I remember, the first time I felt my parents were old, it was at the lowest valley of my life. I didn't go home often before. In my early twenties, all I can think about is making money, making friends and falling in love. I didn't think my parents were getting old, and I didn't think much. Until I was 26 years old, my business failed and I got something I shouldn't touch, which made me flustered and hit me. After living at home for a period of time, I began to reflect on what I have done in recent years, the change of my mentality and my future plans. After getting along day and night, I felt the change of my parents. I have more white hair on my head and my face is getting older. I became rambling and started talking about health preservation. When my father was young, he was no longer in high spirits and his fiery temper was much milder. I still remember when I was at school, my father would severely scold me for making mistakes. I was scared when I saw my father's cold face, so I never made any big mistakes. My mother has been encouraging us since childhood, telling us to keep our position and do our job well, and never ask too much of us. I also have a brother who used to be a troublemaker, but now he is much more stable and has become a father. Maybe he knows better what it's like to be a parent. When I lived at home, I figured out a lot of things and made plans for my future. To tell you the truth, I felt very uncomfortable during that time. I feel that my parents are old, with more white hair on their heads and more wrinkles on their faces. They are in their thirties, but they have not stood up. We can't seize the lost time. What we can do is to cherish the present and spend as much time with our parents and family as possible. Just like the chopsticks brother's song "Father" sings: Time is slow, I won't let you get old, I would like to trade me for your years. Friends, there are two kinds of sad helplessness in life, and there is the deepest pain in my heart. One is for white-haired people to send black-haired people, and the other is for children to raise and not stay.