There is a folk proverb in the law of Sanqi:

Cook porridge for three minutes, divide water for seven minutes: three minutes to cool, seven minutes to fill. Reading should be divided into three parts and seven parts; You have to be three minutes drunk and seven minutes awake when drinking.

The so-called "Sanqi Law" applies to most things, as well as relationships and feelings.

In my opinion, the most comfortable relationship is nothing more than three statements and seven tacit understandings; Three points of communication, seven points of tolerance: three points of joy, seven points of cherish. Only by embracing a poem and keeping calm can we find our own stability and calmness in the complicated world.

Three distinct points and seven tacit understandings.

The comfortable relationship between people is divided into three parts, and seven parts are tacit. Understand your implication, your embarrassment, and all the meanings of your sadness, troubles and happiness;

I can complement and help each other with you, or I can foster strengths and avoid weaknesses with you and share all the pain of trivial, complicated and depressed life.

This tacit understanding is not innate, but the true feelings spread from the inside out in the name of love and care.

Even if it's just a glass of water, a look and a hug, you can feel full of gentleness and practicality.

Three-point communication and seven-point tolerance

There is a saying on the Internet: "There are no two identical leaves or two identical snowflakes in the world." Love or friendship.

A sincere and lasting relationship needs communication and tolerance.

I have always liked this sentence:

The most valuable love is always understanding and action. Perhaps we have all had illusions about perfect feelings, but gradually we will understand that life is inherently difficult with a perfect match made in heaven. There has never been a unified standard for two people to get along. I know your personality, so I will not criticize you. You understand my needs, so you won't give up on me. Understanding each other, meeting slowly and falling in love for a long time is the best perfection.

Three points of joy and seven points of cherish.

Some people say: "In this world, people who are really good to you will lose one when they meet one. Don't lose a person who is kind to you, and don't disappoint a heart that really treats you.

How many feelings, starting from fate, are happy, but they are destroyed because they are not cherished. Every relationship in this world is hard-won and needs to be managed with care.

Any relationship is worth it as long as you know how to cherish it. Only with your heart can you last long. Only those who know how to cherish can be loved in the palm of their hands, and those who cherish others can be cherished and cared for by others.

We just met by chance, and then formed a team to explore this beauty together. The world, together to defeat the monsters along the way. , don't bind each other, don't sacrifice for it. When we are together, we will live more interesting and meaningful life than when I am alone, so as not to waste our love.