore health, we don't face up to the value of health, and only when we lose health can we understand that health is more important than anything else.
Nowadays, many people exchange health for wealth, but in the end wealth can't be exchanged for health. In fact, many things are not precious when they are owned, and they regret when they are lost.
People are so used to ignoring what they have in front of them, and excessive pursuit also ignores it, and saving health is actually one of the greatest wisdom in life.
Don't stay up late at ordinary times, don't consume health, exercise more, relax, be indifferent to stress and learn a healthy lifestyle. Excessive consumption of health when you are young will pay off when you are old.
Learn to save health before 45, and it will become your greatest wealth after 45.
In a word, life is very short. At the age of 45, a woman has entered the second half of her life and learned to leave a way out for herself. Sometimes, if she is fully prepared for the rest of her life, it will actually be a brand-new and beautiful life.