Video caption: "My cousin Tsinghua's annual salary is 60W after graduation. I always thought he was admitted to Tsinghua by IQ. Later, I discovered that behind the glamorous, I made more efforts! "
Think of a group of Huawei night group pictures I saw on the Internet:
At 8: 30 in the evening, I believe many of us have finished dinner, played games and talked about variety shows, and entered retirement mode ahead of schedule, while Huawei's office building is still brightly lit.
At 23: 25, the first wave of people who got off work walked out of Huawei Building one after another.
After 24 o'clock, most employees walked out of the building and rushed home in waves.
During the Spring Festival of 20 19, Ren released the email "Average annual salary of Huawei employees reaches 165438+ 10,000 yuan", which made the whole network jealous.
The annual salary of 600,000 yuan, Tsinghua Xueba,1100,000 yuan, and Huawei employees ... are enough to attract people's attention and make them envy.
However, many people only see the glorious label of Xueba, and only see tens of millions of high incomes. As everyone knows, behind those glamorous things are the unremitting efforts in the dark and the high-intensity efforts to work overtime all the year round.
Writer Liu Tong said, "You have to work very hard to look effortless."
You never know, or you may not understand, why some people still insist on studying every day after graduation and entering the society, and why some people can regard overtime as the normal state of life and the joy of growth.
Some people say that people who study for life will become better and better, and will open up many peers; And those who always deceive themselves will gradually fall behind.
The deeper you live, the deeper you feel.
After I graduated from graduate school, I was lucky enough to get an enviable job, and soon became familiar with the work and became the backbone of my business.
Working day after day with the praise of everyone with the income that I didn't dare to think about before. When I was working in the second and third years, I thought I was qualified to enjoy the peace of life.
It was not until I transferred to Beijing in the fourth year that I found my idea of being a frog in a well very ridiculous. People who are better than themselves are everywhere. I used to feel that the advantage in a different environment has become a disadvantage, and the so-called overtime that I often contact is nothing at all.
It suddenly dawned on me that in my past work, I just "lived on my laurels" on the basis of my previous education.
In the first three years of my work, I made little progress except a little accumulated experience.
Therefore, in the new environment, for a while, I felt very uncomfortable.
I know the reason for this difficulty, but my ability is not enough to match the stricter job requirements.
In order to break through such difficulties, we must first abandon the once narrow and limited cognition, adjust our mentality, return to zero, and then set out.
After making such adjustments and efforts, when I adjusted my work again, I found that the beginning was much smoother than I expected.
Thinking determines the way out, and cognition determines the level.
I read a passage like this:
"Unless you rely on luck, you will never earn money beyond your cognitive range; However, the money earned by luck will often be lost by strength later, which is an inevitable trend. Every penny you earn is your realization of world knowledge; Every penny you lose is because your understanding of the world is flawed. "
Many people stop learning new knowledge after work, and over time they become short-sighted and backward. Compared with those who insist on learning, improve their professional knowledge and broaden their horizons, the gap is getting bigger and bigger.
If you want to rewrite your life through hard work, you must break through the limitations of thinking, keep learning and upgrade your cognition.
Presumably, every time you open the WeChat official account, there will be such news coming to you:
Buying a house three months after graduation in 1995, peers are abandoning you; After graduating for 3 years, the annual salary is over 654.38+0 million: making money is a kind of practice; The threshold of financial freedom in first-tier cities is 290 million. Let's see how much you still need …
We dare not resign, get sick, get married, have children, eat instant noodles, and live in dilapidated houses by bus.
While enduring all kinds of grievances and contempt, squeeze out an ugly smile in front of annoying leaders or customers. ...
But many times, we don't understand why we are so busy working all day, but we are still poor to death.
In The Story of Seven Pa, Cai Kangyong revealed in one issue that "Luo Zhenyu insisted on reading a book every day for seven consecutive years".
People inside and outside the meeting were deeply touched. What is the concept of reading a book every day?
Can we ordinary people, not to mention one, insist on reading once a day?
Someone once summed up the five manifestations of contemporary waste:
The most liked message in the comment area: "Why are you spying on my life?"
In reality, many people are like this. Every day at home, I am anxious while brushing the news, doing nothing to brush the drama and play games. Seeing that others took fitness writing as a sideline, I wrote down a list of tasks for the second half of the year in my mind. When the alarm rang at 8 o'clock the next day, I complained that my mobile phone was too noisy.
In the face of things beyond my cognitive range, I admire and question ridicule. My heart is as hot as the explosion of the universe, but I am always indifferent to my actions.
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
And we are muddled and busy, but we feel that we have accomplished nothing and got nothing. Basically, there is a lack of cognition and strict self-discipline to maintain and increase their own value.
We always envy those people with clear thinking, clear goals and dazzling progress, but we don't know that behind them is courage and determination, persistence and accumulation day by day.
If you can't make money beyond your cognitive range, try to improve your cognitive width and depth.
This is the best time. If a person has the will to learn, he can learn almost anything online.
Real cattle people have regarded learning as a way of life and made a little progress every day.
Face the problems you don't understand and learn; Face new things and learn; Face the trend and learn.
The world is changing, only learning remains the same.
Writer Li Shanglong said: "The only constant in this world is change itself. Only by making progress every day is the most stable life. "
If you don't know how to do it, I suggest you ask yourself a question before going to bed every day: Did I learn a little more today than yesterday?
Take out a calendar, tick it if you have it, and cross it if you don't.
Stick to it for a month, I think it will touch you to think: we eat and sleep every day, but we don't study every day. Why?
Don't underestimate the accumulated strength.
A picture that once circulated on the Internet:
If you take everything as 1, 1.0 1, you will be more serious on the basis of completing 1, and 0.99 means that you will choose to be perfunctory when approaching 1.
At first glance, 1.0 1 is similar to 0.99, with only a difference of 0.02. However, after 365 days, the persistent people have made a qualitative leap, and the perfunctory people are too small to be seen at all. There are always some people in life who have a very low starting point, but they can make persistent efforts to change their lives through their own cognitive upgrading.
Some things, instead of worrying about the future, it is better to learn to do first.
I don't know when it started, but it became a shame to be serious when there were more people pretending.
Roommates play games all day, you soak in the library, and you are isolated;
Colleagues get together to chat and make jokes, and you work hard and do things seriously, leading to being excluded;
Friends get together to chat about all the entertainment gossip of parents. You wanted to talk about something profound, but you got the cold shoulder.
"Almost" has become a common language. "If you are serious, you will lose" has become everyone's excuse. Is that really the case?
Recently, the movie "The Big Winner" has received numerous praises.
The bank clerk played by Dapeng is rigorous, which perfectly explains the power of "seriousness" for us.
As a veteran, he works in a bank. Although the position is not high, everything should be meticulous. Walking on the road, pick up the mineral water bottle when you see it;
The hat of the security guard in the bank lobby is crooked, so he should go forward to help him straighten up;
Such people are the least popular in the workplace.
But be rigorous and firmly believe that there is nothing wrong with being serious in everything.
In a robbery drill jointly conducted by the bank and the municipal public security bureau, everyone thought that it was almost a formality, but he attached great importance to it and devoted himself to playing the role of "robber". He even formulated a strict "three-step" strategy for himself, strengthened his physical strength, made overall plans and finalized details.
Comprehensively study and consider how to carry out robbery. This study is several times more serious than the real robbers. However, his seriousness was ridiculed and reviled after the actual exercise began. The police advised him that it was just an exercise. Is it necessary to be so serious?
No one expected that everyone's eyes were as rigorous as "sick", but because of serious drills, they really found loopholes in the bank security system. He stuck the camera with gum; Ask each hostage to hand over his mobile phone; When exchanging hostages, one pregnant woman equals two people ... These seemingly insignificant details have become the key to his "stubborn resistance".
Finally, "successfully" defeated six policemen and controlled eight hostages.
In order to deal with him, the special police also went out and arranged snipers.
The original half-hour practice was dragged on until the evening, and people who laughed at the rigorous "dead brain" at first were gradually impressed by him.
The police who think that "the work can be done in 5 minutes" are convinced; The bank president who wants to kiss the leader's ass and do superficial work is shot in the head; Colleagues who were too strict and eventful paid him more respect.
Even the director of the Public Security Bureau sincerely praised him: "Those who work hard are the big winners."
In Slam Dunk, Hanamichi Sakuragi said:
"Don't force me to be serious, because once I am serious, you will lose."
Yes, there are more and more "smart people" in the world at present, and shortcuts are getting easier and easier.
However, I always believe that the more serious the age of scarcity, the more serious it is to move forward. Only in this way can you make a blockbuster and dump others for more than a dozen blocks seemingly inadvertently.
At the age of 80, Chu Shijian turned over dozens of popular science books on growing oranges and became an industry expert.
Bo Huang broke 37 pairs of shoes and shot a role, becoming a billion-dollar film emperor; Jobs made hundreds of live simulations for a PPT speech. ......
You have to believe that when society begins to become impetuous, those serious "fools" will become winners instead.
So, no matter what kind of work you are doing, what kind of goals and dreams you have, please take it seriously and work hard.
"Almost finished" and "if you are serious, you will lose" ... these are just words of the weak, which are perfunctory to lower your level. If you really believe them, you will have a life that can make do with everything.
If you want a good figure, you must take diet and exercise seriously; If you want to get good grades, you must take homework and courses seriously; If you want to work well, you must take products and customers seriously.
When this society becomes hypocritical and honest, do you lose?
When the society became evil and kind, did you lose?
When this society becomes impetuous, do you lose if you are serious?
This answer is actually hidden in the last rigorous monologue of the movie "The Big Winner":
What I experienced, many people are experiencing in reality.
Being left out by family members, being misunderstood by leaders, being excluded by colleagues, and feeling out of place with the whole society.
No matter how hard you try, life will not improve.
So I began to complain and complain, trying to get something for nothing.
I hope I can be a lesson to you now.
If your efforts have no results, please try harder.
If you want a wonderful and colorful life, please break all the shackles and start living hard.
Stay serious, no matter how many people have laughed at your seriousness and your boredom, one day, they will lag far behind your seriousness.
The world is most afraid of the word serious.
Many times, the gap between people is opened in this way.