Most women know that the more men pay for themselves, the more they love themselves.

But in fact, many women just complain that men don't pay, but they all pay for men in action.

On the one hand, I am worried that men can't do well, so I just finish what I should do. On the other hand, I choose to undertake more because of my love for men.

The result of this is often that women complain while giving, while men have not changed anything.

If you want to break this situation, you must be willing to let men pay!

And let men feel that "you are particularly worthy", "paying for you is particularly motivated" and "paying for you is paying for yourself" while paying for you.

Here are three universal formulas, which everyone likes to collect!

Make a request+explain the reason+praise (express the demand)

Help me/give it to me … because you bought/selected more …

Honey, can you help me choose a necklace? Because the bracelet you gave me last time was so beautiful that I was praised by my colleagues!

Learn to accept generously and give appropriate feedback.

In fact, emotionally, you don't have to split yourself. It is also important to learn to accept. Don't think this gift is unnecessary and a waste of money.

When you receive a gift, you can generously say: Honey, the gift you chose is so beautiful! There are new jewelry to bring! I love it ~ is it a little expensive? Hey, hey, you are so kind to me ~ Love you ~ Go! I'll take you to a barbecue today! Make yourself at home!

Strengthen guidance, especially for the state of emotional warming.

For example, he gave me a gift. You can say: This one is really simple and exquisite ~ I like it very much, and I will only wear it from my husband in the future! I want to choose a more beautiful one to send me yo ~ "

The same is true of other housework.

Using various scenes to subtly strengthen each other's memory will have hypnotic effect.