Your psychology is a little abnormal, but it's just a matter of preference. In fact, all preferences, including those between the same sex and the opposite sex, are derived from your infatuation with yourself, and it is your extreme concern for yourself that leads to love. From the appearance, we can see that there is also the problem of gender identity. The so-called gender identity refers to self-psychological gender identity. We all use men as templates. For example, a man has male sexual characteristics, but he psychologically thinks he is a woman. This is an abnormal gender identity, while the normal gender identity is that he is a man and his self-identity is also a man. So do women.