Remember, your state of mind is the only thing you can fully master, and only you can fully master it. Practice to control your own mentality and guide with a positive attitude.
Sever all relations with your past failures and eliminate all negative factors in your mind that run counter to your positive attitude.
Find out what you want most in life, start to get it immediately, and pursue your goal by helping others get the same benefits. In this way, you can apply the principle of paying more to practical actions.
After determining the resources you need, make a plan to obtain these resources, and then make a plan that is neither excessive nor too insufficient. Don't think you're asking too little. Remember: greed is the most important factor that makes ambitious people fail.
Cultivate saying or doing something that makes others feel comfortable every day. You can do this by phone, postcard or some simple acts of kindness. For example, giving a person an inspirational book is to bring him something that can make his life full of miracles. Do one good deed every day, and you will always be carefree.
Let yourself know that it is not setbacks that defeat you, but the mentality you have in the face of setbacks, and train yourself to find the positive side equal to setbacks in every disappointment. Be sure to cultivate the habit of pursuing perfection, and use your love and enthusiasm to cultivate this habit. It is best if you can turn this habit into a hobby. If you can't, at least remember that a lazy attitude will soon become a negative attitude.
When you can't find the answer to the question, you might as well help others solve his problem and find the answer you need from it. When you are helping others solve their problems, you are also gaining insight into ways to liberate your own problems. Read Emerson's On Remuneration once a week until you understand the truth. This book can convince you that you can benefit from a positive attitude.
Take a thorough inventory of your property, and you will find that the most valuable property you have is a sound mind, with which you can decide your own destiny. Contact the person you offended in an unreasonable way and apologize to him most sincerely. The more difficult the task is, the more you can get rid of the negative attitude after apologizing.
How much space we can occupy in this world is directly proportional to the quality and quantity of services we provide for the interests of others and our mentality when providing services. Get rid of your bad habits, ban one bad habit every day for a month, and reflect on your achievements at the weekend. If you need advice or help, don't let your self-esteem stop you.
To know that self-pity is the destroyer of independent spirit, please believe that you are the only person you can rely on at any time. Think of all the events in your life as events that inspire you to go further, because even the saddest experience will bring you the greatest wealth as long as you give time to solve your troubles. Give up the idea of controlling others, destroy it before it destroys you, and turn your energy to controlling yourself. Do what you want with all your ideas, and don't leave any room for those whimsical ideas.
Adjust your mind by adding gratitude to the life you have in your daily prayers, so that it can bring you what you want and the environment you want. Ask for a reasonable return from your daily life, instead of just waiting for the return to come to you, you will be surprised to get a lot of things you want-although you may never realize it. Live in a way that suits your physiology and psychology, and don't waste time, lest you fall behind others.
Don't accept anyone's advice unless someone is willing to use enough evidence to prove that his advice is reliable. Rejection will help you avoid being misled or being treated like a fool. It is important to understand that human strength does not come entirely from matter. Gandhi did not rely on wealth to lead his people to fight for freedom. Keep yourself active to stay healthy. Physical illness can easily lead to psychological disorders. Your body should be as active as your mind to keep active. Increase your patience and embrace everything with an open mind. At the same time, you should get in touch with people of different races and beliefs and learn to accept the nature of others, instead of blindly asking others to do what you want.
You should admit that "love" is the best medicine for your physical and psychological diseases. Love will change and adjust the chemical elements in your body, so that they can help you show a positive attitude, and love will also expand your tolerance. The best way to receive love is to give your own love. Reward those who bring you the same or more benefits. The law of increasing returns will eventually bring you benefits, and it may also bring you the ability to get everything you deserve. Remember, when you give, you will get something equal or higher. Holding this idea can dispel your fear of old age. One of the best examples is that youth disappears, but wisdom is gained. You should believe that you can find suitable solutions to all the problems, but you should also pay attention that all the solutions you find are not necessarily the solutions you want.
Refer to other people's examples and remind yourself that any unfavorable situation can be overcome. Although Edison received only three months of formal education, he was the greatest inventor. Although Helen Keller lost her eyesight and language ability, she inspired thousands of people. The power of a clear goal will definitely exceed any limit. You should take an acceptable attitude towards well-intentioned criticism, instead of taking a negative reaction, accept the opportunity to learn from what others think of you, do some introspection and find out what should be improved. Don't be afraid of criticism, you should face it bravely. Form a think tank with other people who are committed to the principle of success, discuss your process, benefit from a wider range of experience, and ensure that the discussion is positive.
Distinguish between desire, hope, desire and strong desire to achieve goals. Only a strong desire will give you motivation, and only a positive attitude can supply the fuel needed to generate motivation. Avoid any negative language style, especially nitpicking, gossiping or slandering others' reputation, which will make your thoughts develop to the negative side.
Exercise your mind so that it can guide your destiny in the direction you want, seize every interest in the "return" envelope and take them for yourself. You should always show your true self, no one will believe a liar. Believe in infinite wisdom, it will give you all the strength you need to master and guide your thoughts.
Believe that you have the ability to liberate yourself and let yourself be independent, and apply this confidence to your work from now on! Trust the people you work with, and make sure that if the people you work with are not worthy of your trust, you have chosen the wrong person.
Finally, read this article once a week for six months. In six months, you will be completely transformed. When you learn the good habits required by this article and adjust your thoughts, your mentality will be in a positive state at any time.