( 1)?
My major is communication engineering, and it is also a major with good development prospects. The atmosphere of postgraduate entrance examination in our department is very strong. Every morning, I go to class with sleepy eyes. When I pass by the first floor of the teaching building, I will see my seniors reading in the morning, and my heart is always shocked. This state of going all out for one goal is probably only in the third year of high school. ?
When I was a freshman, I was very close to a senior. He gave me a lot of guidance and suggestions about college life, and we also discussed whether to choose the postgraduate entrance examination. At that time, I was only a freshman, and my thoughts were very immature. I just made a simple judgment on the content of my postgraduate entrance examination in a book I read, What to Read in University. Testing is not the way I want to go. At that time, he was very supportive of my idea and firmly stood on my side of not taking the postgraduate entrance examination. Later, he betrayed me, and I often saw him when I passed by the postgraduate entrance examination classroom. I still stick to my idea, but this insistence is more rational. ?
I once asked a senior who was preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination. He said, "The most realistic reason why I choose to take the postgraduate entrance examination is that the salary of graduate students is twice as high as that of undergraduates, and I have to get a postgraduate diploma anyway." Shuang, I don't know where he got such exact data before he joined the work. Can a graduate student really change his life and destiny? ?
Then I went to ask another senior who directly took part in the work. He told me: "You should follow your heart, make all your own choices, don't force yourself, and don't be anxious. Everything will come naturally. " ?
The senior who betrayed me and chose to take the postgraduate entrance examination once said to me: "After studying as a graduate student, your platform will be high, and your network resources will be very different. Generally, you can go anywhere if you have been in love twice. " Network? I can't deny it. Maybe the students are immature and pretentious. I have always believed that if I have the ability, I will come naturally. Otherwise, when you need contacts, it's a hot face and a cold ass. ?
I am very grateful to them for sharing their experiences with me, but I still haven't found the answer I want. Maybe there is no standard answer to this question. ?
(2)?
At the beginning, we just finished the college entrance examination, ignorant and bent on getting rid of the shackles of high school, and we could not make an objective choice at all. I am a science student, and everyone thinks that the liberal arts major is not developing, so it is better to choose a popular major to find a job. I have no idea of my own. I listen to what others say. Finally, a former professor friend of my grandfather said to me, "If you get good grades, come to my school.". Communication engineering is quite good. After going to Shenzhen, a girl earns more than 10 thousand a month. " In this way, my school and major were confirmed. ?
The university provides us with a platform for free development, and the pent-up enthusiasm has also been released, and we gradually control the right to choose. I don't believe more and more that any wish can determine our future career and life. ?
Every time I talk about this topic with my classmates, people often say, "I don't think I can find a good job without taking the postgraduate entrance examination." No one wants it now. " Or "I took a part-time job in the summer vacation, and I feel that my work is so hard that it is more comfortable to continue my study."
Or who will be surprised when I say that you don't have to have a professional counterpart to find a job: "I think it's a pity that I didn't do my major well after studying for four years." ?
I have to pout my lips. There is a word in economics called sunk cost effect. Since we have spent four years in this major we don't like, why should we spend three or more years because of these four years? We should learn to stop loss. ?
I don't have personal experience and can't objectively comment on the pros and cons, but what I know very well is that I don't want to spend all my time studying textbooks. ?
Universities can take exams, but they can't learn. I have no desire to delve into professional fields. Apart from winning two scholarships, I have never participated in laboratory selection and any form of competition. ?
If you don't like something, maybe you can't do it well, so you have to cover yourself up with a dislike. I admit my incompetence, I don't have a natural sense of touch, I believe in the power of diligence, but I really can't stick to what I don't like and am good at. ?
I know very well that I am a person with strong observation and imitation, but not enough innovation ability. I don't think academics are suitable for me. Once I choose to take the postgraduate entrance examination, I will basically be sure that I will love things I don't like for a long time. It makes me sad to think about it. ?
(3)?
I once communicated this problem with my mother. She said: "There is nothing so perfect in this world that I can do my favorite job. If you think so, you can do what others can do well, and you don't have to be worse than others. " ?
At first glance, it really makes sense. Others can, so can I, but I am not others. Everyone has his own strengths. Why don't you choose the life you love, and be patient with yourself? Life is so short, it must mean something. ?
Why do you think so? There's a reason. Only by doing what you really like can you devote yourself to infinite passion. ?
After more than two years in college, I have spent almost all my spare time studying what I like besides ensuring the basic learning tasks. I learned dance, insisted on painting, read a lot of books, wrote some words, and learned some common office software. In a world I love, I swim freely. ?
I am quiet and peaceful, and good at summing up. I will take every paper I write very seriously, and every report I make, including layout, layout and content, will be affirmed by the teacher. ?
There was also a time when I learned handmade flowers, and I got started quickly, which also confirmed my talent in handcraft. ?
I am more and more sure that I am a biased girl in my bones, and I am not so suitable to be a real engineering woman. Stay in the lab all day with a welding torch to connect the circuit or write programs for the computer to study technology. At the end of each semester, there will be a big assignment about curriculum design. My summary report is always more perfect and beautiful than my work. The teacher of the board I welded always gives me more points because the appearance is neat and clean and ignores the insufficiency. ?
I don't think hobbies are more important than anything else, but I know very well that only by doing what I like and am good at can I stimulate my inner enthusiasm and go all out. I don't deny the significance of setbacks, but there are a few people who can constantly turn setbacks into positive energy and constantly spur their progress. I believe that a proper sense of accomplishment can motivate a person to move forward more than constant frustration. Just like studying partial subjects, the dominant subjects occupy most of your enthusiasm, and the inferior subjects occupy most of your energy. As a result, the dominant subjects are stronger and the inferior subjects are difficult to improve.
(4)
Well, since I don't like my major so much, why don't I change my major or take an interdisciplinary exam? ?
I've also thought about this problem carefully. ?
Freshman, we are a major category of enrollment, and we are all studying public basic courses. I have a good grade point, so I can choose a good major. When I was a sophomore, I began to seriously think about what kind of road I was going to take. When I was aware of it, I realized that I had missed the opportunity to change my major. ?
I don't take the postgraduate entrance examination, not to deny the significance of it. Instead, I envy the seniors and sisters who have worked hard for their dreams. Cross-major is not unheard of, but I don't want to repeat the same mistakes and repeat the road of choosing a major in the college entrance examination. I hope to spend some time after graduation and try more possibilities. I don't rule out the possibility of taking the on-the-job postgraduate exam according to actual needs. ?
I have to figure out what I'm doing. Universities should learn to choose their own life independently, instead of blindly following the trend. I will be ready for a hard life in the future, and I will go through the road of my choice on my knees. I am willing to pay no regrets for my choice. ?
Looking back, I can't deny the reasons given by those students before, but I think it is irresponsible to simply take the postgraduate entrance examination as a means to escape the pressure of employment. The classical teacher said in "Tearing Down the Wall of Thinking": Why is it difficult for college students to find jobs now? Because it is difficult to find a job with a professional counterpart. It is easy for us to limit our thinking to death and keep spinning in a puzzling circle.
If you choose to believe something, you must give reasons that can convince you and stick to it. ?
(5)
In this era, there are many people who like to preach, and they always like to use their own views to drive you to choose what he thinks is right.
People who have never been in love will tell you how to manage a good relationship. ?
People who have never been to college will tell you how to spend your college life. ?
No one who really has a job will be enthusiastic to help you analyze the industry situation. ?
They put what they heard from hearsay into your head after self-processing and polishing, and then instill it into you with the experience of someone who has experienced it. Anyway, you are the one who listens, you choose, and you practice. Whether you are bitter or not has nothing to do with them. All they have to do is be their own melon-eating masses. ?
Of course, there are indeed many kind-hearted predecessors who enthusiastically share their experiences and lessons with you, hoping to help you avoid detours. ?
My part-time teacher also told me: your major is easy to find a job, but you can't find a good job. ?
I thank him for his advice. ?
I admire the kind of person who will objectively use his own experience to help you analyze the pros and cons of the problem, and then put the choice in his own hands instead of controlling his own thoughts. ?
We have more and more choices, and the number of people who can suffer from choice phobia is also increasing. ?
The experience of experienced people is valuable, but it is more important to make the most favorable choice according to your actual situation. After all, everyone has taken a different road. If we can find another road, it will be a landscape.