How to deal with family, society and life is the most important thing to maintain the effect of drug rehabilitation. Changing from a normal social member to an addict is a personal pain, a family misfortune and a social loss. The ultimate goal of detoxification is to restore drug addicts who have become abnormal members of society to their normal status before taking drugs. This negative law of "in society-not in society-in society" determines that the drug rehabilitation model must always be oriented towards returning to society, the drug rehabilitation system must be a "trinity" drug rehabilitation system in which various drug rehabilitation measures are closely linked, and drug addicts must serve and help. "Detoxification is only part of the whole treatment and rehabilitation process. Therefore, rehabilitation measures must be taken after detoxification. This is a long process aimed at guiding them to get rid of the influence of drugs and restore the lives of citizens. " It can be said that the focus of drug rehabilitation work is how to make drug addicts return to society after completing drug rehabilitation treatment. China's original compulsory detoxification system ignores the rehabilitation and social return of drug addicts, which is bound to cause drug addicts to find extreme discomfort after completing physical detoxification or even psychological rehabilitation, and can only find the meaning of existence in drug dependence, thus forming an institutional strange circle or trap. Without the overall planning of the rehabilitation model oriented to returning to society, no matter how much efforts are made, the rehabilitation work is ineffective, because the rehabilitation work of "emphasizing medical equipment and neglecting rehabilitation" can only solve some problems, but fails to touch on the complex social and psychological factors related to the start, maintenance and relapse of drug abuse. The detoxification model that conforms to the essence of detoxification inevitably requires the detoxification system to realize the process unity of physical detoxification, psychological rehabilitation and social regression, which is the "trinity" detoxification system. Of course, its ultimate goal is re-socialization, so that drug addicts can "identify, treat, educate, care after treatment, recover and reintegrate into society". First, handle family relations well. When drug addicts are discharged from hospital and integrated into normal life, the first thing they face is the problem of returning to their families. After leaving school, many students often complain because they lack the trust of their families. At the same time, their confidence in drug rehabilitation may be hit by the suspicion of their families, which may lead to depression, trouble and even recurrence. In order to prevent this from happening, I want to introduce some communication skills with my family. (1) Be responsible for your actions. First of all, it must be clear that the family's distrust of themselves is caused by disappointment again and again. What they should consider is what to do and how to do it, so as to win the trust of their families. Since it is the reason why we don't trust our family, we should also behave well and give our family reasons to trust us. (2) Learn to communicate with your family. Communicate more, discuss your thoughts and plans with your family, and gain their understanding and trust with a sincere and tolerant heart. (3) Be aware of asking for help. Our help-seekers can be psychologists or relatives and friends who can provide us with correct help, so as to face and solve family contradictions and conflicts after detoxification. Second, deal with social relations (1) and learn to refuse drug friends. Many friends who quit drugs have summed up a classic lesson, that is, "quit friends first, then quit drugs." As the saying goes, "always walk by the river, there is no shoe that is not wet" and "those who are near ink are black". If you continue to associate with drug friends, you are carrying an untimely bomb with you. (2) Learn how to communicate with normal people. Because drug abuse narrows the social circle, people will have a strong sense of inferiority, fear and sensitivity when interacting with normal people. They worry that others will look down on themselves and feel inferior because they know they are taking drugs. We must correctly understand and consciously help ourselves to improve in this respect, otherwise this kind of psychology will only lead us to become more closed, unable to maintain natural communication with ordinary people, and even intentionally or unintentionally refuse to communicate, and finally have to return to the circle of drug addicts. Third, enrich your life. In the process of returning to society, the most terrible thing is to be idle and easy to be empty, bored and bored. Maintaining this state for a long time may eventually compromise with drugs and embark on the road of relapse. As the saying goes, "Don't fight an uncertain battle", we can discuss our plans with our families before leaving school, make mental preparations and ensure the implementation of the plans. The following are some suggestions for life after school: (1) Make your life full and rich. You can find something you like to do, or you can use your spare time to go shopping with your family or good friends and take part in fitness activities, such as running, playing ball games, climbing mountains and so on. This can relieve the mental state of anxiety and depression just out of school, as well as some other pressures! (2) Learn healthy communication and normal emotional expression, and share your emotions with your family in time. (3) Develop long-term and short-term goals step by step, learn to master your emotions, and cultivate the ability to delay satisfying your desires. (4) Break through the material life mode, learn to develop a deep love and dedication complex, love and help yourself, love your family, love your friends, and love those socially disadvantaged groups who need help more than yourself. (5) Constantly discover and dig meaningful things and truths, do meaningful things, be meaningful people, and realize meaningful dreams. Family, society and life are the spiritual basis for drug addicts to resist relapse, and each coordination requires the joint efforts of individuals and members of society. Here, I sincerely hope that every drug addict can get rid of the temptation of drugs and step into a sunny and happy life again.