We should dare to express our views and opinions and express our feelings. We should study more, constantly improve our living ability and working ability, and learn to take care of ourselves, which will be of great help to our future growth.
The ability to live independently is the most basic ability that a person must have to lead a normal life. It also includes the ability to adapt to difficult environments and the ability to cope with setbacks. The ability to live independently is not innate, but cultivated through education under the influence of the acquired environment. People's ability to live independently varies greatly due to different environments, education and influence after birth. ?
Now adults, 18 -25 years old, most people leave their parents' arms and begin to learn to live independently. This stage includes four years of college, and one or two years after college, people feel that they are social people. At this stage, we are full of energy and curious about the world. Without family discipline, we began to have the opportunity to explore freely. It is true that many young people still live a life of reaching for clothes and making ends meet. They haven't learned to be responsible for their lives and have no sense of living independently.
Psychological dependence, in fact, self-care is the same. It's easy to be independent, especially when you have a strong desire. I can't let go because of inertia. People like comfort. As long as they don't die, they will be content with the status quo and want to be independent. But if they live well now, there will be no substantial change. If you have tasted the consequences, don't reassure yourself. Letting go of dependence is actually not as terrible as imagined.
I also want to tell my parents now, don't do too much for their children, and let them learn to take care of themselves, because as long as a person has the ability to take care of himself, he will gradually develop other abilities.
Because he finds that he is no longer a child, if his parents raise him like this, you don't have to worry about the future of the child. Because we don't know what the future is like, but you will see that the child is in good condition now, so the future can't be wrong.
Many abilities, in fact, have always been in their own bodies, but they have not been used and strengthened. I will continue to do what I should do in the future and really cultivate myself into a social person.