When you meet a noble person at the end of depression, you will help each other again and again, just like a bosom friend.
On a Saturday in August, 2004, in a corner of Xinhua Bookstore in nanjing xinjiekou, Ai Jianguo was reading a best-selling book called "So Becoming a Sales Champion". He was so fascinated by the content that his boss Joo Won? called him twice, but he didn't answer.
"Hello, Manager Zhou!" Jane saw his boss and greeted him nervously. Joo Won? patted him on the shoulder: "If you study so hard, you will go far in the future." Ai Jianguo smiled shyly. When Joo Won? was leaving, he turned around and said, "You can come to me directly if you encounter any difficulties in the future." Inadvertently recognized by his boss, Ai Jianguo's depression for many days suddenly dissipated.
Ai Jianguo, 1976, from Zhumadian, Henan. Both parents are farmers, and there are two brothers and sisters at home. He is the boss. In 2002, he was admitted to China Pharmaceutical University for postgraduate study. In July 2004, after graduating from graduate school, Ai Jianguo applied to join a large pharmaceutical joint-stock company in Nanjing. In order to train new people and let them go to the marketing department first, Joo Won? became his superior leader. Due to his inexperience, introverted personality and unsociable communication, Ai Jianguo encountered many difficulties in his work. But he didn't give up. He became more diligent and found relevant books to expand his knowledge. After meeting in the bookstore, Joo Won? was deeply impressed by Ai Jianguo's progress. After that, he intends to guide the young man to work. In September, many people became full-time employees. Although some people didn't perform well, they managed to pass some private activities. At this time, Ai Jianguo's performance was not good and his activity plan was not good, so he was questioned when he became a full member. When the human resources department planned to fire him, Joo Won? urged the public to extend his evaluation period. In the following month, Joo Won? took the initiative to help Ai Jianguo clear his mind and contact customers, and his performance improved greatly. On the day when he was approved to become a regular employee, Ai Jianguo summoned up his courage and carefully sent a short message to Joo Won?, saying, "When I know, I will repay you." . Joo Won? replied brightly, let's have a drink together that evening. That night, in a restaurant in Xinjiekou, they pushed a cup for a change and got as drunk as a fiddler.
That day, Ai Jianguo learned that Joo Won? was 10 years older than him. He comes from Wuxi and graduated from MBA. He has been married for five years. My daughter just turned 2, and my wife works in a hospital in Wuxi. Every week, he drives home to see them. Ai Jianguo has never been in love. He is very envious of Joo Won?'s successful career and happy marriage. He raised his glass and said to Joo Won?, "You are my noble man. Let me know if you need me in the future. " Joo Won? asked Ai Jianguo to work hard and not to waste his youth. Joo Won?'s encouragement made Ai Jianguo, who had always felt inferior, full of hope for his future. ...
After drinking, Joo Won? asked the driver to send Ai Jianguo back to the rental place first. Knowing that Ai had difficulties in life at this time, he said, "I am renting a house now, and I have rented two rooms and one living room. My wife and daughter only come to Nanjing occasionally, and I often go on business trips or go back to my hometown. You might as well stay with me and save some rent. " In the face of such kindness, AI Jianguo is even more grateful to Joo Won?. Soon, Ai Jianguo moved from his humble rental house with less than 65,438+00 square meters to an upscale rental house in Joo Won?. The unsociable Ai Jianguo and Joo Won? became closer. Just when Ai Jianguo's work improved, something happened again. At the end of 10, he found a wallet at work. When he returned it to his colleague, his colleague joked, "Why are you missing 500 yuan?" Hearing this, Ai Jianguo, who seldom jokes with others at ordinary times, felt that his self-esteem was hurt and punched his colleague to the ground. Therefore, the influence is not good, and the company leaders want to expel Ai Jianguo. It was Joo Won?'s insistence on applying first and then reviewing that prevented him from being expelled. From then on, Ai Jianguo regarded Joo Won? as a bosom friend. At the same time, he also hopes that Joo Won? will become his bosom friend while attaching importance to him. However, because of the relationship between superiors and subordinates, Ai Jianguo felt a little uncomfortable. Sometimes he rushed into the elevator in front of Joo Won?, and the other party was a little unhappy. What makes him uncomfortable is Joo Won?'s wife He Yunruo. She is six years younger than Joo Won?, and she looks average. Ai Jianguo felt as if she regarded herself as a servant. She often shouts in the living room, "Little Ai, will you do me a favor?" Actually, it's just to get a hanger, or go downstairs and help her carry the food upstairs. Despite his wife's behavior, Joo Won? seems to have said nothing. This made Ai Jianguo feel that he had not been regarded as an equal good friend last week.
"Dafang" borrowed 300,000 yuan, but did not write a loan to bury the curse.
After the Spring Festival in 2005, Joo Won? suddenly resigned from the company. The reason is that he went to another joint-stock pharmaceutical company and became the deputy manager of the business development department with an annual salary of 200,000. Ai Jianguo didn't know the news until the day he resigned. He felt that Joo Won? didn't disclose the news to him in advance, and probably still didn't trust him. But on second thought, maybe it's because Joo Won? is more cautious about his future. So, I didn't study it again. Joo Won? moved after leaving the unit, and Ai Jianguo rented a house near the unit. Because of the loss of Joo Won?, Ai Jianguo's performance dropped sharply. In order to prove that it can be done without Joo Won?, Ai Jianguo came up with the idea of starting a business. But starting a business needs money, and his family is not good. How does he raise money? At the beginning of March, he called his tutor for the first time when he was a graduate student. As a result, the tutor poured cold water on him. "You are a foreigner, a stranger in Nanjing, no connections. It is difficult to start a business. It is better to lay a good foundation first. " The teacher's rational analysis is not to Ai Jianguo's taste. Then, he asked Joo Won?, who jumped off the boat, to go out. Unexpectedly, Joo Won? gave special support to his entrepreneurship: "I have some good resources at hand, and I can introduce them to you later. Let's make a fuss about selling drugs. In this way, you can take fewer detours. " Ai Jianguo listened to his analysis and nodded his head. However, when Ai Jianguo mentioned the lack of venture capital, Joo Won? said there was nothing he could do: "My money is with my wife, or I can't get it out!" Speaking of which, Ai Jianguo couldn't help it. Afterwards, he analyzed that Joo Won? did this because he had neither status nor money. In order to create money and status for himself, Ai Jianguo quickly resigned from his former unit and persuaded a distant relative to give him about 654.38 million yuan for starting a business. At the beginning of May 2005, according to Joo Won?'s proposal, he registered a medicinal materials company. In Xuanwu District, I rented a storefront (near Joo Won?) and hired five guys to sell medicinal materials through commercial channels in Joo Won? to earn the difference. At this time, Joo Won? also fulfilled his promise and introduced some excellent customer resources to him, so that Ai Jianguo quickly earned the first bucket of gold.
After winning the first battle, Ai Jianguo was so excited that he specially hosted a banquet for Joo Won? in a famous seafood restaurant. In the midst of all the fuss, Ai Jianguo began to imagine the future situation after the company became bigger and stronger. At this time, Jane has confidence, and when she is with him, she is no longer as stiff as before. After drinking, Yi Jianguo put his hand on Joo Won?'s shoulder and staggered along. Joo Won? was afraid that Ai Jianguo would fall, and he also put his arm around his waist. Joo Won?'s intimacy made Ai Jianguo feel that they were really good friends. After the normal operation of the company, Ai Jianguo rented a more exquisite apartment and bought a brand-name suit to make him look like a successful person. He felt that Joo Won? seemed to be more iron to him at this moment, and invited him to play golf or visit at home every few days. When he came to Joo Won?'s residence again, Ai Jianguo felt that He Yunruo was more polite than before. This made Ai Jianguo feel a sense of accomplishment.
In 2007, Ai Jianguo had a lot of savings. He is going to buy a house in Nanjing, then find a suitable object, get married and have children, and really live like Joo Won?. However, then something happened that caught Ai Jianguo off guard. According to Ai Jianguo's confession, in June 5438+1mid-October, 2007, Joo Won? came to his residence and said he wanted to borrow some money from him to buy a house. Ai Jianguo hesitated. After all, he also plans to buy a house in the near future. Joo Won? said with red eyes, "It's really hard for us to be separated for so many years. The children are going to school. If you don't transfer your hukou, it will still be a trouble to go to school in the future. You don't have the pressure of a wife and children, so you can't feel my pain for the time being ... "In the face of a good friend's pleading, Ai Jianguo said generously," Tell me how much money I need and I will try my best to help you. " Joo Won? asked him if he could borrow 500,000 pounds. Ai Jianguo hesitated after listening. He saved 300 thousand one after another. But he insisted: "I have 300 thousand in my hand." Do you think so? " Joo Won? agreed. Then he wanted to write an iou to Ai Jianguo, who stopped him: "I still don't trust Big Brother? Without big brother, I wouldn't be where I am today. You can use the money first. " Facts have proved that it is this unwritten IOU that has laid the curse. In June 2007, Joo Won? spent nearly 2 million yuan to buy the high-grade residence of Lanshan International Apartment on Heilongjiang Road. On the day of housewarming, Ai Jianguo came to help Joo Won? move. When AI Jianguo counted the items, he found that in addition to high-grade mahogany furniture and valuable fitness equipment, there were several boxes of high-grade cosmetics of He Yunruo and some antique cultural relics of unknown age from his hometown. These total values are over one million. The thought of Joo Won? being so rich made Ai Jianguo's inflated vanity angry. The idea of "giving charcoal in the snow" has become "icing on the cake". Ai Jianguo was at a loss. He wants his money back, but he is afraid of hurting his buddies' feelings and affecting his business. So, I have been unable to speak. In the Spring Festival of 2008, when I saw Ai Jianguo spending the New Year alone in Nanjing, Joo Won? said he would introduce him to a girlfriend. "I asked your sister-in-law to be your matchmaker. She knows many girls. " Ai Jianguo thanked Joo Won? again.
A week later, He Yunruo really introduced a girlfriend named Sun to Ai Jianguo. But this girlfriend, as soon as she was in contact with Ai Jianguo, dragged him to buy brand-name clothes and cosmetics. Ai Jianguo saw that he had been slaughtered and refused to meet twice. In the next month or two, He Yunruo introduced him to two or three girlfriends, all of whom were the same in the eyes of Ai Jianguo, and he did not continue to associate. He Yunre some complaints, Li Jian also feel boring.
At the end of July, 2008, Ai Jianguo was invited to play tennis in his community, and stayed at Zhoujia for dinner in the evening. Careful, he found that he had not seen Joo Won?'s family for several days, and He Yunruo also bought a red Citroen car. Ai Jianguo is a little dissatisfied: you spend so much money and don't know how to pay me back. During the dinner, He Yunruo mentioned finding a girlfriend for Ai Jianguo. He Yunruo said, "Xiao Ai, your family is in the countryside and you have a heavy burden. It's too hard to find. " When Ai Jianguo saw that He Yun looked down on himself, he said, "Now women are as snobbish as you, so don't look for them." A word choked He Yunre speechless, and Joo Won? turned black. After that, Joo Won? rarely asked him out.
Since August 2008, due to the impact of the economic crisis, Ai Jianguo's company's benefits have continued to decline. After Joo Won? reduced contact with him, some customers were also losing. Ai Jianguo called Joo Won?, but the other party always shirked. Ai Jianguo thought, Joo Won? is nothing like a buddy. A few words offended him, and he was too narrow-minded. Luckily, I lent him money to buy a house. In order to win over Joo Won?, at the beginning of 10, Ai Jianguo took the initiative to find Joo Won?. Knowing that Joo Won? liked ancient coins, he found dozens of them from the market and gave them to Joo Won?. After receiving the ancient coins, Joo Won? took a casual look and threw them into the drawer. Looking at the contemptuous eyes of his former friends, Ai Jianguo's inner anger began to boil. But because of his feelings, it is not easy for him to have a seizure in person. At the same time, Ai Jianguo went to the bathroom and felt humiliated and had nowhere to vent. He hit the wall with his fist and made a bang. Joo Won? heard this and shouted, "Are you all right?" Ai Jianguo replied: "Nothing."
In the Spring Festival of 2009, Ai Jianguo was very depressed and the company's benefits were not good. He wants to change careers, but he has no source of funds. There is nothing he can do. He called Joo Won? and wanted to get back the 300,000 he had lent him. Joo Won? faltered that he wanted to discuss it with his wife, and then there was no news. When asked again, the other party replied that it would wait until the end of the year. Joo Won?'s attitude made Ai Jianguo angry: What a bad buddy! He doesn't want to talk about it, and he doesn't want to pay his debts. From then on, he often called Joo Won? to collect debts. At first, Joo Won? said some friendly words, but later he simply didn't answer the phone. He took the initiative to find the community, and Joo Won? sometimes pretended not to be at home. At the end of April, Ai Jianguo lost patience and sent a text message to Joo Won? saying, "If I don't pay back the money, I will sue the court." Joo Won? didn't answer. Ai Jianguo really consulted a lawyer, only to find that it was almost impossible to win the lawsuit because there were no IOUs and no recordings. What should I do? Ai Jianguo thinks things are a bit tricky.
On June 28th, AI Jianguo took the opportunity to block Joo Won? in the downstairs of the community. The three of them came down from upstairs, and their daughter skipped. He Yunruo obviously just had a beauty treatment, and she is full of spring. Ai Jianguo stepped forward and asked, "Brother, when will you give me my money back?" He Yunre listened to the face big change. Joo Won? said awkwardly, "Come back in a few days and I'll prepare something for you." Then he got in the car and disappeared. Looking at Joo Won? in the distance, Ai Jianguo felt very strange and sad. When I returned to my rented place that night, I thought about the ups and downs of my life in the past two years. Ai Jianguo felt sorry for this: for two years, he had been trying to compromise with Joo Won?. He thinks that lending Joo Won? 300,000 yuan can be his best friend. However, as a result, the other party turned against each other and denied people. Too many grievances piled up in his heart, and he felt that the inner grievances and humiliation were more and more unbearable. ...