It is correct that all virtues put filial piety first and elders first. Although it seems irresponsible to his existing family, it is the most correct thing he can do as a son. It is true that he still has a daughter in his current family, but personally, he only has one mother. For a person who cares about filial piety, you can't let him choose to give up his mother and take care of his family.
Although it is not to say that when a person is very filial, it can bring a better tomorrow to his family. But if a person says that filial piety is very important in his eyes, then he will certainly not treat other relatives too badly. Being a parent at the same time is the biggest debt for children in this life. What children can do is to give their parents a stable old age and bring them a belated happiness. Similarly, when they have diseases, they should not choose to give up easily or even ignore them.
For such a filial person, family is absolutely important in his heart. Similarly, for a man who regards his mother as so important, family status is also the most important in his heart. A man who can make such a decision for his mother is definitely a man worth relying on. Although he seems desperate at this time, he did it for his mother. Similarly, even if they lose everything to treat their mother, such people will definitely leave a room in their hearts, and this room is to ensure the basic life of the family.
While ensuring the basic life of his family, he is willing to give his all to save his mother. Such a move is the greatest reward he can make as a son. At this time, as a wife, he should choose to understand rather than complain. He shouldn't complain that he only has his mother in his eyes, or even say that some people should leave when they are old, so don't care. Such a move will only make him feel chilling, and will only make him feel that your wife doesn't understand him. Not even a qualified wife.
You can earn money without money, but there is only one mother. For him, money is a thing apart from himself. If you can exchange money for his mother and let yourself spend a few more days with his mother as a son, then no amount of money can buy the joy brought by this result. On the other hand, if a man's husband can do so much for his mother, he will treat his wife's mother or father in the same way. Although he may not be able to do what he did in front of his father, it will never be too bad and will never be ignored.