First, what is the relationship between smoking and drinking? Just like a tattooed person, he is still a good socialist youth who respects the old and loves the young and pays attention to the socialist harmonious values. The tattoo thing is just that he thinks it's cool and similar. Smoking and drinking is a principle. We can't treat some people as one kind of people just because they have done something, nor can we treat them as another kind of people just because they have done nothing. In the final analysis, in our hearts, we always look at others with a label and colored glasses. Second, as long as this person has a good mind and character, OK. Some people smoke and drink because of social intercourse at work. Some people smoke and drink because of past experiences. Some people smoke and drink because the people they once loved taught them this. Some people may just smoke and drink to relieve loneliness and inner depression. Some people who smoke and drink may find it refreshing. Everyone has his own aesthetic orientation and value choice. We can't ask others not to do these things just because we hate them. Third, moderate drinking is good for health, but smoking really needs to be quit. Actually, I am just the opposite. I drink a little occasionally for some wine that I can't get rid of. I don't usually drink, but smoking is really powerful, especially at the stage of starting a business with my friends recently. Sometimes it is accompanied by quarrels, accusations and so on. No way, everyone wants to do things well, but sometimes, many things need to be run-in to reach a consensus and wear away their original stubborn and tolerant thinking perspective. It's easy to say, but it's really difficult to do. Frankly speaking, I personally appreciate boys who don't smoke or drink. Because I think it is actually more difficult for a boy to keep himself from smoking and drinking for a long time, especially when he enters the society and workplace, and there are more people in contact. With his own circle, it is easy to learn to smoke and drink, and it is more difficult to completely refuse these. Therefore, if a boy can do without smoking or drinking, it at least shows that he still has strong self-discipline and is strict with himself. Some people may say that our country is a human society and pays attention to wine culture. Many times, work and things are done after smoking and drinking. If you don't touch alcohol and tobacco, it will be more difficult to get along with others. I think this sentence has some truth, but it is not absolute. If this person doesn't drink, you can invite a mutual friend to accompany him. He can satisfy each other in other ways. Not all places rely on alcohol and tobacco to solve their problems. It can only be said that alcohol and tobacco may have increased the fun to some extent. Moreover, more and more young people don't like drinking liquor like the older generation, and there are more people who don't drink, but this does not hinder their normal social interaction. The communication between people depends more on whether the two sides can get along, how attractive their personality is, how good their communication skills are, and how inadequate they are. Therefore, I think there is nothing wrong with a boy who neither smokes nor drinks. If his comprehensive ability in other aspects is good, there is no problem at all, and he can even bring other benefits, such as good health and saving money. After all, slightly better tobacco and alcohol prices are still not cheap. What is a good man who doesn't smoke or drink? He doesn't smoke or drink. Is he a good man? Some men really don't smoke or drink. I have a relative who doesn't smoke or drink and loves his daughter-in-law. He washes and cooks every day and works hard. He is very careful and clever. He is in charge of all the money in the family, and only money is allowed in the family, not money. It can be said that he is a three-good man! Where can I find such a man? He has no bad habits, does not smoke or drink, and loves reading and gardening. He is definitely a good man who can live. But his daughter-in-law has always looked down on him, nothing else, but that he is too timid! His family has problems. He never dared to "stand up" and hide behind his daughter-in-law to let her solve it. His daughter-in-law always complains that I am unlucky to marry such a man. I have no responsibility, only money in my eyes, and I am stingy as hell. In other words, some women like this "smart" man. Smoking and drinking is always a bad habit, but I am willing to judge whether a man is a good man. You know it's not easy for men. Some people smoke and drink because of too much pressure. Some people just want to have fun. Why do they want to surf the Internet? Some men smoke and drink, but they have a responsibility. Some men don't drink or smoke, but they can't afford it. Just like my relative, although he doesn't smoke or drink, it doesn't mean he is a good person, but he has good living habits. But this relative always said-rich people don't smoke or drink! But I didn't see how rich he was. Don't men know that alcohol and tobacco are harmful to health? It's just that life is not easy, and it's hard to avoid bumps. In this life, men have to support at least one small family, even if they don't want to be rich or expensive. Sometimes it's too stressful. If they drink a bar and get drunk, their troubles will be gone. Sometimes they are tired from work. Have a cigarette. They smoke loneliness! Some women always say that I will never allow my man to smoke or drink. I can't smell that smell. How good can a man who smokes and drinks? This is equivalent to comparing a person's living habits and personality. There is a saying that is true. A man who cares about his family is worthless, and a promising man ignores his family. In fact, who lives is not for this family, how many men live in the wind and rain, socialize in restaurants, breathe in fireworks, and live a happier life only for their wives and children. There is nothing wrong with not smoking or drinking, which is good for yourself and your family, but how can you say that a man's quality depends on whether he smokes or drinks? Smoke a cigarette, swallow the bitterness of life, drink a glass of wine and forget the sadness of life. How many men, when the clouds are light and the wind is light, who is not carrying the burden? The best man should be a responsible person, not a timid person. The best man can carry a sky. When she is afraid, he can say-nothing, the sky is falling, I have support. But he knows that he wants to protect his family, he wants to earn money to support his family, he wants his wife and children to live a better life, and he wants to bring warmth and happiness to his family. But in the end, please smoke less and drink less. Health is the most stable happiness! What is a good man who doesn't smoke or drink? 3 Several characteristics of a good man. First, when a woman is a daughter, any woman has a pain in her heart and wants to marry a good man; Because a good man, when he is with a woman, will love her like a daughter; When a woman is willful, he will coax her; When a woman makes a mistake, he will patiently enlighten her; Hold a woman in the palm of your hand, pain, love and protect; Let women live a carefree and happy life; Therefore, a good man will not let his woman feel pain and despair casually; Because in a man's heart, he loves his wife very much. Second, bravely assume the responsibility of the family. In a family, in fact, every woman who marries a man wants to rely on a man and rely on a man; So, in a woman's heart, I never thought about it. I want to endure hardship and earn money to support my family with men. Therefore, a good man in a woman's heart must not let her go to work to make money, but a man bravely assume family responsibilities; In order to make their women, their children, their elders; Constant struggle makes all people feel carefree, happy and free. Third, strive to make money and improve the quality of life. Whether a man is good or not is not a good character, even if he is responsible; Good people must make progress; In women's minds, a good man must keep working hard and keep moving forward; Improve their quality of life, improve their quality of life; Let your lover and your children live better; Instead of standing still, just eating and drinking; Therefore, in women's minds, those men who are self-satisfied are not good men; And only those who keep fighting for their lives are good people. Fourth, always be loyal to your wife. Without a woman, you can accept your own man, do things that are sorry for yourself and betray yourself; Therefore, in women's minds, a good man must be loyal to marriage and his wife; Because men will do things that are sorry for their wives and betray their wives, then such men are men with corrupt conduct; People with bad conduct will naturally miss good words; And in any woman's heart, it will be particularly disgusting to see a person who is unfaithful to her feelings. There are many men and their wives doing housework and taking care of children together. As long as they come home from work, they will do nothing and wait for a day of eating and drinking. How are the children at home and their grades; In a man's heart, he doesn't care at all, and he doesn't care; Such a man, how much skill, is not a good man in a woman's heart; In women's minds, a good man is watching his wife do housework and taking the initiative to help after returning home; With his wife, take care of the children, care about their growth, and care about their study. Sixth, when a husband and wife quarrel, let the wife embark on the road of married life, and the husband and wife are together, because the things they have experienced since childhood are different, the environment in which they grew up is different, and the situation in society is different; Therefore, the view of treating one thing will be different; So when two people are together, they will argue about one thing, which is normal; But a good man, when arguing with his wife, will not always be sincere to the end, but let his wife; Because in a man's mind, it is meaningless to argue with his wife about some trivial things; This is the performance of a good man, and it is also the standard for a woman to really love a man. Seven, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law only talks about things, not people. On the road of marriage, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most complicated; For a good man, when dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, he will not focus on one side, nor will he just stand at the bottom of one side to consider; A man will not help his mother or daughter-in-law; But like Bao Qingtian, he just handles things correctly according to the situation; Don't say that your mother is not good, and you won't say that your daughter-in-law is wrong; But to tell both sides that this matter should be solved like this. So such a man is a good man in a woman's heart.