The Prime Minister said in a letter: "You can go to the East Room and choose any one." The apprentice returned to Bai Biao and said, "All the Wangs and Langs deserve respect.
Smell it and find it, salty and reserved; Only Ichiro was lying flat on the east bed, without hearing anything. Li Gongyun:' Exactly!' It's easy to visit it because I married a woman. "
Once, Jane sent his protege to see Wang Dao, hoping to choose a son-in-law among the children of the Wangs. Wang Dao sent people to the East Wing to see the Wangs' children.
When his disciples came back, he said to Chi Jian, "The children of the Wangs are all very well, but when they heard a messenger coming, they all looked stiff and unnatural. There is only one person sitting on the bed in the east, eating with an empty stomach, as if nothing had happened. " Chi Jian said, "This is my suitable husband. "
Asked, it turned out to be Wang Xizhi. Chi Jian married his daughter to him.
2. Translation 100 words: Tandong bed, classical Chinese Tandong bed
Original text: "The teacher is in Beijing, and he sent his master and Prime Minister Wang Zhao to beg for his wife. The Prime Minister said in a letter: "You can go to the East Room and choose any one." The apprentice returned to Bai Biao and said, "All the Wangs and Langs deserve respect. Smell it and find it, salty and reserved; Only Ichiro was lying flat on the east bed, without hearing anything. "Gui Hongyun:' This is good! It's easy to visit it because I married a woman. "
Once, Jane sent his protege to see Wang Dao, hoping to choose a son-in-law among the children of the Wangs. Wang Dao sent people to the East Wing to see the Wangs' children. When his disciples came back, he said to Chi Jian, "The children of the Wangs are all very well, but when they heard a messenger coming, they all looked stiff and unnatural. There is only one person sitting on the bed in the east, eating with an empty stomach, as if nothing had happened. " Chi Jian said, "This is my suitable husband. "Ask, turned out to be wang xizhi. Chi Jian married his daughter to him.
Extension: Chi Jian, the commander-in-chief of the Jin Dynasty, was a very talented person. In order to choose a suitable object for her daughter, the boss Xi racked his brains. Later, he found that the children of Prime Minister Wang Dao were handsome and talented, so he sent a public servant to the Wangs to choose a son-in-law.
When the news came, the children of the Wangs were excited and nervous. They heard that Miss Xi has a good personality and is very talented. Who doesn't want to marry her? As a result, they were carefully decorated, sitting in school, seemingly reading books, and their hearts had already flown.
However, on the east side of the case, there is a person who is different. I saw him casually as usual, as if there was no such thing, and he was still writing intently. On this day, the weather was not hot, but the young man was so hot that he untied his coat and showed his stomach. Maybe he has no time to eat in the morning. As he wrote, he grabbed a mouthful of cold steamed bread and chewed it freely. His eyes were still fixed on the calligraphy in front of him. The right hand holding the brush has not been released for a moment, and sometimes it will be hung up to write. That serious expression makes people laugh.
Chi Jian sent his own representative to the school to observe and understand, and then he went back. In his opinion, the children of the Wangs are very good, polite, young, handsome and talented, and it is almost impossible to say which is the best and which is the worst. However, to say that the performance is not so satisfactory, there is another one. He bared his chest and abdomen, while writing and eating steamed bread. It seems too casual, as if he didn't care about the boss's choice of son-in-law.
The adult listened to the report and was very interested in this young man with "casual" behavior. He inquired about the situation in detail, folded his hands happily and said, "This is the son-in-law I am looking for." What's going on here? Boss Xi thinks that this young man doesn't take personal matters to heart, but concentrates on calligraphy, which is a promising performance. With such enthusiasm and infatuation, he is not worried about becoming a talent.
Guess who this young man is? It was none other than Wang Xizhi. Wang Xizhi's wife, Chi Jian's daughter, was also a calligrapher, and their son Wang Xianzhi later became a famous calligrapher.
Hope to adopt.
3. The classical Chinese meaning of Dong Chuang son-in-law: also known as Dong Chuang son-in-law, Dong Chuang son-in-law, Dong Chuang son-in-law, Dong Chuang son-in-law's choice, Dong Chuang son-in-law and Dong Chuang jiao ke.
Refers to an open-minded and talented son-in-law. It is the laudatory name of son-in-law.
Out of the Southern Dynasties, Liu Song Yiqing Shi Shuo Xin Yu Liang YaNo. 19. It is said that in Jingkou, someone sent a letter to the Prime Minister Wang to find a son-in-law.
The Prime Minister sent a letter saying, "You can go to the East Wing and choose any one." When he came back, Bai said, "All the generals in the Wang family can also receive this gift. When I heard that I was looking for a husband, I was salty and reserved.
Only Ichiro, lying on the bed, has no smell. "Xi Gongyun:" Exactly! "It's easy to visit it, because I married a woman.
Wang's "Spectrum" said, "Yi Shao is a small word. The wife of Chi Jian, a teacher, and the wife of Xi, whose name is the word ovary. "
In Jingkou (now Zhenjiang, Jiangsu), Chi Jian sent a protege to see Prime Minister Wang Dao, saying that he wanted to find a son-in-law (a member of the Wangs). The Prime Minister said to Chi Jian's envoy, "Go to the East Wing (and have a look) and choose whatever you want."
When his students came back, he told Chi Jian, "The Wangs' son is also commendable, but it is unnatural to hear that (the teacher) is looking for a son-in-law. Only one son was lying in bed naked, as if he hadn't heard about it. "
Chi Jian said: "This is the best candidate!" (So I sent someone to inquire, and it turned out to be Shao Yi, so I married my daughter to him. Wang's genealogy records: it is Wang Xizhi's word.
Wang Xizhi's wife is the daughter of teacher Chi Jian. Her name is Zhuo, and she has an ovary. "Note 1, Xi Taifu: that is, Chi Jian (269-339), the word Daohui.
Gaoping Jinxiang (now Jinxiang County, Shandong Province) people. A calligrapher and general in the Eastern Jin Dynasty, the great-grandson of Lv Chi, an ancient scholar in the Eastern Han Dynasty.
When I was a teenager, I was lonely and poor, but I read a lot of classics and devoted myself to singing. I was famous for my elegance and purity, and I shouldn't be famous by the court. When Emperor Jinhui was a prince, he served as a shed worker and assistant minister of Chinese books.
After the fall of Luoyang, more than 1000 families gathered in Yishan to take refuge. Later, in the name of the imperial court, Si Marui appointed General Long Xiang and Yanzhou Secretariat as agents to guard Zoushan.
He has served as general and commander-in-chief of Yanzhou Military Region for three years. In the early years of Yongchang, he was worshipped as the leading general.
After worshipping General Anxi, in order to resist Wang Dun, who was a taboo to him, he pretended to save Hefei Town and confiscated it as an official order. In the second year of Taining (324), Ming Di appointed him as a pseudo-general and general in charge of military power, and took part in the fight against the rebellion in Wang Dun. After the event, Gao Pinghou was sealed with merit.
Looking for a general to move a car and ride a horse, the commander-in-chief of Xu Yanqing, like Wang Dao, was assisted by a testamentary edict to become an emperor. When Emperor Cheng ascended the throne, he moved his vehicle to ride the General and Kaifuyi, and added regular servants.
Soviet rebellion, Chi Jian and Tao Kan * * * led the army to make peace. Later, he was promoted to Sikong as an assistant and was appointed Duke of Nanchang County.
In the fourth year of Xiankang (338), he entered Taiwei. Rejecting Yu Liang's proposal to abolish kingcraft prevented the gentry from fighting in Korea.
Xiankang died in the fifth year (339), aged 71. Emperor Cheng sent an imperial censor to observe the festival and protect the funeral, and posthumously presented Taizai and Shi Wencheng.
Buried on the east bank of Weishan Lake. Chi Jian is a calligrapher, and the existing "disaster post" is Chunhua Pavilion Post.
The Selected Works handed down from ancient times (ancient books and records of the Tang Dynasty) consists of ten volumes. 2. Jingkou: a military town in the lower reaches of the Yangtze River during the Six Dynasties.
Originally Dantu County, Wu Jun City, Yangzhou. During the Jian 'an period of the Eastern Han Dynasty (196-2 19), Sun Quan ruled this place and called it the "capital city". And moved to Jianye, renamed "Jingkou".
After Wu Dong was founded, he was transferred to the electric farm as the captain. The Western Jin Dynasty belongs to Piling County, Yangzhou.
Nandu in the Eastern Jin Dynasty was once under the jurisdiction of overseas Chinese counties such as Xuzhou and Donghai. In the sixth year of Yixi (4 10), Xuzhou's old land was recovered; In the second year of Song Yongchu (42 1), Xuzhou, an overseas Chinese, was changed to South Xuzhou, and Donghai County, an overseas Chinese, was still under its jurisdiction.
Emperor Wu of Song made his fortune here, which was called "Beijing" in the Song Dynasty. The old city is now stationed here in Wu Dong, Zhenjiang City, Jiangsu Province.
The eastern Jin Dynasty crossed the south, and the general offices of Zhengbei, Zhenbei, Anbei, Pingbei and Beizhong are permanently located here, which is called "Beifu". At the end of the Eastern Jin Dynasty, the Northern Expedition extended its territory to Huaibei, and the military status of Jingkou began to decline.
In the second year of Southern Qi Yongming (484), Wang Xiaoshuo of Guiyang was the secretariat of Southern Xuzhou, and the Jingkou Military Office was closed. After the Hou Jing Rebellion at the end of Liang Dynasty, Jiangbei fell and was heavily guarded at Jingkou. 3. Prime Minister Wang: Wang Dao (276-339), named Mao Hong, named Aaron.
Langya Linyi (now Linyi City, Shandong Province) was born. A famous politician and calligrapher in the Eastern Jin Dynasty, and one of the founders of the Eastern Jin regime.
Wang Dao was born in a famous family in Wei and Jin Dynasties. In his early years, he befriended Si Marui, the king of Langya. Later, he suggested that he move the capital to build a town, and contacted the southern gentry for him to appease the northern gentry. After the establishment of the Eastern Jin Dynasty, he first paid homage to the ancient rank of general and the three departments' rites, sealed Hou Wugang's post, and took up the posts of serving Han officials, taking vacations, recording minister affairs, and supervising Chinese books.
Instead of following my brother Wang Dun inside and outside, the pattern of "king and horse, * * * the world" is formed. In the first year of Yongchang (322), Wang Dun rebelled and invaded Jiankang. He wanted to abolish Yuan Di and set up another young master, but Wang Dao didn't agree and had to return to Wuchang.
Soon, Wang Dao established Ming Di with the help of Yuan Di's testamentary edict, and moved to the original site. After the "Wang Dun Rebellion" was pacified, it was carried to Taibao.
Taining three years (325 years), collapse, Wang Dao and princess Yuliang with * * * Fuzheng. Yu Liang refused to listen to Wang Dao's exhortation, and insisted on recruiting Liyang magistrate Su Jun into Beijing, which led him to send troops to rebel.
After the "Soviet Rebellion" was put down in the fourth year of Xianhe (329), Wang Dao refuted the statement that people wanted to move the capital and stabilized the situation. Since then, Chi Jian has remained in power. Although there were serious contradictions with Tao Kan and Yu Liang, there was no chaos.
Xiankang lived for five years (339) and died at the age of 64. Emperor Cheng went to court to offer condolences and sent envoys to search for "documents".
Funeral specifications, like Huo Guang and Sima Fu, are the most famous ministers in the Eastern Jin Dynasty. Wang Daoshan's calligraphy and cursive script are the best.
He learned the methods of Zhong You and Wei Guan, and was able to form his own style, which had a high reputation at that time. There are cursive "Sheng Xian Tie" and "Gai Shuo Tie" handed down from ancient times.
4. Letter: a diplomatic envoy with a letter of guarantee or a person who sends letters or oral messages; Messenger; Messenger. This refers to Chi Jian's protege sent to the Prime Minister's Office.
For example, "Zi Tongzhi Jian": "It is advisable to change the book urgently." Yue Jue Shu: "The more you lose food, the more loyal you are, and the more you sue Wu."
Shi Shuo Xin Yu Literature: "Sikong Zheng Chongchi sent a letter to Ruan Ji for writing." 5. Jia: Commendation; Praise; Great.
6, belly: supine; Expose the chest and abdomen. Tang Du Fu's poem "Jiang Ting": "The belly is warm and the river is warm, and the poem is wild."
Ming's Tao Shan Qing Hua: "One day, Zi Hou () was prone, suitable for his son.
4. What is Wang Xizhi's answer to reading classical Chinese? Once, Jane sent his disciples to see Wang Dao, hoping to choose a son-in-law among the children of the Wang family.
Wang Dao sent people to the East Wing to see the Wangs' children. When his disciples came back, he said to Chi Jian, "The children of the Wangs are all very well, but when they heard a messenger coming, they all looked stiff and unnatural. There is only one person sitting on the bed in the east, eating with an empty stomach, as if nothing had happened. "
Chi Jian said, "This is the most suitable husband for me." Asked, it turned out to be Wang Xizhi.
Chi Jian married his daughter to him. "1, the original text:" Yi Taifu is in Jingkou and sent his protege, Prime Minister Wang Zhao, to beg for his wife.
The Prime Minister said in a letter: "You can go to the East Room and choose any one." The apprentice returned to Bai Biao and said, "All the Wangs and Langs deserve respect.
Smell it and find it, salty and reserved; Only Ichiro was lying flat on the east bed, without hearing anything. Li Gongyun:' Exactly!' It's easy to visit it because I married a woman. "
2. Introduction of Wang Xizhi: Wang Xizhi (303-36 1), a calligrapher from the Eastern Jin Dynasty in China, was born in Linyi (now Shandong) and later moved to Huiji (now Shaoxing, Zhejiang). In his later years, he lived in seclusion in Jinting, Shan County, and was famous for his scholars. Successive secretaries, General Ning Yuan, Jiangzhou secretariat.
Later, he was the secretariat of Huiji, who led the right general and was called "Wang Youjun" and "Wang Huiji". His son, Wang Xianzhi, is also good at calligraphy, and the world is collectively known as the "two kings".
Since then, the Wangs' calligraphy talents have come forth in large numbers. He died five years later in the Eastern Jin Dynasty and was buried in Jinting Waterfall Mountain (also called Ziteng Mountain by the king). The fifth house in Sun Heng is Jintingguan, and the site still exists.
Wang Xizhi's Preface to Lanting is called "the best running script in the world" by later generations. Now the address is in lanshan district, Linyi, Shandong, the old revolutionary base area. Influenced by it, it was named Xiyanhu Street, and Wang Xizhi's former residence was on Xiyanhu Street.
3, the introduction of flat bed: the reputation of the old father-in-law.
5. Translation of Classical Chinese in Dongsu:
One family in the state of Qi has a daughter, and two families have come to propose marriage. The man in "Dong Jia" is ugly but his family is rich, while the man in "Xi Zi" is beautiful but his family is poor.
Parents are hesitant, so they let their daughter decide who she wants to marry. (Say): "If (you) feel embarrassed, put out your arm and let us know what you mean." The daughter showed her arms. The parents were surprised and asked her why. The daughter said, "(I) want to eat at my boss's house and stay at my hometown."
Original text:
As the saying goes: Qi people have daughters, and two people ask for audience. The owner is ugly and rich, and the west is good and poor. Parents can't decide whether to doubt, ask their daughters, decide what they want, and it's hard to blame the speaker for generalizing, so I know. This woman is naked. I want to know why. Yue: "I want to eat in the east, but stay in the west." This is also for both sides.
Extended data:
This fable mocks insatiable people. There is no such thing as eating east and staying west, and everything goes wrong. If you want something good, you must work hard and struggle to realize your wish.
After reading this story, I feel how endless human desires are, just like the girl in the story greedily wants to absorb the advantages of two schools at the same time. It is understandable to pursue the best of both worlds, but we should also know ourselves correctly and put our minds right. There is no such thing as eating east and living west, and nothing is satisfactory.
This is also an irony for those who want to take advantage of everything and are insatiable. It tells us that people should not always be so greedy, and those who are satisfied are always happy. The ancients said, "You can't have your cake and eat it." When we want to gamble on this big meal of life, we can only take the essence from it. Life is what you give up and get again and again!
About the author:
Ying Shao (about153-196), a scholar in the Eastern Han Dynasty, was called Zhong Yuan (according to Liu Kuanbei's Yin Ming, anyone who assists or travels far is mistaken). Nantun Town, runan county (now Nantun Town, Xiangcheng City, Henan Province).
His father, Feng, was a famous minister during the reign of Emperor Huan (147-167), and the official was Qiu. When I was a teenager, I concentrated on my studies and read a lot of books. Emperor Ling (168— 188) was promoted to filial piety.
Zhong Ping served as the county magistrate of Taishan from the sixth year (189) to the first year of Xingping (194), and later died of Ye according to Yuan Shao. Ying Shao is well-read, with a lifetime of works 1 1 species, with a volume of 136, and there are two existing books, Korea and Customs.
There are a large number of Taishan historical materials in Yi Tong Customs, such as the anecdote of Taishan Zen described in Feng Tai's Zen Patriarch and the Dai Temple detailed in Wuyue, which are of high historical value. The Book of the Later Han Dynasty quoted by Ying Shao is one of the earliest travel literature works in China.
References:
Sogou encyclopedia-Dongsu
6. What is the translation of the ancient prose "East and West Shi Su"? Volume 40 of the Collection of Arts and Literature quotes "Custom Pass": "Say that people have women, and two people ask for them. The owner is ugly and rich, and the west is good and poor. Parents can't decide whether to doubt, ask their daughters and decide what they want. ..... that woman will be naked, and I will ask her why. As the saying goes,' If you want to eat in the East, stay in the West'. "
Legend has it: "Qi had a daughter, and two people came to propose at the same time. The man in "East Club" is ugly but rich, while the man in "West Son" is handsome but poor.
Parents hesitated, so they asked their daughter, "Let her decide who she wants to marry. If it's hard to say, show her an arm and let us know what you mean. "
The daughter showed her arms.
Parents feel strange and ask why. The daughter said, "I want to eat my east and keep my west."
This is the so-called double-sided legend! . . .
This fable satirizes people who are insatiable.
7. Translation of abdominal bed
Chi Jian, the commander-in-chief of the Jin Dynasty, was a very talented person. In order to choose a suitable object for her daughter, the boss Xi racked his brains. Later, he found that the children of Prime Minister Wang Dao were handsome and talented, so he sent a public servant to the Wangs to choose a son-in-law.
When the news came, the children of the Wangs were excited and nervous. They heard that Miss Xi has a good personality and is very talented. Who doesn't want to marry her? As a result, they were carefully decorated, sitting in school, seemingly reading books, and their hearts had already flown.
However, on the east side of the case, there is a person who is different. I saw him casually as usual, as if there was no such thing, and he was still writing intently. On this day, the weather was not hot, but the young man was so hot that he untied his coat and showed his stomach. Maybe he has no time to eat in the morning. As he wrote, he grabbed a mouthful of cold steamed bread and chewed it freely. His eyes were still fixed on the calligraphy in front of him. The right hand holding the brush has not been released for a moment, and sometimes it will be hung up to write. That serious expression makes people laugh.
Chi Jian sent his own representative to the school to observe and understand, and then he went back. In his opinion, the children of the Wangs are very good, polite, young, handsome and talented, and it is almost impossible to say which is the best and which is the worst. However, to say that the performance is not so satisfactory, there is another one. He bared his chest and abdomen, while writing and eating steamed bread. It seems too casual, as if he didn't care about the boss's choice of son-in-law.
The adult listened to the report and was very interested in this young man with "casual" behavior. He inquired about the situation in detail, folded his hands happily and said, "This is the son-in-law I am looking for." What's going on here? Boss Xi thinks that this young man doesn't take personal matters to heart, but concentrates on calligraphy, which is a promising performance. With such enthusiasm and infatuation, he is not worried about becoming a talent.
Guess who this young man is? It was none other than Wang Xizhi. Wang Xizhi's wife, Chi Jian's daughter, was also a calligrapher, and their son Wang Xianzhi later became a famous calligrapher.
8. Classical Chinese translation by leaning on the door, thank you: the door of Gu Xiang. The original intention is parents' hope and nostalgia for their children who go out. Now it refers to parents' eagerness to see their children return.
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Seven strategies and six in the Warring States Policy: "If a woman leaves late, I will lean against the door and look; If a woman doesn't go out at dusk, I will lean on it. "
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Wang is fifteen years old and works for. The king escaped and lost his position. His mother said, "when a woman comes out late, I lean against the door to watch;" If a woman comes out at dusk and doesn't return it, then I hope I can lean on it. The woman is in charge of the king today, and the king is gone. If that woman doesn't know where she is, where will she go? "
King Sun Jianai entered the arena and said, "If there is chaos in the country, those who want to punish it will be right!" There are 400 followers in the city, killing them with their teeth and stabbing them to death.
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Wang Sunjia was fifteen years old and served King Qi Min. After Wang Yue escaped, Wang did not know where he had fled.
His mother said, "You go out in the morning and come back at night, and I'll lean against the door and watch you." If you can't go out at night, I'll lean against the inner door and watch you. Now you work for the king, and the king has escaped. You don't know his whereabouts. Why did you come back? So the king went into the market and said, "Nayong disturbed the state of Qi and killed the king of Qi. Whoever wants to kill him with me shows his right arm! "Four hundred people in the market followed him, went with him to kill Naoko, and finally stabbed Naoko to death.
9. Translation of Queping Ci in China's ancient poems.
Lack of pronunciation
Explain the metaphor of choosing a good husband.
The source is 1, and the book of the new Tang Dynasty, Biography of the Empress Tai Lao Dou, contains: Dou Yi chose a husband for her daughter, drew two peacocks on the screen, and the suitor made two arrows, secretly agreeing that the middle one would be allowed. Tang Gaozu's two arrows hit one eye each, and he hit the sinus. Later, because of the metaphor of "sparrow screen".
2. The Complete Works of Han Fu Zi Ni by Tang Yu. Wedding. "About": "Fortunately, the bird screen is chosen, and it is appropriate to be a ghost."
3. The brilliant Pipa Story. "Zhao Fu Ling": "Silk embroidered curtain, playing the sparrow screen."
The words "Tan Cave Bed" are Tan Cave Bed.
Pronunciation t m: n f ù d not ng Chuang
Explain the good name of the old son-in-law
From Liu Song Yiqing's Shi Shuo Xin Yu Liang Ya in the Southern Dynasties: "All the kings of the Wang family can be respected, and they can find husbands or be reserved. Only Ichiro is lying on the east bed, lying flat, if you don't smell it. " Jian Yue: "This is a good husband and evil!" " Visiting it also means Xi, so I took it as my wife. "
Used as predicate and object; Refers to the son-in-law
Later, he called his son-in-law "an open bed".
Ming and Shen Shouxian's "San Yuan Ji Qin Yi": "* * * The national hand is left, and I am from Jiuji Sanhuai. Don't you have a noble prince and grandson to choose a flat bed? "
Also refers to being a son-in-law.
Ming Gaoming's Pipa Xing Ji Jin Gui Chou Pei: "Scholars are ignorant, stubborn and unwilling to be open-minded."
Also refers to choosing to be a son-in-law
"The Romance of Sui and Tang Dynasties" June 1 day: "My brother thinks my uncle is very imposing, and my cousin Jiao Jiao is afraid of not having a big family?"
Story During the Eastern Jin Dynasty, calligrapher Wang Xizhi was very talented when he was young. Captain Chi Jian thought highly of him and wanted to marry his daughter, so he sent someone to ask for relatives and friends from Wang Xizhi's uncle Wang Dao. Wang Dao led the people to the east wing to see, only to see Wang Xizhi lying naked on the east bed for dinner. Come back and tell Chi Jian that Wang Xizhi is the paunchy man in the east bed.
Adoption marriage [edit this paragraph] Explanation of words: adoption
Pinyin: rü zhu √.
Explanation:
Literally means "enter"-enter, join, etc. , and "redundant"-cumbersome. So it means that the man settled in the woman's house, commonly known as "knocking on the door."
Basic explanation:
[Marry into the bride's family] The son-in-law came to the door and the man settled in the woman's house.
I'm going to be adopted by my son-in-law tonight. I have no choice but to allow it. -Romance in Yang Jiajiang.
Explain in detail:
A man married his wife and became a member of her family.
Awakening the World: Inquisition in Li Yuying Prison: "Yu Ying's daughter is too beautiful to marry him the day after tomorrow;" Isn't it good to visit a gifted scholar and come to his wife's house and wait for him to sing with his wife? " Qing Dynasty's "Yellow Media Room": "Master Joe has no children, only this young lady refuses to marry and wants you to adopt." Ding Ling Night: "He once left here and went to his wife's house with a small bag. At that time, he was only twenty years old."
Presumably, after the landlord understood these three allusions, he probably understood the meaning of this personals.
It should be said that the landlord was once elected as a son-in-law and was a good husband (with his bed open and his stomach open). This marriage has always been good. As a son-in-law, you are the best!