Couples of different ages get along in different ways, and the mode of getting along is not static, and it will change with age.
Some couples, in the first few years of marriage, the man is relatively strong, and the woman is a wife for the first time, which has the shyness of a little woman. They listen to men everywhere. After a few years, they found themselves just like you, and later they became women who guided men in everything.
In our family, when my brother-in-law and my aunt got married decades ago, they were both bad-tempered and often quarreled. They had a small quarrel for three days and a big quarrel for five days. They haven't improved since they had children. The Civil Affairs Bureau has been there several times. The funniest time, menstruation waited for his brother-in-law to divorce at the gate of the Civil Affairs Bureau, but he just didn't go. The phrase "divorce yourself" was thrown at her.
Family members are worried that they can't live, but it's a pity that they are worried in vain. Since my brother-in-law entrusted a lighter job to my aunt more than ten years ago, my aunt also taught herself Chinese medicine health care after work, and the relationship between them began to improve. They looked at each other with admiration and appreciation. From then on, they stopped fighting. Now they all have grandchildren, and they get along like first-love men and women.
Both husband and wife, women's words may have little influence on their husbands, but their actions may have a greater influence on each other.
I once read an article in which the author said that he wanted her husband to get rid of bad habits in life, but he didn't listen.
Later, based on his own changes, the author arranged his life to be full every day, insisting on running and exercising every morning and reading and writing at night. At first, her husband didn't care, but after this state lasted for a while, she was surprised to find that her husband also started running in the morning and reading books at night. It turns out that this is the subtle influence of female physical exercise.
Are both husband and wife women guiding men? What is the value of a woman?
Goethe said, "Eternal women, guide us."
Where are you going? Towards a more realistic life and a more humane society.
Which position is more advanced for cohabiting men and women?
Writer Mr. Zhou has a saying:
In this way, women play a more guiding role in both husband and wife. This may also be determined by the different attributes of men and women.
Women belong to the earth more than men. If a man is not influenced by women all his life, his soul is a lonely soul floating in the sky.
Women are closer to the way of nature than men, and this is the beauty of women. Faced with life disasters and major choices, women are often more rational than men.
Because men's reason is logic, and feelings are different, it is easy to break up under the impact of feelings; A woman's reason is intuition, and her feelings are homogeneous, so she can remain intact in the surge of feelings.
Men stand taller, have a broader vision, and are easy to look forward and backward, regret the past and worry about the future. But women are healthier, and they are closer to the natural lifestyle.
A woman's cleverness lies in her appreciation of men's cleverness.
Men are lonely, creating culture in loneliness. Women are gregarious and spread culture in gregarious.
A good woman does not think she can save a man. She just comforted him with songs, smiles and tears. Her love encouraged him to save himself.
Motherhood is the most tenacious force in women's nature. Once this force is awakened, there is no suffering in the world that she can't bear.
A powerful and influential man in society may be indifferent to thousands of admirers who only know his strength, but he will fall down in front of a woman who knows his weakness.
A woman incarnated as a wife can guide us to stick to an ordinary life, and a woman incarnated as a mother can guide us to tolerate a miserable life.
Husband and wife, male and female grievances, all grievances will disappear, but the favor that women give to life and the world will last forever.
Pay tribute to millions of wives and mothers in Qian Qian for their gentleness and hardship! I also thank thousands of husbands and fathers in Qian Qian for their tolerance and father's strength!