1. Whether a woman really loves you depends on whether she is willing to accompany you when you are hungry and cold. Whether a man really loves you depends on whether he still takes good care of you in the spring breeze.

2. Many times we all envy each other. But if you really open everyone's inner cover, you will find that we are all helpless. When you don't understand love, love passes you by. When you are married, you suddenly find a real person waving to you. Many times we go the wrong way but can't turn back. We choose a career, only to find that we don't love it. Born in wealth, we should experience the satisfaction of the poor. Born in poverty, I don't know the troubles of the rich. We often dream, but it is always difficult to wake up. Our dreams are always difficult to realize. We often complain, but we never work hard. We often plan, but never have the courage to practice. We don't like reading, but we have to rush for diplomas. We don't like sports, but we can't stand a lot. I don't like talking, but I have to sell myself. Life is actually like this. Unfortunately, we can't afford to die, but we must be strong and live. Since everyone is helpless, let's experience mutual helplessness together and see who can live better in helplessness. People come into this world, just competing with each other to see who can bear it better.

3, people have one thing in common, greed and vanity, greed is to get more, vanity is afraid that others know less. But in a sense, this commonality has also made many people's lives, and of course it has also destroyed many people's lives. In the process of success and destruction, how many people became heroes, but how many people died for it.

4. Life is a tribulation. It came into this world in its own crying and died in the crying of its relatives. Owning and losing is just the difference between one's thoughts. You gain wealth but lose your family, gain wisdom but lose happiness, and realize your dreams but lose your health. Every life is incomplete, there is no need to make too many comparisons, every life is fun, there is no need to be completely unified, natural selection is not necessarily the survival of the strong, accept and enjoy the beautiful process!

5. What do you think is the responsibility? You think the responsibility is to be together all your life and throw some money at home. The real responsibility is to care about the feelings of the people you love every minute.

6. You once bought a dress that you liked very much but didn't want to wear, and solemnly enshrined it in the closet; It's been a long time, and when I look at it again, I find it is out of date. So, you missed it. You once bought a beautiful cake but couldn't bear to eat it, and solemnly enshrined it in the refrigerator; It's been a long time, and when I look at it again, I find it has expired. So, you also missed it. Unfortunately, I don't wear clothes when I like it best, and I don't taste cake when I want to eat it most, just like I don't do what I want to do most. Life also has a shelf life, so you should do what you want as soon as possible. If you just solemnly enshrine your wishes in your heart, but never carry them out, then the only result is to miss them, just like that outdated dress, just like that expired cake.

7. I am emotionally color blind. In my emotional world, there is only white, not black and gray. Marriage needs 100% loyalty. If marriage is the Olympic Games, I must win the centennial harmonious champion.

8. I can't trust anyone or the whole world, but I absolutely trust you. I can be hard on anyone, but I will never fool around with my girlfriend. For a girlfriend, love is in your palm. If you lack trust in the woman you love the most, what kind of love does a person like you deserve? When there is power in love life, lying becomes a matter of course, and when lying becomes a habit, it is not far from breaking up. Think back to the time when you worked outside to earn a little money and took her to improve your life. When you look at her greasy mouth, your inner comfort, and the romance when she is sitting in the back seat of your bicycle, how can you be willing to kill her in this tone, and embarrass your girlfriend with your almost boy's willfulness in an unreasonable situation.

9. We are always eager for love, but we never pay attention to the way of love. In fact, man is a multivariate complex function. Although a woman is a good wife, she is not necessarily a good wife. But there are many unchangeable things in human nature. For example, if you can't be a filial son, you can't be a husband with true love. This is a ... Parents' cultivation of their children is enough for us to repay them with a lifetime. Without parents, we are just a small cell and can't survive. Although it is our partner who will accompany us through life in the future. But none of this would have happened if our parents hadn't given us life. For a man, there are three most important women in this life. They are mother, wife and daughter. Mothers give their lives, wives accompany them all their lives, and daughters are the continuation of life. It is incomplete to remove any paragraph from it.

10, what you like is not necessarily what you are good at, and what you are good at is not necessarily what you like. When you find that you are not good at it, you should try to think clearly: what should I do? what can I do? what can I do?

165438+ That's because domestic violence worked. Men think that hands-on can solve the problem, because women shrink under their fists and think that violence is effective in some cases.

12. You often complicate your life by thinking too much. Obviously you live in the present, but you are always obsessed with the past and worried about the future; Keep walking with the past, the future and the present. Of course, your life is just a drag. Simplicity is a welcome state. Simply feel the weather changes with your skin, simply taste the fragrance of grass after rain with your nose, and simply take pictures of distant mountains with your eyes. Simply live in the present. Now it really doesn't matter whether it's true or not. Since there is no right or wrong, there is no need to think; If there is no truth, there is no need to forget and worry. Isn't it just like dreaming? Yes, just think of life as a dream.

13, I don't want to be a notorious host, let alone a so-called gentleman, because I can't, I just want to be a real wise man and live my life soberly!

14, no choice is the best choice, the art of life lies in giving up, and giving up is for better possession.

15. What really helps a brother is that when his brother suffers from lovelorn love, the door of brotherly friendship is always open to him, paying for his pain instead of helping him make a decision.

16. In the process of marriage, men can show their feelings for this woman through their three different understandings of mistakes. First, the idea of cheating came to an abrupt end, indicating that this man loves this woman. Second, when this man has cheated, the fact is confirmed, and he wants to come back, it is called nostalgia for this woman. Third, I ran into a wall outside, and the fact happened. I was dumped by the other side, so I thought of you at this time. This is not love, nor nostalgia, but going home.

17, we are always good at hurting people who love us, because we can't hurt those who don't love us at all; We are always willing to be hurt by people we love, because I love them.

18, dedicated, can be moved, but not necessarily moved. The companionship of getting along day and night may produce feelings, but not necessarily love. Don't lose yourself to love.

19. In this world, the most precious things are often free, the air is free, the truth is free, and trust, loyalty, understanding and so on are all free. Lovely people often pursue some paid things and ignore these free and precious things.

In fact, we always envy each other in life, but when you really understand everyone's real life, you will find that most people are actually helpless, but the beauty of life is that we have to live more wonderfully in helplessness. Because we all live in such a life, the competition is to see who can bear it more.

2 1. If you love, please love deeply. If abandoned, please thoroughly. Don't be ambiguous and hurt others. Besides, I want to tell you that every lover is not perfect. This man can give you loyalty, another man can give you romance, and another man can give you wealth, but a person's real happiness is not to get more, but to care less. Maybe your love life will be smoother in the future.

22. In love life, the person who bears all the pain alone is the most stupid person, because you question your other half, he can't share the responsibility with you, and you deprive him of the right to share those responsibilities with you. I really appreciate those couples who have business and quantity. Maybe they are often noisy, but that is the real life. Real life is to face and advance and retreat together, let alone your boyfriend.

23. In a relationship that has long been doomed to failure, whoever says love first dies first.

24. In fact, life is to pursue the greatest happiness in constant compromise, weighing and giving up.

25. In fact, there are many turning points in life. Every time you choose a turning point, the scenery will be completely different.

26. Sometimes, you are misunderstood and you don't want to argue, so you choose silence. Not everyone needs to know you, so you don't feel the need to speak to the whole world. But sometimes, you are misunderstood by the person you love most, so sad that you don't want to argue, so you have to choose silence. The whole world can't understand you, but he should. What can he say if he can't understand? There are times in life when even Schubert is speechless. After all, not all right and wrong can be listed clearly, and there may even be no real right and wrong at all. Then, if you don't want to talk, don't talk. When it is useless to say more, perhaps silence is the best explanation.

27. When you fall to the bottom of your life, people around you tell you to be strong and happy. Being strong is absolutely necessary, but what about happiness? I'm afraid it's too difficult for you in this case. After all, who can feel happy when he falls badly? But at least you can calm down. Look at this matter calmly and deal with other things that should be handled calmly. Calm down, no joy or sorrow.

28. Disagreement with others leads to verbal conflicts, so you are unhappy because you think others are malicious. Don't worry, go home and clean the floor. Pick up a rag, bend down, land on your knees, and wipe every corner of the floor in front of you back and forth. Then reconsider everything I said in that conflict. Now, you find yourself actually wrong, don't you? You're getting more and more calm, aren't you? Sometimes you must learn to bend over, because this action can make you humble. While you are working hard, you are also polishing your mind. Besides, your floor is clean. This is your second harvest.

29. You said that life is a long road, with infinitely many forks in the road, and you are always making choices. If you just choose to eat fried noodles or fried rice, it doesn't seem to have much impact, but each choice has a far-reaching impact. Different choices will definitely create a completely different life. You also said that the unbearable feeling of life lies in the fact that life has no chance to start again. If I had done what I did, I wouldn't have done what I am doing now. I don't want to say anything more. Every fork has no real choice between good and bad, just take life as yourself. Unique creation, if you make different choices, you won't look back often.

30. Walking through the forest, you see a vine attached to the trunk, soft and solid intertwined, and you are moved by this quiet and beautiful scene. Let happiness and belonging stop here. You want to. I wonder what will happen in the future. Maybe vines will break, trees will fall, maybe the sky will be barren and the land will grow old. You want to. Then, please stop at this moment. Stop is eternity. If there is a quiet and beautiful moment in eternity, all kinds of disasters that may be encountered in the future will be comforted and rewarded.

3 1, I eat too much healthy food, and occasionally I want to chew duck tongue and brine chicken. After watching many famous master dramas, I occasionally want to watch a series that can't stop crying. After listening to classical music, I occasionally want to sing a pop song that loves him for a hundred years (classic quotation www.lameng.net) and hates him for ten thousand years. You know that healthy food is meaningful to strengthen the stomach, master's plays are meaningful to cultivate temperament, and classical music is meaningful to enhance the soul. However, sometimes you don't really want to live that meaningful life all the time. Life doesn't need to tie itself so tightly. It is moral to indulge occasionally. Reiki may be close to adults, but occasionally tacky will be more approachable.

You are unhappy today because someone stabbed you verbally. You don't like quarreling, so leave; But you just left there, but you didn't leave the situation where you were hurt by that person, so the more you think about it, the angrier you get. The more angry you are, the less strength you have to pay attention to other things. Many events that you should do and think with your heart are ignored and omitted in your restless mind. Because, you're just mad with all your heart. Emotional fuss is a waste of yourself, and it is a very bad waste. After all, it takes effort to get angry, and it is definitely debilitating. So, as smart as you are, don't let your emotions control you. Before you get angry again, remind yourself softly: don't waste it.

33. Once you were planning to go to A by train, you got off at B on a whim. Perhaps the unique place names attracted you, or perhaps a glimpse of the scenery touched you. In short, you changed your original itinerary and then experienced an unexpected trip full of surprises. A is your original goal, but B makes you feel a little risky. In retrospect, you said it was an unforgettable derailment experience. Isn't life always like this? Devoted to the only purpose, but completed the original trip; If you leave the preset track, you will have a chance to discover other scenery.

34. There was a time when you were so depressed that you didn't even bother to look at the sunshine outside the window. So of course, you forgot to look at the basin of Margaret on the windowsill that needs to drink water every day. In this way, I don't know how long it took. Finally, one day, you passed the low tide of your mood and thought of your Margaret. God, poor flower, is she still alive? You opened the curtains with trepidation, only to see her swaying in the wind and with a beautiful face. It turns out that in the past few days, although you forgot to feed her water, God did not forget to take care of her with rain and dew. Many things go on quietly outside your sight, and arrange yourself quietly. Everything is born, everything is born naturally. Actually, there's nothing to worry about. All you have to do is be yourself and leave no regrets.

35. I don't like preparing for the show. I like to be casual! Doing the program step by step, although perfect, is too fake. Just like vulgarity is true, elegance is false!

36. A woman's real unrequited love is to ignore you at all.

If you manage this thing well, your investment will pay off. But if it's just an adventure, it's not an investment, it's stealing chickens and dogs. The consequence of stealing chickens is that stealing chickens costs nothing.

38. Age is not a problem, height is not a distance, but distance is really a problem. Moreover, in the process of keeping their distance, it is mostly boys who often can't stand loneliness. That's because too many girls indulge them. The basis of human existence in this society is tolerance. But only love must be selfish in loyalty. If there is no selfishness, any true feelings will become insincere.

As an artist, you should not expose your ugly side while conveying beauty.

40. Life changes like a fleeting time, the totem of love and the spread of love. Love is gradually infiltrated, not instilled.

4 1. At a certain period in life, a person has to make three choices: one is what you can do; One is what you can do; The other is what you should do. People who choose what they can do should obey the rules. People who choose what they can do are self-aware. People who choose what they should do are rational choices. In the top ten of Forbes list, there are many rich people who didn't want to be rich. Some people want to be poets, others want to be musicians. But in the end, they found a truth: what they are good at is often what they don't like, and what they don't like is often what they are good at. Therefore, many people silently keep their dreams in their hearts after creating their own careers.

42. A mild refusal is far better than a severe criticism.

43. In fact, women rely on intuition and sense of smell, and men always think they are unconscious. Now that women are so determined, men will always regret why they found out later.

44. Don't deprive a man of his right to be a man, and don't fulfill his obligation to be a man. On the contrary, it will only make the other person feel ashamed and escape, and will not feel self. Only encouragement and guidance can make each other feel happy in the process of growing up.

45. Sometimes, people are just too happy, so something happens. It is those who help each other to move forward, and those who stumble can go further.

I mean, you should review your own problems. If it is possible to stay with her or with other women in the future, you should behave yourself, right? Of course, your mistake cannot be an excuse for her betrayal, can it? You are a man. If you want to love a woman, you must work hard. If you want to break up with her, you must live up to expectations. If you don't cherish what you have, don't blame the other party for betrayal. If you don't reflect on yourself when you lose, don't question each other's enthusiasm. Those fatuous emperors always say that Jiangshan was destroyed by treacherous court officials, and that Jiangshan's femme fatale was actually destroyed by ourselves. We should behave ourselves. To win is to win clearly, and to lose is to be convinced. I mean, whether you are in love or breaking up, as a man, you should live up to expectations, not be so decadent today.