Women are weak, but mothers are strong.
"It's not that chrysanthemum is preferred among flowers, but that this flower is even more flowerless."
Cousin Ju 'er, who has lived in Guangdong for more than 20 years, is 170cm tall and has a feminine figure. Although she reaches middle age, she still looks beautiful and kind. She has been in business for more than ten years, with her own stall, stable business, two beautiful and lovely daughters, a group of relatives who guard her and a group of girlfriends who really send takeout food.
In the worst days, she stood proudly in the wind and frost, just like her name "Chrysanthemum". The hermit in the flower also shouldered the burden of life alone with her strong character, noble temperament, forbearing perseverance and positive and optimistic attitude.
From her, I deeply felt unprecedented warmth, courage, perseverance and strength, as well as the meaning and value of life, making the worst day the best.
0 1 memory, you are still young.
Sister Ju is the youngest in the family, with one sister and one brother. Although her family was not rich when she was a child, her parents were pure and kind, her family style was simple, and her brothers and sisters were friendly. She grew up under the care of her parents and elder sister and brother. She is slim, intelligent, witty, tall and delicate, and the smart appearance of a girl is vivid in my memory.
I still remember that when I was young, I often went to her house to play, and every time I drove us crazy, we cooked together, visited distant shops together, huddled under a bed, and whispered to each other. I was very happy in my memory. Girls' ideas are always so simple.
Those young people who don't know how to be disappointed will make people feel that the world is always quiet and beautiful. Later, we moved and went to study abroad. She and her sister went to Guangzhou. After decades of separation, the distance between our homes is getting farther and farther, but the distance between our hearts remains the same.
No matter how far the distance is, it can't compare with family.
No matter how long we leave, we can't get rid of childhood memories.
Growth is a gorgeous turn.
Growing up is a transaction, and the courage to grow up is bought with simple innocence and impersonal whiteness.
When I didn't know how to study, she had gone south to Guangzhou. Fortunately, my sisters created conditions for her and paved the way. But bringing an innocent, inexperienced and inexperienced girl into the bustling world will definitely make the girl feel great fear. Although she is protected by her sisters, no one can understand her anxiety.
In the late 1990s, Guangzhou, as an inclusive city, accepted people from all directions. Just like a huge greenhouse, it creates enough nutrients for you to suck and grow, which is an epoch-making change. In fact, I admire her from the bottom of my heart. I can meet all this early and witness the world difference from my poor hometown.
I think she must have used great courage to adapt to this new challenging, charming and fresh city. She said that she had been to a factory assembly line, worked as an apprentice in a barber shop, worked as a salesgirl in a clothing store, and worked as a waiter in a grocery store ... She must have tried her best to adapt, and she must have suffered a lot from being caught off guard. It's hard for us to feel the same way.
Now too many pictures and bits and pieces have become a thing of the past. For example, it doesn't matter where dandelions fly. After all, the most beautiful stars are all seen in the lonely and vast journey of the Milky Way.
Mature, but wait until tea.
Growth may only take a flower to bloom, but maturity will have to wait until it is over!
When you meet the right person at the right time and have no reservations about you, you must be willing to have children for him. So, let nature take its course and become a mother. Mother is a beautiful, sacred and heavy word. It is a great mission for a woman to become a mother.
So in the best years of my life, my eldest daughter was born, and ten years later, my second daughter was born. For more than ten years, husband and wife have worked hard together, starting from scratch, getting up early and being greedy for the dark, from setting up stalls to having stalls, from poor days to food and clothing, from newlyweds to harmony between the piano and the harp, and every step is inseparable from the husband and wife working together to love the nest.
For more than ten years, I have been spoiled. I take care of myself when I am tired and wipe my tears when I cry. Dull is not only true, but also the temperature to be guarded for each other's life.
Transformation must be tempered and baptized.
The transformation of a woman must be tempered and baptized by this world.
Life is always unexpected, and the sweetest days are always ruined. People close to their loved ones suffer from illness all the year round. She has no regrets, takes good care of her and does her duty as a wife. She has to take care of young children and take care of business. Huge medical expenses and family living expenses all fell on the shoulders of this weak woman. But she infected her family with a positive and optimistic attitude. She carried all the burdens by herself, stood up and supported the family with all her strength.
Until one day, when I learned that she had lost the most important person, I thought it was cruel, helpless, sad and resentful to miss her dead relatives infinitely, to despair of life and never to see each other again. Although I can describe it in words, I can't really feel it.
In the worst days, she abandoned the weakness of women, just like her name "Chrysanthemum", which was not as rich as peony and expensive as orchid, but the spirit of standing proudly, advancing despite difficulties and resisting suffering.
She bears the burden of life alone with her strong personality, noble temperament, forbearing perseverance, silent dedication and positive and optimistic attitude.
Live like a glimmer for the rest of my life.
Now, she raises her two daughters independently, goes out early and comes back late every day, sends her youngest daughter to kindergarten, goes shopping with her eldest daughter, runs a leather goods stall business during the day, moves goods, packs and delivers goods, and goes to the stall to pick up goods for customers at midnight with a flashlight; There is trouble in the evening, and when the business is good, I can't attend to eating. When I am hungry, my girl friends will send me warm health soup.
In this way, I often think that maybe she doesn't have to work so hard, maybe she is busy resisting the long lovesickness, maybe she is seeking inner stability in the downtown area, or she is worried about her daughter's food and clothing. In short, she loves her own strength, but there is nothing she can do but watch.
In a woman's warmest age, life gave her a heavy blow, but she was wrapped tightly like chrysanthemum petals in the wind and frost, blooming in the cold late autumn, standing like a soldier, just like a poem: "Autumn chrysanthemums can Ao Shuang, and the wind and frost are full of evil. This performance is cold-resistant, and wind and frost can't help! "
In her, I deeply felt unprecedented warmth, courage, perseverance and strength, as well as the meaning and value of life, making the worst day the best.
Every struggling woman, Superman's mother,
No matter she is ordinary or dazzling, she should be respected by us!
May my sister live like a ray of light for the rest of her life;
"Maybe I'm a glimmer,
But I want to give you brilliant light.
Let me be a glimmer,
Can make you have a brilliant edge
When you are lonely,
Wherever you fly,
I will bloom, too …
Look up at the starry sky, the stars are bright!
Text | Lu Nan
Typesetting | south foot
Image | Part of it comes from the Internet
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