2. The world likes to play jokes on you. When you walk, you find yourself off course, and finally you don't even know where you are. When you were walking, you ran into a wall. You climb the wall desperately, only to find a cliff behind you. Before you know it, you're black and blue. Bad things happen every day, but you are still stumbling to find an exit.
Time is forward, and the clock can't be turned back, so as long as everything is over, there is no turning back. Even if it looks like going back in time, the world is still facing completion. We can turn back, but we don't have to. Even if one day, you find yourself wrong, you should turn around and stride in the right direction, instead of going back and complaining that you are wrong.
Love is your own business, and no one is really worth loving with all his money. But with love, it can help you overcome all kinds of illusions in life, touch the world with the longest tentacles, touch the heart you have never discovered, open all your usual numb senses, transcend years of burnout, peel off layers of secular calluses and expose your softest parts.
No matter how dark the night is, I don't feel hard; No matter how cold it is in winter, people will not be lonely if they want to. The soul mate is the source of warmth; Intimate feelings are the spring of life. The seasons alternate, and some people miss the warmth and coldness; The mood is changeable, and some people have been tolerant. What we pursue all our lives is that someone hurts and someone understands. Laughter in the eyes and warmth in the heart are simple happiness in life.
Only when you are down and out can you understand how few people are willing to help you. Only when you are poorest can you understand that no matter how good your feelings are, they can't compare with reality. People are not greedy for money but afraid of suffering. Only in a long life can you understand that romance is easier than tolerance. Everyone can love you, but few people are willing to put up with you. Therefore, what is most worth cherishing in this world are these three kinds of people: friends who are in urgent need, women who are willing to accompany you through poverty, and men who put up with you in everything.
7. It takes courage to miss someone without language. When you look at the bustling crowd on the road and taste loneliness alone; When you sit quietly in a corner, you feel the sadness in your heart silently. You will feel how lonely it will be to miss someone, how painful it will be to miss someone, and how cold it will be at night to miss someone. Missing someone may sometimes bring a smile, but your heart will shed tears.
8. Don't waste time on worthless things; Feelings, don't pour into people who don't know how to cherish. Some take the initiative and some ignore it; Some care, some don't feel. Why use sincerity to get sadness, and finally only chilling; Why should we use attention to save indifference? In the end, we have to ignore it. People who have you in their hearts will not make you wait for heartache; It's no use waiting for someone who doesn't have you in mind.
9. All choices have a price, and no choice is perfect. If you choose bread, you may give up love; If you choose wealth, you may give up health; If you choose a career, you may give up your freedom. All the choices can only be paid by yourself. Therefore, when choosing, you must be clear about your ability to pay. A choice is a price, and different choices make different lives.
10. Be a simple person and enjoy the sunshine and warmth. Life is a kaleidoscope, in which all the ups and downs are hidden. Some people say the wrong thing, which is not romantic enough. These are all mistakes in details. Can be changed and tolerated. But if it's prostitution, gambling addiction and domestic violence, it's a mistake in principle, and it's a personal character and root cause problem. Mistakes in details can be tolerated by love, and mistakes in principle can only be broken up. Don't treat a person's bad as special.