Only when you are calm can you hear your heart. Perhaps, what you are crazy about is not what you really want, but just accommodating others or society; Perhaps, you are worried, and you don't really want to love or should love, but you don't want to for a while. When you sit down and watch bloom's flowers fall and you are calm, you will see clearly. Blooming with a smile is a quiet joy; It is a comfortable feeling to watch the flowers fall quietly.
3. Learning to accept disability is the maturity of life. No one is perfect, and regret is the normal state of life. In life, there are successes and failures, and there are gatherings and departures. No one can be blessed, absolute monarch. You can't have your cake and eat it, which is the helplessness of life. Mature people can face all imperfections indifferently, so they don't insist, try their best and live with fate. Pursuing perfection is a beautiful ideal, and accepting imperfection is a beautiful mentality.
You should always forgive all beings, no matter how bad they are, even if they hurt you, you should let go to get real happiness.
5. The right place in life is not close to money or power, but close to the soul; True happiness is neither wealth nor all the best, but a clear conscience.
6. We can't control other people's thoughts; We can't force others to do anything. The only thing I can do is to try my best to do my own thing, take the road under my feet and live my life according to my own principles. Even if someone mistreats you, time will not mistreat you, and life will not mistreat you! If you say that you have been wronged, it is also your imbalance.
7. Many things are often not the original appearance, such as a cotton-padded jacket in summer, a cattail leaf fan in winter, an umbrella after a storm, and hospitality after a cold heart. Even if you get it, it will lose its original meaning. If you wait too long for the scenery and people you want to see, all your expectations will be exhausted. How can you make up for the lost years? A lot of things can't wait, maybe things will change, so do what you want to do.
8. Nothing in this world can't be lost. What is left is the scenery, and what is left is the life. He who walks to the end is the right person.
9. Life depends on each other, and laughter and tears are intertwined. You don't have to be too happy to get it. If you have some, you will inevitably give up others. There is no need to grieve for what is lost, and nothing can stay forever. Don't define the happiness of life by the success or failure of your career and the amount of income. They are only vassals and have no necessary connection with happiness. As long as everything is normal, no complaints, no jealousy, no slack, no indifference, happiness can be attached.
10. Some things, you really didn't see it clearly, but it hurts; Some people, you really don't understand, understand and hurt. Life is a kind of confusion, a vague, unclear, confused and vague. There are so many things in life that you can't get used to. Seeing clearly and understanding are all asking for it. It is not self-deception, but self-protection to cast a fog over life. Everything is too serious, bitter heart, tired of themselves.
1 1. Learn to be quiet, immerse yourself in your mind, and gradually reduce your desire for things; Learn to return to zero forever and take every day as a new starting point. When you are upset, have a cup of tea, play a soothing and soft music, close your eyes, recall the people and things around you, and slowly sort out the new future; Or sit cross-legged and read the Bible. These are both a kind of rest and a kind of practice.
12. Life is not long, some wonderful things can only be experienced once, and some scenery can only pass by once. When you are tired, look at the world from another angle; When depressed, take a deep breath in a different environment; When you are confused, think in another position; When hesitating, change your mind to choose; When depressed, change the environment to find happiness; When you are upset, change your mind to solve it; When you feel inferior, treat it with a different attitude. In life, learn to put yourself in your own shoes, and your world will be simple, and people will be happy if they are simple.
13. Life will inevitably encounter bumps. Don't be dissatisfied with many setbacks in life. You don't have to be so miserable. You don't have to be depressed. Whether it is a blessing or a curse, you have to face it; Good or bad, it will pass. It is better to let go of the burden and enjoy life than to bend over and suffer with life. It is better to face life calmly than to complain about the unfairness of fate in vain. Learn to let go, and the road of life will get wider and wider.
14. If you don't blindly compare with others, you will be carefree. If you don't set your life goals too high, you will always be happy. If you don't deliberately pursue perfection, you will stay away from pain. If you don't always embarrass yourself, you will live very comfortably. If you don't always find fault, it will be easier.
15. Everyone always looks up and envies the happiness of others, but finds himself being looked up and envied by others. In fact, everyone is happy. However, your happiness is often seen by others.
16. After walking for a long time, there is still no hope, so I changed my direction; One thing, after thinking for a long time, is still entangled in my heart, so choose to let go; Some people, after a long time, still feel insincere, so they choose to leave; A living method that persists for a long time and still doesn't feel happy, then choose to change. Break, give up, leave, let go of the past and let the heart return to zero!
17. The older you get, the more you learn to let nature take its course. I don't want to keep anything. I believe that things here will not leave. Get calm, lose indifference, strive for inevitability and let nature take its course.
18. Life should not be too full and crowded. No matter what you do, you should leave some space for yourself, so that you can turn around calmly. Leave some benefits for others, leave some way for others to walk, and leave some time for yourself to think. Remember to leave room for life at all times, don't be aggressive, decadent, nervous, lax, complacent when you get it, unhappy when you lose it, and face the gains and losses calmly.
19. Don't be too persistent in life, just try your best to meet your destiny. I chose, worked hard, persisted, passed, and had a clear conscience. As for the result, it doesn't really matter. A person's life is nothing but a process. What are you proud of? Bloom is gone, the grass is frosted, life does not bring it, and death does not bring it. Depressed about what? Let nature take its course, let nature take its course, be free as a cloud, and be free and easy as running water, which is the proper attitude of life.
20. The height of life is not how many things you see clearly, but how many things you underestimate. The width of the soul is not how many people you know, but how many people you tolerate. Be a mountain, look at everything and be inclusive. Being a man is like water, you can advance and retreat, but you must know how to advance and retreat.