Look at your answers.
All kinds, no one gets to the point.
What's going on here?
Are you there?
I guess Mushroom Niang will definitely call you back.
If nothing happens, she will be in the next 50 years.
Every day, she may meet many boys to say hello to her.
If you use this old-fashioned opening remarks again, will she still have the desire to chat and reply?
Anyone who asks me "Are you there" will be fined for "borrowing Q"
Direct shielding, never be soft
Let's take a look at this classmate's answer.
"The moonlight is beautiful tonight. When I enjoy the moon, I can't help thinking of you. "
Beautiful moonlight?
I think you want to be beautiful.
Do you really think you are Wong Kar-wai?
Beautiful moonlight?
Then you go and live with the moon.
With your opening remarks, you either want an S.
Or greasy and disgusting
Remember, the most important thing at the beginning of a chat is
0 1. Curious (knocking on the blackboard)
Correct formula: share experience+trigger.
For example, I passed a coffee shop today and saw a girl just like you.
One sentence triggers girls' infinite reverie.
If you always ask "Are you there" and "What are you doing", it also reflects the emptiness and boredom of your soul.
Without a specific direction, girls' emotions can't be mobilized, so many girls are reluctant to talk to people who use this kind of opening remarks.
In fact, as long as you change the expression of "what are you doing", the effect will be different.
You can assume what the girl is doing first, and then ask the girl questions in a verified way.
"What are you doing? I guess you should eat delicious food outside. "
Is it better to embellish "What are you doing" than to ask "What are you doing" directly?
Asking about vacant positions
This type of opening remarks is generally to ask the other person's opinion on a certain issue.
Besides, this question must be of interest to her, so that you can talk.
This question can be a recently released movie or an online celebrity restaurant. ......
For example: "Did the movie you saw yesterday look good? My friends and I are also going to see it. "
You can also discuss it with her after reading it, which will extend your topic.
Maybe, chatting, you can ask her out to watch a movie together!
Step 3 open a circle of friends
Remember that a girl must be most interested in her topic.
Therefore, our opening remarks can focus on what she shows as much as possible.
Or her hobbies, to give a few simple examples:
For example, she shared some photos of her trip in a circle of friends. She must have sent it because she wanted someone to share this feeling with her.
So, you can say:
"Those photos in your circle of friends are so beautiful."
"(Fatu)+I have been to this place once, and it is really beautiful."
If she shared a song in a circle of friends, you can say:
"Hey, the song you shared in the circle of friends is my single cycle recently."
At the same time, combine some information of her circle of friends to find out your similarities, and you will find that there are actually many topics between you.
4. Eat, drink and be merry
This topic is very big, and there are many things to say. You can talk about eating, drinking and having fun.
And every bit of life can be used as an opening, as long as you describe it reasonably.
A girl is also an individual who keeps playing and eating.
We might as well start with eating: I just finished eating Xiaolongkan with my friends, and the spicy taste of the beef is still lingering in my mouth, an unspeakable feeling.
There are many points on this topic that girls can reply to.
For example, being with friends reflects your personality and socialization, and she can reply how she plays with friends;
Another example is Xiaolongkan. She can reply to her own experience of eating hot pot, and she smells like hot pot all over.
There is also beef, which is inseparable from hot pot and has a high commonality;
Finally, there is a feeling of spicy mouth. Eating hot pot and spicy food are inseparable.
There are many opinions in this sentence. As long as one of the girls chooses to reply to you, you can all talk along the topic.