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0 1? Women can stay young without going to work.
There is a popular saying recently: women can stay young forever when they don't go to work.
It turns out that a girl from Weibo made a joke about seeing her former female classmate ten years later, just like a girl. The secret of maintenance is that she didn't come to work the day after graduation. This statement is deeply blessed by big V shorts, saying that he has worked on the Internet for several years and is old enough to give up his seat.
There are also photos of panda eyes working overtime in the IT industry, which was once a smash hit on the Internet. I believe everyone is also impressed.
Is it true that you are young and beautiful?
No, as the netizen said:
There is no joy in youth and not going to work? The core strength behind the beauty of youth is "having money and time", which is the secret for women to stay young forever.
? Look at the stars such as Liu Xiaoqing, the typical representative of the goddess of youth, and it seems reasonable to think about it.
Some housewives spend their mornings in the gym and afternoons in the beauty salon, painting, planting flowers, baking and tasting wine. They have time to spend with their husbands and children and take care of themselves. They have money and leisure, are in a good mood, and naturally have longer youth.
There are also many women who stay at home full-time and don't go to work. They are too virtuous and frugal, and don't seek personal growth and self-modification. There are countless examples of unkempt hands reaching out to their husbands for living expenses and finally being rejected and abandoned. So if you have time and no money, you may not be young forever.
Of course, the overbearing female bosses who have money but no time, wear famous brands and drive luxury cars are busy with new project plans and seminars every day, and all kinds of customers often come home at midnight with dishes on their faces: I'm starving, please pour me a cup of hot milk.
Finding a delicate balance between making money and earning time is like finding that tiny gap in breathing, that pause, that "empty" time, which may be the secret of youth maintenance solutions. ?
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02? Don't talk to me about dreams. My dream is not to go to work.
Many people hate the nine-to-five working hours, the pressure and constraints of going to work, but in order to make money, they have to be raped by life.
So is there a life where you can make money without going to work?
In fact, not going to work does not mean not working.
People who can make money without going to work are actually very thoughtful, extremely active, have strong exploratory and time control, and can accept new things quickly.
They don't want to be restricted by work and have no freedom to be controlled, but they yearn for the sense of accomplishment of making money and the happiness of self-growth.
They hope that they can not only have the freedom and time to arrange their lives, take care of their families and accompany their children, but also have a job income that can keep pace with the times without leaving society.
Therefore, a large number of people are doing WeChat business and purchasing.
"I'm fed up with those days when I can't bring my children to work, and I'm fed up with asking my husband for money."
"You can have a decent income and have time to control yourself."
Numerous full-time wives have supported a huge WeChat business industry, and its rise must have its collective identity.
So there are more and more entrepreneurs, business owners and freelancers.
Later, you will find that, oh, the boss is worse and more stressed. The boss is still open 24 hours a year. Freelance is also miserable. When busy, Party A urges, there is no darkness. When I am free, I am also anxious.
Later, you will find that WeChat business is not for everyone.
Some people can see her emptiness at a glance, some people don't know anything, some people have no self-discipline, and some people just start with a firm commitment and don't insist on moving forward bravely.
Therefore, many people do not pursue speed, comfort and good results on the basis of their own abilities and temperament, but turn to business, do WeChat business and be bosses. Instead, I fell into the pit.
It is not so easy for a person to be "out of work", to have money and leisure when he doesn't go to work, and to be young forever. So how can we stay young forever? ?
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03? Forget three words, it means a lot, okay?
My neighbor Aunt Wang told me that the way to keep her young forever is "don't worry". However, I am more worried about my husband's traces and pockets, not my children's grades and interest classes, nor my parents' short business and other people's gossip.
Don't worry, it sounds simple. But not all women can do it.
Don't worry about three words, it means a lot. Do you think you don't worry if you don't go to work, or work, or go out and mind your own business?
People who don't go to work need a kind of self-worth found in daily life and need the recognition of their families. There is also the ability to discover your own beauty and the meaning of life.
Sister TT, an elite entrepreneurial woman, is in charge of several projects with her team. She has been holding meetings and giving speeches all the time. She is full of vigor and vitality. Once, it was rare for her parents to go on holiday for a week, so she had to take time off to live in the family life of a "cook".
Just two days ago, I complained in Zhihu: children are still disgusted with greasy and difficult meals; This place is packed, and Xiong Haizi is in chaos again, feeling tired and helpless.
Finally, when her parents came back from a business trip, she went to work happily, radiant, and said that staying up late and working overtime was better than being a cook and nanny at home.
People who like to whip and gallop don't necessarily like quiet years. ?
Some people naturally like to stand in the center of the stage, like thousands of eyes, like the attention and praise of others. If there is no stage and attention, it is like a deflated ball, which will soon fall.
Some people yearn for a slow life and feel that leisure is enjoyment; Some people hate slow life, and when they slow down, they are at a loss. Might as well run at a brisk pace.
For some people, being idle can make them feel at ease; For others, idleness is the biggest worry.
Those who don't go to work and those who really don't worry about their livelihood have the elixir of youth-firm love behind them. ?
One relative is a real housewife, a housewife who reaches out to her husband for money in all the population.
There is an extremely tacit relationship between their husband and wife. He is responsible for rushing out to earn money to support his family. She is responsible for family financial planning and housework, raising children and taking care of the elderly to settle in the rear, becoming a model of happy families among relatives.
"I'm trying to make money outside and you don't go to work."
"You need money so soon. Where did you spend it?"
"The house is in a mess all day, and even a child can't be taken care of."
It is different from the husband's complaints that we often hear from other housewives.
One of them is "Wife, you have worked hard!" "The food cooked by my wife is really delicious!" "Wife, you are so beautiful today!"
A compliment and a hug are the nutrients of her youth every day, and the value recognition as a housewife is the best way for her to stay young forever.
04? Youth is not in the eyes of others, but only in your own heart.
In a blink of an eye, you will find that in fact, every woman will have her own "eternal youth" program.
Some people think that friendship and affection are ok, so friends get together, family affection is full, a small gift and a handmade dessert make laughter a panacea.
Some people think that maintenance can be done, so beauty salon cards are issued one after another, and new equipment and new products are the first batch of experiencers.
Some people think that life is regular and a good diet is enough. Get up early to cook porridge, exercise, soak your feet and go to bed early at night, and strictly follow the regimen.
Some people think fame and fortune are ok, so they work hard and try their best to make a living.
Later, I found that some people are more detached and live more transparently-what does it matter if they are young or not? Is youth a beautiful skin?
Youth is not in the eyes of others, but only in your own heart.
Being young forever is just an explanation for yourself to others. Decades later, looking back, those people and things that have always been meaningful in life are even more memorable.
Youth must be based on our own "most comfortable and reassuring" lifestyle, with our best state and best state of mind. We no longer aim at "staying young forever" and are no longer afraid of the passing of youth.
And this state is probably what people call "youth."