Well, my boyfriend and I were on the escalator, and there were not many cars around, so I motioned for him to kiss me. So we kissed symbolically through two masks. Kissing me gives me a little satisfaction. Then I was overwhelmed by my satisfaction. Scared. Yeah, there are so many people. Why do I like to do intimate actions? I used to chat with people downstairs in the university dormitory. Boyfriend and girlfriend. There is not much difference in this matter.
I thought about why I like it. Kissing in public. I think my psychology may be the same as the motivation to show love in a circle of friends, in order to create romance or commemorative significance. At the same time, I also want to know what is the psychological motivation of others making out in public. I asked my boyfriend first, and he said: I don't like being too close in public, which makes me uncomfortable, but I can accept kissing, and you made me do it. Well, that's a good answer.
Then I made a small interview in the circle of friends. There are men and women, little white lovers and love experts ... then, the magical gossip appears. ...
The motive for making out openly,
Environment, but regardless of gender.
According to my small-scale interview survey in the circle of friends, everyone likes to make out in public. Motivation is basically divided into the following categories.
Anonymous | Male | Beijing |26 years old | Financial industry
Making out in public is just an accident, not suitable for public places.
I know some boys like it very much. Xiu you know xx, every time we go out to play, he always kisses his girlfriend in front of us or something. In fact, several buddies don't like it. Who doesn't have a girlfriend yet? But hug your girlfriend in front of everyone, and other girls don't want to. I think this act of making out in public is too much. You can love acting, but you must respect girls. Anyway, there are many such boys who are particularly close to their girlfriends in public, just to let other boys see me having sex with me. These boys have never seen girls.
In public, my ex-girlfriend and I would never do anything too intimate. The best we can do is kiss when others are not looking. I think this level is acceptable to me. Usually when you think she's cute, it's just an accident and you won't make out for the sake of making out in public.
2| anonymous | male | Zhengzhou |28 years old | institution
Girlfriend has a good figure, so she wants to be angry with others.
Boys make out with their girlfriends in business occasions, in fact, most of them are for showing off. In fact, it is the same as buying a new pair of sneakers to bask in the sun. My girlfriend has a good figure. Every time I hug her or do something in public, I can feel that many men around me are giving me envious eyes ... maybe they will think I am a rich man.
Wang Wangwang | Male | Hangzhou |25 years old | Internet giant
Making out in public places, cinemas and high-speed railway station. ...
I don't like that kind of intimacy in public, regardless of the occasion. I can accept that cinemas and bars are very close, and it won't be abrupt to do some intimate behavior in these places, but what do you want me to do on the street or in the subway ... I will feel embarrassed and think others are very hot. Also, in high-speed railway station, my girlfriend is in Shanghai. We are in different places at present. Every meeting and parting is in high-speed railway station, hangzhou east railway station and Hongqiao Station. There are many memories of our kisses and hugs. I don't know if it counts as making out in public
Philippines | Suzhou |27 years old | Education industry
I like kissing in public occasionally.
I want the world to witness my happiness.
Before I met him, my relationship was not smooth. I never thought I would meet that person. But his appearance gave me confidence and emotional hope. Although I hold hands most of the time outside, I occasionally kiss or hug. Whenever these times, I feel that this feeling is very practical, and there is a sense of satisfaction that the whole world has witnessed my happiness.
Rita | Shenzhen |24 years old | Internet giant
I hope we can hug each other tightly at unforgettable moments.
They are all adults. In fact, everyone has a proper limit to making out in public. My boyfriend and I won't be too close outside, but there are times when we hope to be physically close. For example, on Christmas Eve, we listen to songs in bars, watch live performances by our favorite bands, watch Disney's fireworks show and blow out birthday candles together ... some unforgettable moments, I hope we can hug or kiss tightly. I think the intimate relationship at this time is particularly beautiful. I want to seize every beautiful moment in my life.
Grey | Shanghai |29 years old | Designer
Boyfriend is too handsome to show off.
My boyfriend has been working out for many years, and his figure is really great! Besides, he is handsome and has good taste in clothes. The first time I saw him, I thought, God, how can there be such a handsome man? Every time I walk down the street hand in hand with my boyfriend, many girls look at me with complicated eyes. Maybe they are wondering how this girl found such a handsome boyfriend. I like to spend time with my boyfriend kisses and hugs on business occasions. I can't wait for the whole world to see that such a handsome man is my boyfriend.
(I don't know whether it's envy or jealousy)
Serious discussion &; & amp
Why on earth do people like making out in public?
I don't know if you have noticed, but the boy and girl on it kissed in public. There is hardly much difference in motivation. That's all: 1. Show off, 2. Commemoration, 3. Occasional passion, 4. Share happiness. ...
However, the results of related research are quite different from my conclusion.
Some experts say: it is the externalization of psychological motivation. Making out in public is mainly to show off your sexual partner. Women care more about the eyes of the outside world and are less likely to show off their possession of men.
However, Peach expressed doubts about this related research result. Because the sisters around Tao Zi will try their best to show off to their sisters as long as they fall in love with handsome guys. They just want to share it with you. In fact, there is no difference between girls and boys in dealing with this matter. When you meet a handsome/beautiful partner, you will desperately want to show off, and showing off your partner is also showing off your sexual charm. This is a very human behavior.
This reminds me that when courting, the male hedgehog will run around the female hedgehog, and the female hedgehog is very lively. The more the male hedgehog spins, the happier he will be. After all, this is a rare opportunity to show your fertility and sexual attraction.
People can't get rid of rights. In terms of cultural genes. Fertility rate. Public pursuit and intimacy may be out of commemoration or sharing, but the genes that show off fertility are definitely at work.
Although it is indeed reasonable for human beings to make out in public places, we should pay attention to everything. If you are too intimate in public just to satisfy a temporary selfish desire, it will easily turn into a confusing behavior with spicy eyes. Please check in at this time!
However, if it is only appropriate intimacy, or for some romantic or meaningful motives, then your intimate picture will also be a moving landscape in the eyes of people around you.