In the process of recovery, we often talk about not exposing too much sense of need, but I find that many people are still not easy to control in the recovery stage, so today I want to talk about the problem of sense of need. First, let's understand the concept of demand. Generally, Baidu has no specific explanation for the meaning of this word, and the explanation is also a very abstract concept. It contains too many emotional factors. It is not only complicated but also intertwined, and everyone has different needs. Even everyone has different needs for different things at each stage.

Therefore, we can roughly interpret it as someone's demand for something. From the perspective of human nature, once a person needs something, he will get it by some means. If the means can't achieve the goal, then he will have a kind of servility in his heart, hoping to influence the other party's efforts to see him by lowering his posture. Therefore, after revealing your sense of need, you will easily arouse this inner servility, and then there will be a series of behaviors, such as active participation, kneeling, licking and praying.

So if you don't want to expose your sense of need, you must first solve a psychological problem. Control your desires. Actually, it's not just on the surface that you haven't contacted her. You have to believe that you can't eat hot tofu if you are impatient. You need to solve everything slowly. The more anxious you are, the worse the result will be. Therefore, the more you are eager to save the pressure brought to her, the more she feels like a snot that she can't get rid of, and the more she reacts to others. Therefore, in order to remain calm and at a loss, we can only make things worse and worse. Calm down and analyze the reason why you broke up.

Is there any misunderstanding between you, or is it because you have been together for too long and your feelings have cooled down, or is it because you have sent the girl away too much, and she doesn't want to cherish you and find out the cause of the problem, then we can prescribe the right medicine. Many people think that I won't expose my sense of need, just like I let her calm down for a while, and I won't keep you.

This of course means that I won't expose my sense of need. In this way, girls will think that you don't cherish this relationship at all, and then they will think that breaking up is the right choice, so when you want to contact her again after a while, I'm sorry, it's too late. Another person said, how to grasp the degree of frequent contact? Don't let the other person feel that you are lowering your posture and staying the same. All the above are personal opinions.