You can ignore everything. Treat everything like nothing.
Inner peace, what I want is a kind of release. ?
Many times, you will find that the things that have been bothering you, after many years, you can't find the original appearance. At this time, your heart is calm, because those so-called feelings that you can't let go have become forgivable memories in your opinion. It is better to let go and let your heart be quiet. Why do you want to infarct? ?
Inner peace, want is a kind of indifference. ?
True indifference is not the true meaning that you discover after going through many vicissitudes and then suddenly looking back. In fact, it is everywhere, but it is often ignored. When we were very young, we held the only capital in our hands-youth, and we felt that we should fly. Have you ever thought that it's not sentimental to sit and watch the clouds fade? Indifferent to youth, things become obvious. It is better to be indifferent and let quiet work in it. Inner peace, what you want is a kind of boredom. ?
If we can find a special silence in the noisy world, it is different from the wind chimes heard in the bustling midsummer, from the moonlight projected from time to time on the haunted night, and from the feelings when recalling the past. Just like a drop of water falling into the lake, at this time, you can hear your heartbeat when all is silent, and you can listen carefully. It is better to make inner peace boring than to make it noisy. ?
What a quiet heart wants is a kind of poverty. ?
In materialistic times, our hearts are too big to hold everything, but sometimes they are too small to hold a drop of water. There are too many worldly things, and we are used to pretending to be full, so as to deceive ourselves and tell you and him-the so-called full. Once you overdo it, your eyes will inevitably show a tired look. If you are poor, you will understand the truth of life better. It is better to be poor, so why should a quiet heart be rich? ?
We all have a bottle full of water in our hearts. If we lean a little, it will overflow and turn into cold tears. In the end, the person who hurts is ourselves. It's no use filling the bottle later. If you want to keep full, let your heart be quiet. Relieved, indifferent, bored and pitiful, quiet inside, in fact, it is as simple as that! ?
A quiet heart doesn't care about anything. He can ignore everything and treat everything as indifferent, but as a kind of cultivation and a realm. ?
Source: Tang Bai Juyi's Sacrifice to Assistant Minister Li: "The vast world is different; Teeth are rolling and waves are everywhere. Who is the public, quiet inside; The wind and rain are like rain, and the chickens are like singing. " ?
Analysis: Metaphor is a state of mind, facing everything calmly, and metaphor is that our mind is in a certain quiet and clear state. It allows us to truly, accurately and objectively reflect various phenomena inside and outside the body and mind. Just like a calm water surface, it can truly reflect the scenery on the shore without distortion. Sometimes, we compare this state to a spotless mirror. ?
The reason for our uneasy mind is our delusion and greed. It causes our original complete and clear wisdom to become blurred and distorted, and we can't see the truth clearly. Just like the wind on the water, it makes the originally calm water surface tumble, and the reflection in the water becomes fragmented and even blurred. ?
Another meaning of inner peace is that when things come, they can be truthfully reflected, and when they are over, there is no trace in their hearts. The so-called geese cross the cold pool, things come and appear, and things go and stay. ?
Therefore, from the emotional point of view, if a person is always addicted to the memories of the past, the complex in his heart cannot be solved, and his mind has not recovered to its original peace. Then, he (she) will never meet real feelings again. Even if he sees his former lover again, he won't show his true feelings as he did at the beginning. Because he has lost the ability to judge others correctly. ?
Be smart about water, and be calm about mountains. ?