I told the truth when I heard this sentence the year I graduated. At that time, my heart was full of contempt. With a newborn calf, I am not afraid of tigers, and I always feel that the earth will not turn without me. Maybe with the change of time, we will all become mature.
The general manager of my friend's company joined just after graduation. He went from an ordinary salesman to the top three of the group's performance and trained the general managers of six branches. Later, it was because the Shandong market needed elite soldiers to come to Jinan from Beijing. During his seven years in this company, he witnessed the establishment of this company from the very beginning to 365,438+0 molecular company. He himself has grown from a rural guy to an elite in the workplace. Almost all the best years of youth have been given to this company, not to mention feelings.
What happened afterwards was very sad. Their general manager likes studying very much, but he is not good at learning with a team. His business model is also telemarketing, which has not been changed to consultative selling. Later, he left the company because of poor performance. After leaving this company, seven years of youth and bloody battle will be over. I thought that employees would be separated because of the departure of the general manager, but I didn't expect this company's monthly performance to exceed one million.
This incident touched me deeply. For employees, when your growth rate can't keep up with that of the company, you will be abandoned. Maybe you have paid a lot, but you also got the reward you deserved at that time. And when you leave, you will not let a company close down because of you personally, but will develop better. You are weak and the company is strong. You should try your best to keep up with the trend of the strong.
When driving on the road, there are always old drivers who tell them to "love life and stay away from big trucks". But there are always friends who rely on their own good skills and like to change lanes frequently, block left and right, and drive in a snake shape. Once, when I was showing off my driving skills, I quickly changed lanes and directly hit a large truck driving normally on the right.
His car almost hit a big truck directly, and the roof was squashed. In the sharp brake sound, it was wrapped and slid nearly 10 meters. He was badly injured in the head, fractured ribs and damaged spleen, and was hospitalized for half a year.
Friends take full responsibility for traffic accidents. For people on the road, cars are weak and big trucks are strong. The weak party doesn't know how to obey the traffic rules, so it will have to pay for itself. So we must learn to follow the rules, and everyone will follow them. The world is naturally free and peaceful.
For these two things, the general manager and the car are both weak. The unchangeable rule is that the right to speak is always in the hands of the strong. As a weak person, you can only choose to accept it. If we touch this principle, it is undeniable that only ourselves will be hurt.
There is also a weak thinking called, I am weak and I am reasonable. I don't know if there is a moment in your life when everyone is good at crying and crying, as if you are not the worst person in the world and you are embarrassed to live.
Girls should pay attention to their looks. We went to a class to learn body etiquette and make-up. The colleague next to him said, "You are so tired from work. Learn what successful people should do. If you think someone will be watching you, go home and wash and sleep. " Therefore, people who study study both inside and outside, while those who complain are careless.
Concrete analysis, the existing position and company are not suitable for me, so I want to jump. The friend said, "What shall we dance? We don't have any core competitiveness, professional skills and connections. The more we jump, the more we die. It is better to stay here. " So the people who changed careers found their dreams, got a promotion and a raise, and the people who waited were mixed up.
Let's meet and go to the gym to exercise. The friend said, "What do you practice?" What's the big deal? I just think it looks good. I can't do anything with this spare money. As a result, people who exercise keep healthy and fit, while those who don't exercise are bloated and sick.
It is obvious from these examples that what reason do they use not to change? I am weak and reasonable, not that I will not change, but that I am reasonable. I am so miserable, what can I change? Look, this reason is so impressive.
The typical idea of this kind of people is that the world is unfair and it is natural for others to get everything, so good luck has never come to me. They try to prove that they are not good enough because they have no good elements, not because they don't work hard enough.
What do we do? Accept ourselves, your laziness and your fear. We will have many kinds of emotions. No matter what kind of mood we are in, remember what Teacher Zhang Defen said: "Dear, there is no one outside except ourselves".
Many times, why do the weak think frequently? In fact, it's nothing more than that you don't know how to deal with emotions and yourself. Explore life and find answers.