The post-90 s have a better living environment and more love than the post-80 s, which is not conducive to the growth of a child. If you want your child to be mature and sensible as soon as possible, you should either change her surroundings, that is, stay away from the superior and comfortable family, stand on your own feet in life and cultivate her sense of independence; Or let her accept a big setback, let her realize her environment from the heart and know what she should do!

As for the suggestion, you can talk to her mother (you can suggest finding someone prestigious at home). If her family can understand, that is the best situation. You don't have to force her to obey. You can consider letting her live on campus and giving her enough living expenses (but not unlimited). Living independently is the most exercise!

As for what to do in the future, it depends on the specific situation.